After the opening of the second child, many families have chosen to have two children, most people feel that the family two children, a son and a daughter, is the best state.
But in their later years, many parents through comparison to realize that the family two daughters of the two-daughter family, parents in their later years more relaxed.
Auntie Qian's family is two daughters, most of the girls are gentle and considerate, the child has been well disciplined since childhood, Auntie Qian and her husband to the two daughters to save a good dowry , the daughters grew up to have a family.
Auntie Qian and her husband have a pension, all right downstairs to dance, and when you have time to go out with your husband travel , Auntie Qian's late life is still quite moist.
After the daughter became a family often "dragged the family" to come back to see the money aunts , the money aunts and husbands do not feel lonely, feel that this life worth.
On the other hand, the two sons of Auntie Zhou, a lifetime of saving money for their sons, young in order to save his son "wife's book", some negligence of the son's education, the child managed to be very difficult.
The two sons have become a family, Auntie Zhou has to often subsidize the child, to help bring up the child, life is busy.
Now they know, the original two daughters of the family, life is still very easy.
Double Daughter Family
Two daughters in the family, equivalent to the family two sweet little coat, if the education of the good, the whole life do not have to worry about parents, married parents are also easy, if the child can often come back to visit, it is more beautiful.
The family of two sons
If the two daughters are two little cotton-padded jackets, two sons are two leather jackets, which look handsome, and if they are not wearing them, they may be a bit leaky.
Boys have been energetic since childhood, always asking to go out to play, every day in the ear of their parents chatter like a "leather monkey", parents of boys can be said to be both love and hate.
It is said that the boy is the "construction bank", two boys at home, parents to be prepared to invest more.
A son and a daughter of the family
A son and a daughter of the family, the most difficult is the parents of the "fair treatment" problem , if the old man in the house is a bit of a patriarchal problem, the The most important thing is that you have to be able to get the best out of them.
In fact, no matter what the family, parental education is the key to a good life, to let the son of self-reliance, so that the daughter of the independent, every family life will be very good.
Families with two children at home, if the child is a twin child is okay, if it is not pass time born of the second and oldest, the parents of the education will have to pay more attention.
Can't be biased, parents do the same
This is the main point, adults are always unconsciously biased, even they do not know their own behavior is biased, to name a few examples.
"You're the older brother, what's wrong with giving the toy to your younger brother for a while?"
"You're the older sister, take care of your brother and bring him around more in the future."
If parents always take care of the little baby and neglect the big baby, the big baby will surely feel aggrieved and think that the mother is not fair, and will grow up to be discordant.
When taking care of the second child, let the big baby participate
Under the premise that mom and dad give children equal love, when taking care of the little baby you can let the big baby participate moderately, the children are actually little angels, know that mom and dad love themselves when they will also spread the love to the earth.
Sun Li in the birth of his sister , put a gift on his sister's bed, said to his brother that this is the sister to you, brother naturally have a good feeling about his sister and look forward to.
She then lets her brother teach his sister about life and some of her skills, giving him an extra layer of invisible pride and responsibility.
Mom and dad give their children enough love, can make the child feel more secure at the same time , but also allows the two children to support each other to grow.
What kind of family model does your family have?