Internally, people are born with a strong sense of independence, that is, people say that they are stubborn and mature early. Some people are weak, dependent and mature late.
Externally, people's independence and strength are related to the environment in which people live and grow up. If parents dote on their children, they don't trust their children's actions and don't let go, the children will never grow up. It is often said that the children of poor families have long been masters, and the stone will harden when it comes out of the mountain. This is a fact.
Personally, if you want to be independent and powerful, you must find a job and fall in love with a career. This is the foundation.
More importantly, if you have to experience some setbacks, some blows, some things, some things, you will not grow up, you will not mature, let alone be independent and strong.
In short, to be independent and powerful, people must first have their own sense of handling things. Parents should also let go and let their children handle their own affairs. At the same time, they should not be afraid of difficulties, blows and setbacks. After going through it, they will naturally be independent and strong.