Couples married a few years easy to divorce

In fact, we can also see that for the two people who have been married, they are likely to face the possibility of wanting to divorce such a state. And there are some people find that they are divorced after a few years, the heart will have such a kind of idea Because in such a married after a few years, they will find each other on some of the shortcomings. And can also include the discovery of their cohabitation in the process of living together, after living together, will find some of the shortcomings, and for each other there is an intolerable attitude.　 Generally the third year is more prone to divorce Although it is said that when in love can tolerate each other without limit, but after married and living together, they will feel so especially tired. Whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as after the marriage, if the other party has some bad practices, so some shortcomings will be unlimited amplification.　So in the first few years of marriage is the most want to divorce a period of time? In fact, it is the third year, because in the first two years of time, they are still in a newlywed state, and for a newlywed couple, is able to tolerate each other on some of the small shortcomings. Including the other body if there are some bad places, they will be due to the other party and their own in the process of love, the performance of some of the better places in opposition.　 The third year is a more fragile year This time they will be because of some of the other party's good, and forget some of his bad habits. But for the third year of their marriage, there are already a lot of trivial things to wear down their relationship. So, if there are some problems between them at this time, there will be very difficult to solve the problem, and for this time they are very fragile emotionally, it is very likely that at this time they will have a love child.　But at this time due to the child's 'coming, will wear down some of the emotions between them, and will make the whole family things become more trivial, but also let their own enthusiasm to be consumed by wear out.　So we can also see that in the third year of marriage is indeed a high incidence of divorce, and such a divorce rate has reached a very high level, especially for some young couples, they are married, usually in the third year or so after the idea of divorce, or have already practiced such a practice.　Couples married a few years easy to divorce 2 1, six months For a few months of marriage is often flash marriage, or know each other for a long time, just got together and chose to get married, such a love, very unstable, got married. After the marriage contradiction will slowly arise, may not be suitable for together, or maybe the two life simply do not fit together, after all, love and marriage is different! In the long run will be quarrelsome and even divorce!　 2, two years Married two years should have a baby, but some men and women do not have the ability to procreate or one side does not want to have a baby! So the family will produce conflicts, quarrels! Once noisy, twice noisy, slowly will feel each other annoying, there is no other does not matter. There is a possibility that the family will not be stabilized without the birth of a baby! This is very easy to divorce!　 3, seven years As the saying goes, three years of pain, seven years of itch! Seven years together is not easy, let alone seven years of marriage. In seven years, more things will happen, seven years of feelings men are very easy to derail! She will find her wife boring and not as pretty as the women out there. After seven years of working a woman, especially a full-time mom, a full-time wife, if she doesn't take care of herself, her face will look haggard, and a man will not like it! Such a man will easily file for divorce!　 4, twenty years Some people may not believe, living together for twenty years, how can divorce it? There is no love and affection it! But some women will take the initiative to file for divorce, because living together for twenty years, the children have grown up. Before has not chosen to divorce, may be because of the child, only to endure for so long, the child grows into an adult, should also be able to understand the parents' approach!　Regardless of how long they have been married, there are divorces, but two people must get married because of love, or they will not necessarily be happy after marriage! After the fight also need to communicate, do not keep all the bad in the heart! That heart can not pass the hurdle, it will never pass!　Couples married a few years easy to divorce 3 1, the first year of marriage Many people do not understand, why the first year of marriage will be easy to divorce it? Just married should not be very happy love?　Yes, it is indeed a happy state of love and happiness, but do not forget that it is not possible to always be in love 24 hours a day. After the first year of marriage, you will gradually get to know your other half, those who did not see the shortcomings in the relationship, a little in front of you to show.　When you are in love, you are very considerate and loving, but after marriage, you find that he is very sloppy, not clean, not clean up the hygiene, if you are an extremely disciplined, and even have a cleanliness fetish, naturally can not tolerate such shortcomings.　When you are in love, you are tender and pampered every day, but after marriage you find that you are always insecure and always want to know where you have been and what you have done, and over time you will feel annoyed and have no freedom.　Love and marriage is, after all, two different things, all happy when in love, want to show their best side to each other, but marriage is the future decades of long life, so many people think of it, think now there have been these shortcomings I can not tolerate, you let me put up with a few decades I can not stand it, and then decisively chose a divorce.　 2, the first year after childbirth After surviving the first year of marriage, you successfully pregnant, but since you are pregnant, your conjugal life will stop, even if there is a need, you can only hold back again and again.　So some men with poor self-control, unable to endure such pain, they secretly betrayed their wives during their pregnancy.　Originally because of the sudden pregnancy, all aspects of the maladaptation, out of shape, no economic resources, every day need to be in the state of the home, so that some of their own irritable wife, after learning of her husband's betrayal, it is more susceptible to suffer from prenatal depression.　After that is a constant accusation, blame, abuse, the woman feels aggrieved, the man feels that the woman is too annoying, so the two sides agreed to divorce after the birth of the child.　Wife pregnant during the man's performance, but also the most can see the human nature, and responsibility, a disregard for his wife's feelings, as well as not yet born in the womb of the fetus in the future of the man, no sense of responsibility, will only consider their own needs, such a man and how can not divorce it?　But often the reality is that many women once a child, even if the husband betrayal is not willing to divorce, because she did not have her own life, she did not know after the divorce, the lack of economic capacity of her how to bring their own children, but also to work and take care of the child's life, so that she think about it and feel devastated.　 3, the seven-year itch It's hard to survive pregnancy, postpartum risk of you, unknowingly came to the seventh year of marriage, at this time you have long been familiar with each other's state, character, freshness and passion left little, and even long gone.　Every day you need to constantly for life, mortgage, car loan, children's tuition, the elderly alimony and worry about you, slowly worn by life without any desire.　Now you are like the left hand touching the right hand, there is no feeling, so suddenly one day one of you feel that life is so boring, feel that this is not the life they want.　One day he suddenly met a and his situation is the same as the opposite sex, they talk to each other, and even suddenly found to find the feeling of love, the heart began to itch, so no matter what, in order to their own want of life lost their moral bottom line.　After you found out, he has blamed himself and regretted, but he is still immersed in that kind of excitement and full of hormones in the atmosphere can not extricate themselves, and ultimately, despite everything, chose to divorce you.　 4, mid-life crisis people to middle age, children in college, work into a family, step by step to fulfill your wishes, but at this time you have long been no love feelings, all rely on affection to support.　You can't talk together, can't play together, you like square dancing, he likes to play chess fishing, you even choose to separate beds, separate rooms to sleep.　The reason is that the two people living habits are different, you hate him snoring, he smacked you can not go to bed early at night, you suddenly see each other's shortcomings in the eyes.　Do not love clean, cooking no salt, every little problem you will accuse each other half a day. Arguments, accusations, become your only bridge of communication.　So one day you feel that their tasks have been completed, the child has also become a family, the time to consider for themselves to consider a good life, so you finally chose to separate.　Couple this life, want to divorce, at any time an excuse can leave, rare is how to be like in the wedding promise, never leave each other, always together, together with the old through life.　Each of us has a different character, who can not be perfect, the most important thing is whether you have a sense of responsibility, whether you can take responsibility, whether you are willing to tolerate, whether you are willing to talk properly, whether you are willing to listen.　I hope you can meet every hurdle, and then step over together, because when you grow old and then look back on the past, it will be the happiness of your life!