Son in a foreign country to stand firm, create a good living conditions, want to take you out to enjoy the blessings, but also out of a piece of filial piety,Whether you go abroad, I think your son will be able to understand you, so how to choose, but also in your own will.
First of all, let's talk about the advantages and disadvantages of going abroad. After you go abroad, you will be able to go to your son's side, avoid the pain of being separated from your son's flesh and blood, and be able to see him more often, and if he has his own child, you will be able to help her bring up the child, and the medical care and education in some foreign countries are better than in China,At the same time, you will also have the opportunity to go to your own country and see your own child. These are the first time I've ever seen a woman in the United States who has been in the United States for more than a year, and it's been a long time coming.
But there are drawbacks to being abroad, all your friends and family are at home, and once you go abroad, it may be difficult to get together with them, and you don't have people you know in a foreign country who aren't familiar with the environment, so you'll be in a very strong position to make sense of it. The most important thing is that every single person has a different language. The most important thing is that every person grows up and lives for decades in the place, there is a kind of strong conversion plot, let you away from the homeland, the heart really can't let go, the gold nest, silver nest, not as good as their own kennel, even if the outside world is better, but also far better than their own life for decades.
Secondly, if you stay in the country, it is inevitable that you will get together with your son and not be able to enjoy the joy of family life, but relatively you are familiar with the surrounding environment, nothing to do with old friends to get together, drinking tea, chatting, walking the bird, in fact, the life is also very cozy.
All in all, no matter which choice you make, there are pros and cons, but no matter which lifestyle you choose, I think your son should support and understand you, after all, he would have wanted to filial piety you, what is filial piety? First, filial piety, second, obedience, if you really can not give up everything at home, I think he will also support you, because even if you go abroad, may not be able to live a happy life.
In fact, I think that whether you stay abroad, or stay at home, can be, if you stay at home, you can also regularly go abroad to see your son, after all, he is over there since he can stand firm, it means that the income is good, to pay for a few plane tickets can still be money. If you go to settle abroad, you can also return home regularly to see the development of our country, see your friends and family, see those familiar faces and scenery of déjà vu, so the choice is not bad.
But in my personal opinion, it is better to stay in the country, foreign countries may be a thousand good, but after all, it is not the home of our hearts, and this place that carries all the good memories of our childhood, carries the bits and pieces of our decades of life, it is the only home we recognize in our hearts and souls, and old age and loss of home is tantamount to a kind of spiritual upheaval,
Only to stay at home, but to stay at home, and to stay at home.
Only in the home, listen to the familiar sounds, take a look at the commonplace scenery, the heart can be stabilized, and can let you produce a sense of stability in the heart of the place, is the place where you should settle!