Love has a trap, so be careful.
My 62-year-old grandfather told me that after retirement, I was idle at home and felt that there was a big gap between myself and my work, and I wanted to find a leisure hobby. Finally, he found that dancing square dance can exercise. In the process of square dance, he met Xiaomei who danced with him. After a long time, they fell in love for a while. In just half a year, Xiaomei regarded him as a mobile ATM and spent almost all his pension. Sometimes, a monthly pension of 8,000 yuan is not enough. In the end, this relationship didn't work out, which made him see that Xiaomei didn't really want to live with him, but spent money.
Be vigilant and don't blindly pursue happiness.
After retirement, old people should still find a hobby. If they don't stay at home, they will feel bored. However, when looking for hobbies, we still need to have correct values, because now some people specialize in cheating the elderly, because they feel that the elderly are lonely at home and have no children to accompany them, so they seize this heart and attach importance to cheating the elderly. The uncle just didn't see Xiaomei's real purpose clearly, and put all her half-year pension in. If the uncle could see these people clearly, he wouldn't be cheated out of all his pensions.
If such a person approaches you aimlessly, you should be on your guard. Today's society is selfish. How can such a kind person take care of you for no reason? It must be something else. As an old man, you should be vigilant to prevent fraud. Although I don't have a complete job after retirement, I need to find a healthy hobby, enrich my daily life, make myself a healthy old man and reassure my children.