When it comes to poisonous tongue, everyone will think of Venus. Her sharp words in "The Venus Show" kept the show's ratings high, but her show was suspended. Some people said she offended someone, so who did she offend?
1. Everything was kept secret and it offended her peers
Venus posted on social networks that her show had high ratings and offended villains, so she wrote to her boss. This sentence means that the program was stopped because of the villain's mischief. Some people say that this villain may be Cao Kefan.
Cao Kefan, as a very influential host, his field control ability and sharpness in the show are comparable to Venus, and his strength is also very good. The programs he hosted, such as "Can You Listen" and "Top Chef", received very good responses.
The two of them are almost incomparable, so why are they brought up to make excuses? Because the two people's programs are broadcast in the same time period, Cao Kefan's ratings may be lower than Venus, which gives people a lot of associations.
Not only that, Cao Kefan once commented that "reality shows" can create conflicts for the sake of ratings. The content is empty and deliberately hyped. He also believes that pouring all resources into reality shows is tantamount to drinking poison to quench thirst. There are also some programs that are "venomous" and have marginal content. It has to be said that as a responsible old man, he pointed out the problems with reality shows.
In "Fifty Kilometers Taohuawu", Meng Ziyi and Guo Qilin's mutual hostility and unfriendliness with other guests made people feel that this little woman's emotional intelligence is extremely low. Why can a newcomer be like this? The arrangement of the program team can create conflicts and create an upright character.
Speaking of the "Vicious Tongue" program, everyone can easily think of the program hosted by Jin Xing. Her venomous remarks in the show, such as Miss Numbers and the Orange Juice Incident, are not listed here one by one. Everyone felt that the show's suspension had something to do with Cao Kefan.
Is Cao Kefan such a person? He is an excellent host. His programs may not have as high ratings as Venus, but his character is not so bad that he would snitch on the station. After all, the quality of a program cannot be reflected by ratings alone. Just like the quality of film and television works cannot be reflected by box office alone.
Some netizens said that Jin Xing once commented on Cao Kefan in the circle of friends, and his tone was very unfriendly. This is Venus' usual way of speaking and a form of self-promotion. Cao Kefan's words were aimed at an industry, not Jin Xing himself.
The main reason for the suspension of the Venus program was to offend colleagues. This colleague may not be Cao Kefan alone, but many people who host programs. Everyone is eating from the same pot. If you have more, I will have less. This is also what Venus said, the reason why villains write letters.
What’s more, Venus has forgotten Li Ka-shing’s words. He once said that seven points is reasonable and eight points is okay, so I only get six points. If you suffer some losses and everyone makes money, then I will remember your kindness to me. I will also take care of your business in the future.
Probably in order to make the program well done and give everyone a better impression, Teacher Jinxing worked very hard on the program, from the stage layout of "The Venus Show" to the placement of the piano and the timing of playing it. She handled it very carefully. Of course, the show is very effective.
At the same time, everyone has programs broadcast. If your ratings are high, mine will be down. Some people say that Jin Xing cannot control the ratings of the show. Everyone wants to watch it, but she has no idea. Do you want her to fool the audience? She couldn't do this.
This is a misunderstanding. Her program is good because she is careful. She does not ask her to lower her standards, but tells everyone how to improve, so that they can improve together and the ratings will be high. In this way, we can achieve the upgrading and prosperity of the industry, instead of just grabbing a little bit of porridge!
Jin Xing may not have thought about this, and netizens may not have thought about this. Everyone focuses their attention on one person. Does this count as deliberately creating conflict?
2. Vicious words, too destructive, affecting many people
In "Super Speaker Season 3", Venus has very sharp words, and Lejia also had conflicts because of this. In the show, she has a very strong voice, which makes people feel very oppressive. For some netizens, this is true temperament; for those being evaluated, what is it? It's pressure.
Some netizens think that since it is your problem, wouldn’t pointing it out to you help you make progress? Such people were scolded a lot by their parents when they were young, so they think such things are normal. Cai Kangyong once said, don't hurt in the name of love.
When Venus evaluates players face to face, she is hurting them in the name of love. Teacher Jin Xing’s intention was good, but his sharp words to criticize others made him and the audience happy, and he forgot about the contestants. Although it may be a stage effect, for such a short time on stage, the players will be embarrassed.
Similarly, during the broadcast of "Venus Show", she commented on some people, such as Sa Dingding. Her evaluation of this person prompted Sa Dingding to reply on social media. Although the two people did not directly point their noses and curse, they still had a disagreement.
Jin Xing’s response to this was: Sister, I have offended many people, who do you think is the boss? Some people think that this is where the domineering power of Venus lies, and it is also because of this that Venus gets high ratings. Everyone thinks that Sister Jin is such a person. Is Sister Jin’s emotional intelligence really that low?
In a program, Sister Jin said that her son was once told that your mother was a boy. This is very harmful to children. A guest took the opportunity to ask Sister Jin: "Are you a boy or a girl?" For Sister Jin, who has seen strong winds and waves, this question is not a problem at all. She directly said: "I am life."
Sister Jin's venomous mouth is also a kind of personality. In reality, she is not like this. However, the program has a poisonous tongue and gives people the feeling of being stung. Han Xue, who had been on the "Golden Star Show", commented, "We are also people who have been on the show, and we don't do this."
Although it was just a short sentence, it also showed that the person was very unhappy. Han Xue's cultivation does not allow her to say unpleasant words, but this is also an example that shows that Sister Jin's words have hurt some people. Some people say that these people are just hypocritical.
Everyone has vanity, right? If someone told you that your face is ugly here or there, would you feel good? If this person was someone who had more say than you, would you feel hurt? Zhang Xiaofei had a similar experience.
As for Sister Jin, for people who have been evaluated so much, especially artists, they may not be able to respond because they don't have enough positions. However, there will be some unhappiness in their hearts. After all, everyone does not want to be evaluated face-to-face, especially negative ones.
Point it out, yes. Because everyone who can point it out to you wants you to be more perfect. However, please don't do it in person, or you can say it more tactfully. Some people said that if they are not direct, they may not be able to hear it. Well, this is a matter of personal comprehension.
If others don’t understand, it’s useless no matter how much you say. If you point it out directly, it will hurt the person's self-esteem and the goodwill you showed before. The purpose of evaluation is to help others develop better, but others cannot feel your kindness. Even if they develop, they will not remember your goodness. Why bother?
It’s a good thing that Sister Jin’s show has been stopped, although she said she doesn’t care about other people’s comments. However, this can also prevent Sister Jin from offending some people. After all, no one can be famous forever, so she has to plan for the future. The direct reason why Sister Jin’s program was stopped was because she was ordered to take it down by the leadership.
3. The program was removed for the sake of the station and Sister Jin
Sister Jin’s program has very high ratings. However, there are many celebrities, has everyone seen Zhu Zhiwen, the overcoat brother? He was the object of ridicule in the village before, but by chance, he became popular with a variety show. When the people in the village saw him blushing, they became jealous.
No one can see that he built bridges in the village and improved the environment. What they see is that everyone should give money to him, and the borrowed money does not need to be repaid. Zhu Zhiwen lives in the village. In order to photograph him, he kicked the door of his house hard. This is the negative effect of being famous.
Since Sister Jin’s show has become popular, there are naturally doubts. One is the negative impact of criticizing celebrities. Those who are being criticized are unwilling to go to the station to record the program, because they will think that the station knows about it and allows it. This situation should be something Taili never expected.
Some people say that if you don’t record the show, you just can’t make money, so it’s not a big deal. If he doesn't record programs on the station, he can go to other stations to record programs. The traffic he carries will naturally go to other stations. When the ratings are high, the pressure on the station will naturally increase.
Although Cao Kefan said that the theory of ratings alone will not last long, but who knows when the traffic indicator will pass in this traffic era? If we can't get through it, there will be no traffic, which means there will be no ratings. Without this, will advertisers come? Without them, would everyone drink from the northwest wind?
The second one is for the program itself. When this program becomes popular, the ratings of other similar programs will drop. And Jin Xing is not from the station, she cooperates with the station. In other words, she has a strategic partnership with the station based on the program.
If the program she creates becomes popular and puts pressure on the programs in the station, this is using outside monks to suppress the monks of our temple. When the time comes, the outside monks will naturally leave, and the monks of our temple will What should monks do when they eat? The most important thing is that foreign monks use this platform to expand their own influence and have nothing to do with the temple.
What does this make the abbot think? Will this situation be allowed to continue to occur? They will naturally consider the thoughts of the monks in the monastery. If it doesn't work, they can just drive away the outside monks. Jin Xing once complained on social media that this matter was caused by villains, but the decision-making power still belongs to Taili.
The reason why Jin Xing’s program was stopped was for the overall stability of the station. There was nothing wrong with it. In fact, it was also to protect Sister Jin. By doing this, the station could let Sister Jin know about the problems with her program, but they didn't say it publicly to save Sister Jin's face.
Sister Jin is still the same sister who loves to tell the truth, but she knows how her program should be in line with correct values, rather than going off the beaten path. Of course, Sister Jin also knew that she was unable to change Taili's decision and could only accept this reality.
Sister Jin lives a carefree and happy life. Without the constraints of the station, she will naturally have more freedom and imagination. After this experience, Sister Jin’s programs will become better and better. of.
Write at the end:
Sister Jin, a woman who loves to talk and laugh, an elegant woman, her venomous mouth is because she has love in her heart and hopes that others will change. To achieve a better outcome, the angle and way of handling may be different. After all, not everyone can accept such advice.
The suspension of her program is also a warning to Sister Jin, letting Sister Jin know that her words, if spoken directly, may hurt others. Huang Bo once said that the so-called high emotional intelligence means not wanting to hurt others. I hope Sister Jin can also understand and express it more artistically, maybe it will be better. What do you think?