I've always felt that being a housewife is the most thankless profession in the world. In the eyes of outsiders, they have a lot of free time, do not have to face the brutal competition in the workplace, do not have to take risks, and do not have to face the pressure, so it is very relaxing and peaceful. The truth is, only you understand the loneliness and hardship. Not to mention that bringing up children to consume a lot of time and energy, housework is also a heavy labor, do not do a very obtrusive, do but invisible, busy from morning to night, more than the work of hard, but not a source of income. The so-called economic foundation determines the superstructure, even if every day busy, logistics work well, in the eyes of others and some family members is just rely on their husbands to feed the soft, zero contribution to society. However, this is not the most pathetic, after all, we can not influence other people's ideas, also can not block the mouth of the masses, the sad, is the collapse of self-worth, is the step by step denial of self-worth, is the self-world of the closure of the degradation of the ability of the world caused by the alienation of the world's lonely and self-loathing. Of course, nothing is absolute, I have also seen a full-time housewife, not at all what I said these symptoms, every day mahjong square dance program constantly, but also some people can be strict self-discipline, even if there is no fixed job will also do a good job of time management, not only to take care of the children and the family, but also to take into account their own hobbies or even opened up a new channel of income from this, the so-called nine sons of the dragon have their own different, in the face of the same thing, the same thing, the same thing. Each person will be because of the character and experience and other factors produce different attitudes and methods, today I would like to say, is my own psychological activities.
First of all, to y analyze the words of the self, I am a very sensitive person, this sensitivity comes from my growth environment, these years, deep in the marrow, I understand that this excessive sensitivity to my interpersonal communication and values of the construction of a hundred harm and no good, to put it bluntly, this is called inferiority complex, however, even if I understand that, it is difficult to change. These days, I experience the joys and sorrows of being a stay-at-home mom at home because I'm in the middle of a gap between two jobs. The joy is that I can finally sleep until I wake up naturally, finally I don't have to think about work every day, finally I can put down the burden in my heart and rest peacefully, finally I can be with my child every day and see her smiling face often. The sad thing is, there is a follower around, no longer have their own independent space and time, as a child's mother, the child's bumps and bruises I am the first person responsible for, but also found that there was no place to put things in the house in the cleaning suddenly became so big, there is a child at home, the home will never be clean and tidy, and every day there are endless clothes to wash. The most important thing is that I feel that I have no value, my joys and sorrows are all centered around my family, I often get angry because of some trivial things, and I also find a lot of my weaknesses in life, which makes me feel as if I can't do a lot of things well, and I am slowly becoming more and more unsure of myself. When socializing with others, I was embarrassed to answer when asked about my work in ah, as if I had become a social assholes. Some of my classmates and friends in the big city to millions of project struggle, living a life of hundreds of thousands of dollars a year and not satisfied, and then look at me, I am doing what?