Five good civilized family main deeds a
The Spring Festival in the Year of the Pig has just passed, Panjin City, Xinglongtai District, Jinhe District residents Bu Fengbin's home, lively and extraordinary. ", family members are family training, family style, family rules for the family core culture, harmony as the basis, patriotism as the core, filial piety as the root, impartiality and honesty, in the family, the community took root and blossomed, moral elegance bloomed light ......" Bu Fengbin old man wearing presbyopia, the solemnly read the family summary report, such a family style recognition meeting has been held continuously for 16 years, under the cultivation of good family style, the whole family of four generations together in a happy and harmonious, and become a role model for the neighbors to learn.
The core of the family - Bu Fengbin aunt in July 1988 from the teacher's post retirement, as the Liaohe Oilfield oil and gas gathering and transportation company retired from the center of the committee members and Xinglong two primary school tutors. She opened a free summer and winter classes, combined with children's psychological characteristics, innovative puppet teaching method, intuitive, innovative teaching methods so that children not only learn knowledge, but also by a good moral character education. She also often uses major festivals to organize small science production for elementary school students, participate in public welfare labor and other activities, has won the Liaoning Province, China National Petroleum Corporation, Liaohe Bureau of excellent retired workers, the provincial level, "old people" standard bearer, the province's "good party members to serve the masses" and other honors. Honors. Some people say: "Lao Bu is a golden bean never fade, the more you live, the younger you are."
Under the teachings of Bu Fengbin, his children all regarded learning as a good thing, two sons and two daughters graduated from prestigious universities and became engineers and senior teachers after work. The family of 18 people, there have been 10 members of the party, established in 2004, the family party branch, every major holiday, the family will get together, by the party branch secretary, Bu aunt's oldest son Hou Huajin presided over the branch meeting, talk about politics, speak of the economy, on the work of the mutual exchange of education of the children and the experience of family management, learning from each other, promote each other and play a leading role in the family party members.
Every year at the family style recognition meeting, family members will carefully prepare self-written and performed cultural and artistic programs - singing, dancing, sketches, three sentences ...... year after year. The joyful sound of playing and singing often attracts neighbors to come over as spectators. Relatives, friends, colleagues, neighbors are envious of this harmonious family.
After the wonderful performance, the family style recognition will officially begin, "I announce that Zhou Junling, Han Guiyuan, Zhao Bochun, Zhang Wali four families to obtain the family 'ecological civilization and harmony household' title, Wang Yijin won the 'good student' title, Hou Hua Li, 'good student' title. ' title, Hou Huana won the title of 'good waiter', Hou Lina won the title of 'good mother-in-law', Yao Yunhan, Sun Xuechu won the 'good daughter-in-law' title, and Zhao Lianfeng, Hou Yingjun, Zhang Wali, and Zhao Bochun won the title of 'good driver'." Bu Fengbin also read the award message for the family members who were honored, "Harmony and Innovation, Inherit Family Tradition", "Comprehensive Development, Quality Transcendence, Realizing Dreams", "Comprehensive Service, Friendly Treating People ", "Modeling and passing on the family spirit", "Taking filial piety as the foundation, governing the family with family rules", "Safety first, honesty, and good service" And so on, in a simple comment, contains Bu Fengbin old man on the family members of the heavy expectations.
Hou Huana, who won the title of family "good waiter", said that the family of 18 people made up of eight families, and the good family style allows family members to benefit. Under the influence of the family style, everyone is strict on themselves, academic career success, in their respective positions to learn advanced, exemplary, excellent performance. In the future, we should let our children and grandchildren pass on this harmonious family style and transmit positive family energy.
This year's commendation also added a prize knowledge quiz link, the elderly usually care about current events, the social hotspots sorted out, compiled into a syllabus of questions, sent to the hands of each family member. "No. 1 family, the three levels of what" "No. 2 family, the Belt and Road national strategy specifically refers to what?" "Family No. 3, what is our family culture?" The questions ranged from the national macro development strategy to the family culture of the family, covering a wide range of topics. After each family representative finishes his or her answer, everyone gives an encouraging round of applause. Bu Fengbin said, the family is the cell of society, parents are the mirror of their children. In the party, in the country, in the family, we should be exactly family style, family style of this source clear, in order to nourish a good style of work, political style and public style, social family will be more harmonious.
The story of Bu Fengbin's family style is well known, and has become a role model for those around him. 2010, Bu Fengbin's family was named the seventh national five good civilized families.
The Five Good Civilized Families Main Deeds
Recently, Meng Fanrong's family, who was the party secretary and professor of Yantai Normal College, was awarded the title of "Five Good Civilized Families of the Nation". The family and friends are praised and congratulated, far away from Beijing and the United States of America's daughter double home reunion blessing. The two couples, Meng Fanrong and Zhang Minli, both graduated from the teacher's college and took up the post of education, engaged in cultivating the next generation of the sacred cause, and the whole world. 2013 won the honorary title of "Yantai ten good civilized family", and this year was awarded the Shandong Province and the national five good civilized family.
The two of them have been working hard on their education career since they started working together. Meng Fanrong is a down-to-earth person who is dedicated to running a good university and cultivating talents for the country. Zhang Minli served as a senior teacher in a vocational secondary school in Yantai, excellent work, was named "Yantai top talent", "model party member", "excellent teacher", Shandong Province, "excellent teacher", "excellent teacher", "excellent teacher", "excellent teacher", "excellent teacher", "excellent teacher", "excellent teacher", "excellent teacher", "excellent teacher", "excellent teacher", "excellent teacher". "Outstanding Teacher", "Special Teacher", the couple two into *** with good work, but also at the same time to educate their children, read a good book, do a good job, to be "strict with themselves, and lenient with others". The parents taught by word and example. In the parents' words and example, the sisters are serious about reading, do a good job. After graduating with a doctorate, the eldest daughter taught at the University of the People's Republic of China, and after graduating with a master's degree, the youngest daughter worked at JPMorgan Chase Bank on Wall Street in the United States. Her two sons-in-law also graduated with a PhD and a master's degree respectively. The eldest grandson is attending college, and the youngest grandson is in high school in the U.S., where he is doing very well academically and won the U.S. Presidential Award. Their whole family is not only highly educated and knowledgeable, but also highly qualified and cultured; at home, they speak of harmony and democracy, don't smoke, don't drink, are thrifty and diligent, respect and love each other; outside, they speak of courtesy and public morality, abide by the law, do a good job, do good deeds, and never fight with others, all of them are civilized people.
Mutual respect and love, family harmony
Meng Fanrong couple married from 1962, two into the hand in hand, the same sweet **** bitter, work to support each other, living with each other to take care of, housework *** with the commitment. 50 years, never red face, quarrel. On both sides of the elderly are very filial, parents older, the elderly to live at home, laundry and cooking, ask about warmth; mother-in-law's mobility, they took care of, until the death of 91 years old. The children are very concerned about, spend money to let them study well. Children all understand filial piety, the eldest daughter of a family of three, almost every day to call to greet, every summer and winter to go home to see the old man, laundry and cooking, with the old man to laugh and go out to have fun. In the United States, the youngest daughter of a family of four, every Monday and Wednesday morning must be with their parents video conversation, although separated by miles, but hot, kissing honey as in front of you; every two years to ensure that the whole family back once. September 23 this year, the youngest daughter of the couple should be invited by the Chinese Consulate General in New York to participate in the National Day reception, with the eldest daughter of Beijing to celebrate the 80th birthday of her parents, together with the National Day and Old People's Day. Home for more than ten days, the two daughters full package of household chores, good food every day to eat, buy new clothes to wear. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
Gratitude for society, good deeds
Meng Fanrong couple were born in the countryside, the family life is difficult, is the party and the government to support them to go to college, engaged in the cause of education, the whole family is a reader, never forget the party's kindness, and make more contributions to the people. After they retired, they took it as their duty to do more good deeds. They saw the square where they now live, there is a cleaning couple from Chongqing, living in poverty, no children around. Mr. and Mrs. Meng Fanrong sent rice and oil to the couple during the New Year holidays, not only from the material relief, but also his students from Sichuan sent a large portion of Sichuan cuisine to the couple. The couple was very touched and said, "Mr. and Mrs. Meng's family are closer than relatives". Mr. and Mrs. Meng Fanrong also did not forget the kindness of the nanny who took care of their children 40 years ago. When the child was older, the nanny came home, he and his wife treated her as a relative often walk around, the nanny's husband and son died, they went twice a year to send money and goods, the nanny was sick and hospitalized, but also to finance the medical expenses, send health care products. The two daughters of the Meng family every time they come back, they must take gifts to visit the nanny. In Wenchuan after the earthquake, Mr. and Mrs. Meng Fanrong immediately paid more than 1,000 yuan of "special party fees". After his retirement, Meng was elected as the executive director of Shandong Province Old Professors Association and the president of Ludong University Old Professors Association due to his enthusiasm for public welfare. He actively assisted the University's Old Cadre Division to carry out various activities, which enriched the spiritual and cultural life of retired old comrades. He was honored with the "Contribution Award for Old Professors" of Shandong Province in 2012 for his contribution to the old people.
More friends, often get together often happy
Meng Fanrong and his wife have many good friends, when they went to school there are school friends, work there are good friends, not forgetting the old friends after retirement, and continue to make new friends. They just retired, see some of the empty nesters living in the void, the elderly formed a "friendly alliance", every afternoon on time to the square together "talk therapy", but also regularly to the family "tea narrative", "the old man", "the old man", "the old man", "the old man", "the old man", "the old man", "the old man", "the old man", "the old man". The "friendly alliance" formed these old people into a "friendly alliance". Since then, these old people eliminate the sense of loneliness, often get together often happy. They invited the past decades of old friends to their homes many times a year, but also often to friends' homes, especially on New Year's Day exchanges are more, every year the Spring Festival to call them to pay tribute to the students and friends and relatives of one or two hundred people, they called their friends to pay tribute to the New Year there are more than a hundred people. This year's National Day also coincided with the 80th birthday of Mr. and Mrs. Meng, more than 60 friends and relatives rushed to wish them good luck. Such old and new friends often exchange, recall the past, rejuvenated, said today's changes, uplifted the spirit, the more exchanges the happier. Their old friends often get together *** with the view that: more friends, more blessings, friends are the bridge to create happiness. Now the elderly have the care of the party and the government, the love of the community, there are children's filial piety, family harmony, pro-neighborhood harmony, old friends are always happy, healthy, the older the more blessed.
Five good civilized family main story three
February 23, the first five days of the Lunar New Year 6:00 a.m., Ma Xuemei early to get up, cooking, feeding paraplegic mother-in-law and mother to eat. 8:00 to the people's hospital in Shangcai County to the eldest son suffering from polio to send meals. 9:00 back to buy adult diaper pads for two old people to do the washing up. In the Spring Festival this reunion celebration days, Ma Xuemei wholeheartedly take care of the two old people, but they rarely rest. After work, she is even busier, work and family took up all her time. "Time is like water in a sponge, squeeze a little bit of it." Ma Xuemei often say this.
In May, Ma Xuemei's family, director of the Shangcai County Postal Distribution Bureau, was awarded the title of "Ninth National Five Good Civilized Families" by the National Women's Federation, and "Five Good Civilized Families of Henan Province" by the Henan Women's Federation.
49-year-old Ma Xuemei, in the work of dedication, pragmatic and hard work, recognized by the leadership and colleagues; in life, with the life of a woman, a wife, a mother's responsibility to the woman's tenacity and love of the two families to support a piece of the sky, in the ordinary life of the interpretation of the story of affection.
1998, for Ma Xuemei family is full of hope and joy of the year. With excellent work performance, Ma Xuemei was appointed as Shangcai County party store postal branch, with years of savings, she specialized in the county to buy a set of one-floor house with a yard. "The old people have worked hard for most of their lives, it's time for them to enjoy themselves." At that time, Ma Xuemei family is full of yearning for a better life.
But in 1999, Ma Xuemei's mother-in-law fell ill and was paralyzed in bed; in 2005, Ma Xuemei's mother was paralyzed in bed, and a series of changes that made the family y shocked, and soon after, her husband suffered from mental illness, and the burden of the two families were pressed on Ma Xuemei's body.
In the face of such a difficult family situation and heavy workload, she was tough to support. In order to be able to better take care of the elderly, she took her father and mother, father-in-law, mother-in-law received the county's own home, more than ten years as one day to wait for the in-laws and parents, whether it is washing and cooking, feeding and feeding, or wiping the body, she is a person to take care of, no matter how busy the outside world, she will be on time every day on time to take care of the elderly.
Waiting for two sick old man, take care of sick children, husband, for a woman, it is not easy, but Ma Xuemei is 15 years as one day, with strength and perseverance, sincerity and filial piety over. These in her eyes are incredibly common small things, should be done, but also must be done. But in the eyes of loved ones, Ma Xuemei's words and deeds interpreted her responsibility to life and love.
Ma Xuemei's mother-in-law is paralyzed and bedridden for a long time, and it's difficult to get to her mother-in-law every three days, Ma Xuemei will put a plastic bag over her hand and kneel on the ground a little bit to pick up her mother-in-law's bowels. Ma Xuemei's mother-in-law mentioned this, tears will not be able to flow down, with not very clear words said: "I even dragged the family, if not Xuemei, I do not know where, Xuemei than the pro-daughter of the pro mile, can marry such a daughter-in-law is really my several lifetimes of blessing ah."
The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey. Ma Xuemei see in the eyes, anxious in the heart. She consoled her son not to be discouraged, and she taught him that as long as he puts his heart into it, life is full of excitement everywhere. In the mother's patient guidance, Xu Qiang dispelled the haze in his heart, timely adjustment of the mindset, re-established confidence. "For the sake of my mother, for the sake of the family, I also have to keep striving hard and take up the responsibility of a man earlier." Xu Qiang silently told himself, and actively engaged in a new round of learning, in 2009, he successfully entered the university with excellent results.
In the eyes of familiar people, Ma Xuemei lives a hurried life, because life has given her too much pain and misfortune. But it is in such an onlooker seems to be difficult to bear the family conditions, she did the work to clear thinking, organized, never delayed the work due to family matters, but instead of the pressure of the family into a caring staff, hard work motivation.
As the director of the Bureau of Issues, Ma Xuemei heart loaded with couriers, little by little small things for the sake of the couriers. Summer heat, Ma Xuemei go to the market wholesale watermelon carried to the delivery class, to ensure that the delivery staff on duty back to eat watermelon summer. Winter cold, Ma Xuemei for the deliveryman to buy elbow pads knee pads to keep warm, snow slippery, she will tell the deliveryman to pay attention to safety and careful delivery. Deliverymen who have difficulties, she will personally to the family sympathy. A deliveryman reflected delivery battery car battery aging, Ma Xuemei timely report to the leadership to replace the battery, without delaying the work of the deliveryman. In order to conscientiously implement the transformation of the provincial company deliveryman, enhance the quality of postal delivery service, each time she received the provincial company, the city issued documents, she first learn to understand, and then carefully explain to the deliveryman, find each deliveryman talk, combined with their own situation to calculate the economic accounts.
In the degree of large subscription, Shangcai County Post Office newspaper flow amount ranked first in Zhumadian City Postal Branch. Under her leadership, the county's 57 delivery workers, **** there are senior senior account manager 6 people, senior account manager 7 people, intermediate account manager 6 people, junior account manager 38 people, to achieve the wages and salaries.
A smiling and peaceful face, a busy and determined figure, a hard and struggling life path. Ma Xuemei deep love for the old heart, abide by the virtue of respect for the elderly, the practice of filial piety, the responsibility to reflect filial piety, from the little things to do, practicing traditional virtues, for the elderly to send warmth, for the family to seek harmony. Ma Xuemei with their love, filial piety, responsibility, constructed a harmonious family.