Everyone has their own unique experience of the richness of the UP family annual party. For me, the annual meeting nourished and enriched me beyond imagination, making me feel like I was living in a fairy tale on December 15th.
I have benefited a lot from the speeches of the heavyweight guests at the annual meeting, Teacher Xiaoshuai, Teacher Daxiong, Sister Na, Dashu, and Zimu. I will list them one by one below. I can’t help but tell my own fairy tale first.
? On December 14th, I prayed and blessed myself in my heart. I will definitely gain a lot from participating in the annual meeting. What is more certain is that the direction of my life will be clearer. Because I have only joined the UP family for a short period of time, I only participated in the 10th reading group and Mr. Xiaoshuai’s wealth class. I rarely speak in the group on weekdays and have no connections with the sisters I have close friendships with. Therefore, I did not have a close relationship with the sisters before I left. Please go with the attitude of serious study.
Everything was normal in the morning, my brain was working at high speed to receive the light waves of knowledge, and the six guests/sisters shared wonderfully. At noon, I had dinner with seven friends, and I lamented that they had left me far behind in their studies and growth, such as psychological counselors, Mayan interpretation, meditation, etc.
After dinner, I returned to the annual meeting, and my fairy tale began.
When I returned to the table, I found a sister in an orange sweater standing next to my chair, putting her things away. I told her this was my seat and that there were empty seats at our table. sit. My sister moved from my seat to the opposite side of me.
At noon, the volunteer sisters randomly distributed the gifts everyone brought in the morning to the seats. Maybe because there were not enough gifts, there was no gift bag on my chair. I saw the sister opposite me taking out a gift box. Oh, it looks familiar. This is the gift box I prepared on the night of December 14th. Inside is a brooch that originally belonged to me and now belongs to my sister. When I was preparing the gift on the evening of December 14th, I had a vague wish in my heart. I hoped to know who had received this brooch. I hope it would have a good home if I like it. It was great to see its new owner opening the gift box at the annual meeting.
There was an empty seat next to my sister, and there were two gift bags on that seat, so my sister handed me a bag and said, there is a gift inside, please open it and take a look. When I took out the gift, wow, I was instantly surprised and touched. It was three lipsticks packed in a blingbling little bag. So far, this is my version of a fairy tale where dreams come true. Yeah? Yes.
? I decided very early this year to give each of my two sisters a lipstick for the Spring Festival, and each of the three sisters a lipstick of the same brand and different colors. They are all beautiful during the Spring Festival. Every time I look at cosmetics information, I pay attention whenever I see lipstick. After taking Teacher Xiaoshuai's wealth class, I strengthened my confidence not to spend money recklessly, but I knew that I was determined to buy these three lipsticks. Each lipstick costs over 200 yuan. Every time I see the price, I think, it would be better if it could be lower.
Taking the lipstick and the card together, I said to my friends at the table, I really like this gift, Less Qianqian, I really want to thank her. My friend at the same table who has great powers told me that the girl closest to you at the next table seems to be named Qianqian. Oh, my friend, thank you for your great powers. I turned around and saw a little girl with princess long hair, wearing a short pink faux fur top, thick gray pantyhose, and white fur shoes. I walked over and said, are you Qianqian? She was chewing a candy and said yes. I told her that I received your gift and liked it very much. You don’t know that I have two younger sisters and I have always wanted to give them lipstick as a New Year gift. Qianqian was very happy to see me so happy. She told me that she brought this back from the United States some time ago.
As we chatted later, we hugged each other deeply several times. It was so magical. My friends and I couldn't help hugging each other out of joy and understanding. It probably only happened during my college days.
Haha, December 16th is also a magical day. As soon as I typed the word "university" on the keyboard, my phone rang. When I looked at my name, I saw that it was the most stubborn sister in the university who called me. Neither of us had called each other for several years. Telephone. Haha, there are no words to describe it, I can only laugh wildly.
Qianqian looks very young at first glance. After chatting, I learned that she was born in 1991, which is 11 years younger than me. However, her words and expressions are full of thoughtfulness and she has met many people. Peaceful cordiality. I took a photo with Qianqian, I put a brooch on Sister Yu, and I took a photo with Sister Yu Qianqian. Love goes out and love comes back/When you really desire something, the whole universe will unite to help you. I believed it before, and I believe it even more on December 15th.
The above is my fairy tale. Next, I will express my condolences to each of the celebrities and sisters one by one. Each of them has brought too much spiritual food. In particular, I can only absorb a small part of the big meals of the celebrities. This is very small. If some of them can be carefully considered and implemented, 2020 will definitely be different. From each guest's speech, I selected a few most touching aspects to understand.
? Observe and discover the strengths of family members and develop them into life partners;
? With Jian Yan’s encouragement, my husband quickly mastered how to create great promotional materials ; The mother-in-law was very happy with the simple recognition and various praises, and the couple started their business in a prosperous manner.
Jian Yan is great, and husband He Hui is even better. He Hui confessed to his wife in public last year and sang a love song in public this year. The most shining young man at the annual meeting in the past two years, He Hui made everyone cry last year (I heard) and this year.
? Husband and wife are of the same mind and can break through metal. In short, husband and wife are a model for us to learn from.
? 1. One small action, get a new husband!
Every woman can do this little thing, but many people don’t use it. This little action is to act coquettishly.
? A woman who can act like a coquettish person is the most lucky, and a woman who can act like a coquettish person is the most lucky. Be coquettish, remember and practice this sentence ~
? 2. Only unreasonable expectations, everything else is reasonable. Instead of waiting for your husband to change, it is better to change yourself first.
? Change to a new self, and a new husband will follow soon.
? I have taken 9 wealth classes from Teacher Xiaoshuai before. Teacher Xiaoshuai has washed my brain in many aspects. The annual meeting still refreshed my understanding in many aspects.
? 1. Who have you been living for in the past 10 years?
In 2009, I got married, graduated from graduate school, and joined my current company. In the past 10 years, I have become a mother of two children. Although my career is serious, it is not hard work. In the past 10 years, it seems that I have not lived for anyone, not myself, nor my parents/husband/children/career. Living too ignorantly and loosely.
If I could go back 10 years, how would I plan my life?
? I think I will seriously think about family planning, financial planning, and career planning, read more high-quality books in these fields, take high-quality courses, learn to write, write seriously, and get in touch with more excellent people. Ask questions in conversation. Be aware of the general directions of your family, finances and career, and hold the steering wheel of life rather than autopilot.
? The best time to plant a tree was ten years ago, followed by now. Start now and live every day seriously.
? 2. Make full use of the personal network, deeply link to top-level connections, and find your own leader;
? In 2020, learn from better people with a goal, understand and work hard practice.
? 3. Achieving goals is not ability or technology, but a set of processes;
? (1) First determine the correct/suitable goal for yourself. This process is very important . The determination process needs to combine innate advantages, acquired advantages, essential advantages and other aspects.
(2) Methods to achieve the goal: think of it - write it down - post it - read it every day - move it - really achieve it.
? At the end of the annual meeting, everyone was asked to write down their goals for 2020. I firmly wrote down two goals on paper that I had buried in my heart before:
? The host, Teacher Abu, walked around the venue to encourage everyone to write goals. Seeing that I wrote them down quickly, Teacher Abu read out my first goal in front of everyone. Thank you, Teacher Abu, for conveying your support to me; my friend WANGYU sat in front of me. When I heard about my goal, I immediately added me as a WeChat friend, WANGYU. Thank you for your support and blessings.
? 4. Make being kind to others the most important thing you do every day. Good opportunities will only come from old friends. New friends today - old friends tomorrow - good opportunities the day after tomorrow.
(1) Make more friends with people of the same frequency and be diligent in keeping in touch with old friends. Try your best to provide value that is beneficial to the friends you often contact;
? (2) Praise/support your friends more, and express gratitude with gifts and money within your ability;
? The theme shared by Qing'er is "What exactly determines our destiny". Qing'er only participated in the 10th UP reading club, which was the most difficult period of her life. Every book Zimu shared was a life-saving straw for her. In just two months, she transformed from a person who wanted to commit suicide to a person who started to make money with her talents. Now Qing'er is the happiest person in the UP family, living a rich and joyful life every day.
?Different values ??create different choices - different choices create different results - different results create different fates.
? Destiny is in our own hands. Each of us can turn our life around again if we want.
? Chuan Geng Na Kun is very inspirational and good at encouraging everyone. By studying and following Zimu, she came out of her depression and became a professional Mayan interpreter. He used his own experience to fully illustrate that only by firmly believing can a comeback be possible.
? Chuangeng Nakun shared that the reason why she dared to stand on the stage this year was because at last year’s annual meeting, she saw a girl with no appearance and no special skills standing in front of the stage to challenge herself and tell her story. She refused to admit defeat. Her personality made her determined at that time: If she can do it, so can I, and I will stand on this stage at next year's annual meeting. She really did it. The process described by Chuan Geng Na Kun is very inspiring to me. As long as I persist in 2020, I will definitely transform. I also like to share, and I secretly sowed the seeds in my heart. With such a good mentor and director as Zimu, I just need to obey and follow the instructions. , I can also be one of the speakers at next year’s annual meeting.
? Chuan Geng Na Kun Chuan enthusiastically shouted to everyone, "Come to the UP Reading Club annual meeting next year and stand on the stage as a guest speaker. Do you dare to come?" Then he thanked and prepared to leave the stage. The style of painting began to change. Teacher Abu said, please stay, there is a person in the background who has been listening to your sharing. Chuan Geng Nakun turned his head and looked backstage in confusion. His mother came onto the stage from behind. The big screen began to play photos of Chuan Geng Nakun and his parents since he was a child. Chuan Geng Nakun hugged his mother and cried loudly. Here is Have the bitterness of the past and the relief after growing up. The teardrops were really big. Maybe everyone was moved. The deep and steady teacher Abu even shed tears.
? Zimu and several friends from the UP family teamed up to give Sichuan Geng Nakun this surprise, a heart-warming UP family.
? The level difference between me and Mr. Big Bear is equivalent to Mr. Big Bear looking at the scenery from the 100th floor, while I started climbing up from the 2nd floor~.
? Many of Teacher Daxiong’s views subvert my original understanding, because what Teacher Daxiong is best at is leading ordinary people to counterattack. Let me first use the points that I can understand and take action on:
? 1. The upward road is not crowded, because most people choose comfort.
Counterattack requires growth in many aspects;
? Counterattack is difficult, but it will not be so difficult if you lower your expectations and turn to growth. Little by little growth hope can eventually lead to counterattack. My current situation is that work (plus commuting) takes up 12 hours every working day, and my children need to be with me when I get home.
What time can be used?
1) You can listen to audio and think for 3 hours on your way to get off work every day;
2) Try to get up at 5 o'clock every day;
3) Saturday or For half a day on Sunday afternoon, you can arrange time for yourself to read and write.
? 2. There are 4 ways for ordinary people to counterattack: talent (hobby), outlet (opportunity), resources (information), pattern (persistence);
? ? The easier and more feasible ways for us to grow include resources (information) and structure (persistence). We can choose various ways to learn and obtain information. The most important thing is to find the right direction and stick to it.
? 3. The steps of counterattack include: analyze yourself - find the direction - set time - insist on action - check the results. When you find that the direction has deviated, make timely adjustments;
? 4. The essence of making money is value exchange.
? 1) When initially accumulating wealth, the criterion for choosing things to do is that it is good for growth rather than making money. The early time is the least valuable. I would rather make people owe you favors than pay them.
? There must be a reward for your efforts. The reward is not necessarily money, but it can be exchanged for money. In the 11th year, you can make the same money as in the previous 10 years.
? 2) Insist on working for free, and you will start to get returns after 2 years. Accept the investment first and then get returns.
? 5. If you want to achieve counterattack, do reverse screening first, see what takes up the most of your time, and quit it;
? Talk less and do more, and chat less in the community , learn more and write more articles. Keep escaping from your comfort zone. Chatting is easy, so try not to do it; writing articles is hard, keep doing it, and slowly pay for knowledge. When writing, focus on the facts and experience sharing itself.
? 6. You should make enough money for a lifetime before the age of 45.
With 10 million, you can basically live a worry-free life. The monthly interest on a 6 million deposit is about 20,000, which basically meets the daily needs of a family. Work hard as soon as possible.
? Li Na is the top domestic planner and CEO of Beijing Jiazinian Culture Media. She looks very young and smiles heartily. This girl, whose starting point is not much different from that of an amateur, has reached a height that is absolutely unreachable for amateurs with her hard work.
? 1. Only you can change yourself. The environment can only affect people but cannot change them.
2. You must first become yourself worthy of the life you want. To become thinner, more beautiful and more professional, you must manage yourself. Image has a vital impact on people. Are you more willing to chat with handsome guys? Even us women like pretty girls.
3. Keep up with your image, business/temperament, and find big names to continuously improve yourself; the vase will soon become outdated, and the way to become a beautiful woman with temperament is the way to go.
? 4. It’s never that the opportunities aren’t big enough, but that you don’t try enough. If you have 1 hope, you have to put in 100-120 efforts.
Sister Na is a warrior, Mingzhu can be said to be a hermit.
Mingzhu’s whole person and the title of her speech are beautiful. She is only 27 years old, but her face and appearance are calmer than those of her age. Mingzhu is more than 8 months pregnant and is a mother-to-be of her second child. She has long curly hair, a calm face, and a light figure. She is in particularly good condition. Mother Earth has given Mingzhu good nourishment. The title of her speech was "The Pastoral Girl's Journey to Destiny".
? Mingzhu returned to the countryside from Shenzhen in August 2018 and lived a pastoral life. The speech PPT showed various beautiful flowers and various freshly unearthed ingredients, which was really beautiful.
Most of our rural hometowns are not so good. I don’t know whether the countryside chosen by Mingzhu is beautiful in itself or whether Mingzhu will create a beautiful atmosphere. No matter what, Mingzhu followed her heart and chose the life she wanted, which is far above us. In Mingzhu's words, she also talked about her personal business model that can nourish herself and others, and she can be poetic and support her family. Bless Mingzhu and look forward to Mingzhu living another example of life.
? The title of Guo Guo's mother's speech in midsummer was "Do these three things and you can be friends with money." Based on his own experience and experience, he shared a better profit model for parent-child reading libraries and taught mothers how to overcome the hurdle of charity. Break the money Trojan. The only function of money is to express gratitude;
1. Love money from the bottom of your heart and in the right way; be happy every time money comes; use money to express gratitude in time, Sooner or later, you have to give money, and you have to give it early.
? 2. Be a person that money likes; improve yourself and become a person with both ability and political integrity. Be purposeful and learn from people who have achieved results; be with positive people more often, give kindly and receive with gratitude.
3. Believe in the power of time and be long-term friends with money. Keep doing the right thing and be patient.
? Dashu is the founder of Little Wooden House. The current development stage of Little Wooden House is an APP for renting and buying books. In the future, it will develop into an APP for subscribing to all the good things in life.
? Dashu is a very cultured person. His biggest hobby is reading, especially biographies of famous people. On the one hand, Dashu’s speech popularized the concepts that should be used to start a company, and on the other hand, it conveyed many principles of life. For me at this stage, it is the principles of life that are easier to absorb and interest me. ?
1. What a person does is only related to what he wants to do and has nothing to do with what major he studies; after entering the workplace, the competition is learning ability rather than professional limitations; the core driving force of a person is Will, the energy field forms naturally around will.
? ?2. Culture is very important. Every family/ethnicity/country should have its own culture.
? What parents can pass on to their children are only cultural spiritual wealth such as struggle, values, and mission.
? 3. There are only two things in life, where are you going? How long have you been fighting for this?
? Figure out what you want to do, follow the overall situation/government policies, and go with the flow. In Dashu’s view, 996 is the yearning for a better life and a better self. Li Na’s No Looking Back/Teacher Big Bear’s 4 Hours Less Sleep and You’ll Have Everything/Dashu’s 996 all tell us that there is no casual success, all success requires enough persistence and dedication.
Merry Xin is really confident. I admire her very much, sincerely.
? Can you stand on a podium with more than 200 people and shout, "I am a very wise person, I am a rich and wealthy person, I am *#!,..."? If you can’t shout, you lose, haha!
? Merry's letter is a breath of fresh air. Thank you Zimu for giving everyone the opportunity to show off.
? Ah, dear Zimu, it’s finally your turn.
On the day of the annual party, Zimu wore a pink pleated skirt and a well-cut aqua blue suit with a waisted waist, like a fairy. Zimu is a child favored by God. He is tall and good-looking, with a delicate face and beautiful eyes.
? From Zimu's eyes and mouth when speaking, we can feel that Zimu should have been a good child who loved to learn and was obedient since he was a child. He has the good gene of "obeying and doing everything right". She has a pure and warm aura, neither delicate nor pretentious. She really likes to share and like every sister from the inside out. It is very comfortable to cuddle with her.
The title Zimu shared is "Reshape your abundant life system with reading", which is also the growth theme Zimu has set for himself in 2019.
He shared his growth process in the past few years and five ways to live a happy life. The following people have greatly touched me:
? 1. You can also use the things and stories that have saved you to save others;
? We have learned and absorbed them If you change your things into your own way of expression, as long as you can help others, you can become your own income channel.
2. If people can always be quiet, everything in heaven and earth will return (peace, joy, peace);
? Keep some quiet time for yourself and think about what you want. What.
3. Pay attention to good luck - have good luck physique - attract good luck - abundance exists;
First let yourself be satisfied and happy, then abundance will naturally exist.
? 4. While understanding yourself, you can understand more people and the world, and your inner world will be broader.
? Go see and experience the various and more possibilities in the world.
In fact, the specific content Zimu shared is not important. What is important is that we can see that the real Zimu and the Zimu in Qianliao are the same person. This is the most important.
Attending the UP family’s annual meeting was the most enriching thing I did in 2019.
? Write down the gains, practice them well, and firmly believe that you will see a different yourself in 2020.
? (Written at the end: One week has passed since the annual meeting. Every day, I am as busy as a schizophrenic, working and accompanying my children. No matter how hard I try, I can’t spare a large amount of time to write quietly. But, when you If you really desire something, the whole universe will unite to help you, so, you see, the manuscript is finished~)?