People are contradictory, they don't cherish them when they have them, and when they pass away, when they look back, the person is there, beyond the lights. You and I have always sought joy, but rarely can we truly find it. The flames of our joy are usually sparked by unexpected fires. Don't try to control the joy, quietly enjoy the moment, so that when you look back, there will be no regrets.
Trouble and joy, success and failure, is only a matter of thought. When you know how to adapt yourself to the pain and joy, and can be witty and lucky, you really know how to live. Only by freeing one's mind from all troublesome delusions can one achieve true spiritual happiness. Happy people are all the same, optimistic about life, pleasant to work, and endeavor.
In the haze of the epidemic, we know better to cherish their own health, happiness is health, depression is disease. Let us be healthy and happy every day!
When I was a child, I really feel that my father is a great man, I feel that my father can do anything, very powerful, what I have asked him to meet, my father earns money, can support a family of people, and at that time I felt so useless, nothing can be done, I really want to grow up and dad, so you can buy a lot of toys you want to eat, eat snacks, want to buy things, do a lot of children can not do anything! And I am now also at the bottom of this society crawling and rolling, stay up to the end of the month to pay wages, but found that when I was a child wanted to buy Transformers toys, has now no longer want to eat when I was a child like to eat snacks, chili, etc. has long been no need to mouth, when I was a child wanted to grow up to do a lot of things, has long been no interest. Now there are interested in things also have no time to do and have to face the pressure of work, life pressure, family pressure, ate a lot of pain, they also secretly cried. The burden of carrying this family falls on me. Has now eaten the bitter and the future of the heartache, let me dare not to associate, looking at the fall of the two tears, flooded with light, as if I saw my childhood "that day, the rain, I drooped my head, sitting in front of the window, shaking his legs, floating thinking of the day he grew up"
The corners of the mouth rose slightly, I can not help but sneer! Hmph... I'm not sure if I've ever been in a situation where I've had to go back to my childhood," he said.
When I was a child, I felt that the adults were so powerful, so heroic, that they could decide things on their own, make money, and dominate their own actions.
At that time, I used to sit on the half waist high stone window sill, looking out the window swaying with the opening of the passionate cosmos, looking at the flower wings of the free-flying butterflies, looking at the tree branches of the birds play and fight, even a mature hen can be proud of an egg chirping ......
I think, grow up to be very good, at that time, I can make my own money, I can buy the eggs.
But I don't know from when, this feeling a little bit faded and shallow, the years with a sharp knife a little bit cut off a lot of things, but left a lot of mottled traces. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you'll be able to get your hands on some of the most popular ones.
The other day, my daughter made me feel a lot of emotion with a careless remark, she said: How did my sister-in-law age so much this year? When she asked, I hurriedly turned my head and rushed to the bathroom in tears.
A few years ago, I went home for New Year's Eve, because there are many people, Dad to install an iron bed, that day I saw him twisting the screws very slowly and strenuously, and then casually took over to help screw on. But in the moment I did it, the acidity made me silent for half a second. It turned out that the screws are very light, very light, I just realized that Dad is old, no longer that walk will have to wait for my strong man, but a vicissitude of the old man.
The year before last, he left, and never came back, I often dream of him, the heart will be torn like pain awake. If possible, I really want to go back to the past, back to the time when the fireworks flourished, back to the carefree years, when mom and dad were young, we have not grown up.
Feng Zikai said a sentence: When I was a child, I was really stupid, always thinking about growing up. Yes, when we were young, we were so stupid that we didn't know that we had to pay so much to grow up.
Also Heartless said: If it is a good childhood, perhaps still want to go back, if it is a groovy childhood, probably no one thought of the past! The reality is that you grow up, regardless of the good and bad childhood, adults rely on their own hands to save the future of life!
How is it that in childhood you think about growing up, and when you grow up, you think about going back to childhood?
That's where my story begins:
Why is it that once upon a time we were tired of childhood?
First of all, the beginning of man, nature is good, people are born with the spiritual world material world is blank, with the growing up contact with new things, I especially remember when I was a child reading by the Academy, Mom and Dad to instill learning, and that's when I was forced to think! At that time, I thought the original adults so good, do not have to go to school, every day free and easy how good ah! Especially to the rebellious period found that the outside world is so good, why be governed by adults, I want to grow up to get rid of the control of adults! I remember just stepped into the social entrepreneurship with the family to discuss, they said you're still small, so you're a little older, accumulated experience and then say!
When you grow up, you want to go back to your childhood?
In fact, when you grow up, you realize that the outside world is not so good, but whenever you encounter a little frustration, you will think of your childhood, just like the first time I failed to start a business, thinking of my childhood memories of the time when it was really good to not have to take care of anything, and every day, the food came to the mouth, the clothes came to the hand! In fact, not only we have those buried half of the old man, once with grandma dinner, think of what you want to eat when you are young, what to eat, but now rice, meat, vegetables, fruit, but where there is a little hard to eat, teeth, body, mind, hearing and eyesight are not as good as they used to be! You say who do not want to go back to childhood!
My grandfather, 19 years in August gone
My grandma, although old but very healthy
Hello, I'm rain broken Jiangnan, I'm very happy to answer this question, when we were young, we are subject to constraints on parental discipline, want to grow up quickly, grow up because of a variety of reasons, and want to return to childhood.
Happy childhood, just do not know Time is gone no return No matter where we are now, we please cherish what we have now, cherish the time now, do not recall today in the future one day is a blank, we are writing their own chapter every day, cherish have!
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Childhood is a dream in the true, is true in the dream. Watching others slowly grow up and say goodbye to childhood. How much I hope to grow up, grow up to realize that the world is not as real as childhood!
Nineteen years old that year in Shaoguan train station met a self-proclaimed Anhui over the girl, to my brother ah brother ah shouting, shouting while tears flowed, said the money is lost, no money home. She said she had lost her money and had no money to go home. She asked me to help her with two hundred dollars. I gave her twenty dollars without saying a word. After a few hours in Nanhuasi a big stall, I want a five-dollar fast menu, is eating the feeling of unsatisfied I suddenly saw the Anhui girl ordered a table of rich dishes and her companions laughing and eating, the first time I feel the adult world is too false and too complicated. The first time I felt that the adult world is too false and complicated.
Slowly growing older and older, I've suffered losses and been fooled. I feel that time passes so fast, many things are still too late to do, many things have not yet learned. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one. Like a song sung: "If I can make a wish, I would like to go back to childhood ......"
When we were young, we were tired of childhood and anxious to grow up for the simple reason that if it is a child growing up in the countryside as a child there will be such an idea. Children growing up in the countryside can't compare their childhood with children in the city, we wear new clothes once a year, we don't have toys, we seldom have snacks.... So let me give you an example!
When I was a child, my family was poor, my parents were divorced and went their separate ways, and I wanted to go to school without any money, so I could only watch others read with bated breath in front of the classroom door (and I can still remember the longing look in my eyes)
It was not easy to have the money to go to school but I was afraid to go to school because I had to do the farm work as soon as I got off from school, and when my grandparents went out to do the farming, I had to go back to the house to cook dinner too late and I was scolded or even beaten. On weekends or holidays, I had to help out in the fields, digging sweet potatoes, picking peanuts, wrenching corn, herding cows, etc... And so on! The action at that time can not be so, the basket should be stuffed full, or will be scolded.
When I was a kid, other people had money to buy snacks, and I didn't dare to ask for it, and I didn't even have the money to buy a book, so I envied the rich people's children at that time. I want to buy books on their own to pick up mineral water bottles to sell, then 10 cents a, I can sell dozens of dollars each time, and then go to buy food, buy books, go to the supply house to take spicy tablets to sell in the classroom, the teacher class I will sell spicy tablets (so there is no mind to read, and finally became illiterate) all the children like New Year's Eve because there are clothes to wear and take the New Year's Eve money, I do not have it, I can only wear my cousin do not want the Clothes ah ......
So when I was a child I was very hopeful that quickly grow up: at that time grow up to grow up is very simple: grow up I do not have to do farm work, will not be beaten up, will not have no money, I want to buy what to buy what I have to buy, and I have the New Year's Eve money.
So why the rush back to childhood now? Maybe it's because I've been working for a long time, and I'm tired of the workplace, and I regret that I didn't study hard enough, so I've been out in the community for more than a decade and I'm still not doing anything about it. Out of the society after no longer feel the feeling of childhood New Year's every family, visiting friends and relatives, now people are selfish, material requirements more and more obvious, do not talk about feelings, only about money. There is only one reason why I want to go back to my childhood: no matter what, I want to study well and study hard. In slowly growing up, slowly look at society, look at the workplace, look at human nature, one step at a time.
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Speaking of childhood, the first thing that comes to mind is Luo Dayou's creation of "childhood": "Waiting for class, waiting for school, waiting for the game of childhood ......"
The only two things that can make me get rid of the sadness of my childhood, the game and read the The only two things that got me out of the sadness of my childhood were games and reading books.
At that time, young boys can play a lot of games, such as playing paper airplanes, can play a few months. A dozen young boys fly paper airplanes together to see whose plane will turn, or fly high, can fly over the roof, or fly the slowest, stop in the air for the longest time. Airplanes often fly to the end, full of house eaves, tiles, rafters are parked on the large and small paper airplanes did not fly over the roof. Most of the time, adults called us children home for dinner, we all play not willing to go back. Because the airplanes they folded did not fly high above the roof. Only one or two were willing to go home for dinner, because his folded airplane did not fly over the roof, but hung high in the fork of a tree. Because of this alone, he would become the idol of worship, and everyone begged him to fold airplanes for them, and flattered him with good food to make him happy.
Playing glass ball is also very fun, squatting down, drawing a line, aiming, popping the glass ball with the thumb, hitting the other side of the glass ball. Play more people, rock-paper-scissors-paper guessing order, who won who first. If a person was close and hadn't hit it, everyone looked disgusted and cursed with their mouths, "It stinks like shit! Get up, get up, get out of the way! Let me do it!" If you're far away and you hit it, you have to listen to the sound. The sound of two glass balls colliding, "bang", everyone heard and saw the two glass balls touching together and bouncing away. "Rattling, ringing, hairy, you motherfucker too cow, eye-accurate very very!" Everyone praised in unison. Just based on this praise, because of play, forget to feed the pigs and chickens, was beaten by adults, do not feel much pain.
There are also playing cattle, now called gyro, playing water pistol, playing motorcycle chain gun, playing slingshot, playing sandbags, spelling Pod rod, spelling flower firewood pole (cotton pole), catching fish, sets of robin, stealing watermelon (small children are just to quench their thirst, as long as they do not spoil, adults pretended to whisk a little, coaxed to dissipate the matter), sitting around and chatting about the "Railroad Guerrillas", "Journey to the West", not lively and happy. Often play and play on the dark, play and play on the adults will be chasing after the call. Because adults can not find people half a day, either in the high stacks of wheat, adults did not pay attention to, either sitting on the branches of a large tree, or drilling into the high and dense corn, adults simply can not see.
The games are many and fun, but I also love to read books. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it in the future. Adults give the change, can not afford to buy food, all bought into the book. Like to see too much, "the story of the cowherd and the weaving maiden", "Wu Sung fights the tiger", "seven swords down the mountain", "Wang Er Xiao", "Red Sun", popping Huo Yuanjia "and so on, looking at, can not help but enter the story situation, sometimes fearful, sometimes laughing, sometimes heroic, sometimes silent tears. ......
Childhood time so fondly remembered, although there are painful memories, but recall, more is the joy of the game. Because there are troubles, there is pain, so eager to grow up, every day on the door frame measurement height, really grow up day by day, but the trouble increases. All the troubles and pains of childhood seem to be much smaller than the hardships and tribulations suffered by adults. So the joys and pains of childhood have become beautiful memories.
Childhood is so short, the girl in the next class has not passed by my window, turned into a square dance mom, the teacher's chalk is not in the blackboard chattering and writing, the teachers have retired or passed away, the teachers said the inch of gold can't buy the inch of time this sentence, but also sent me from childhood to the middle age!
Remembering childhood, intoxicating, cherish the moment, do not forget the beginning of childhood, life will be more colorful and beautiful!
Remember the song "Childhood"? "Under the banyan tree by the pond, the robin is loudly screaming summer", this is how peaceful picture, seems to be yesterday. Childhood makes people can't help but miss it, especially when they grow up and become adults, and especially when their life is in trouble.
As a child, I grew up in the countryside, quiet and beautiful. I remember there was a river behind the house, I didn't know its name at that time, but now I know it is called the Touchdown River (I wrote it in my poem, and won an award. (I wrote it in my poem and won a prize.) There carries too many of my childhood memories, not bitter, very sweet. There are scenes of me and my family's big wolf dog playing in the water in summer, and there are even more warm memories of my father carrying me across the river to see a movie in another village. The days, although poor, I also full of desire for the outside world, also want to grow up quickly, but never tired.
Saying goodbye to childhood and becoming an adult, we will face our own life independently no matter where we are, no matter whether our parents are beside us or not. Perhaps we will encounter the haze, perhaps we will be in trouble, and the more this time, the valve of memory will be more toward the childhood a plunge in the ocean. Back to childhood, back to that kind of carefree state, we seem to be able to find now rare happiness, we seem to be able to avoid those entangled is and is not. The first time I saw the movie, I was in the middle of it, and I was in the middle of it, and I was in the middle of it.
Despite the exhaustion of life, despite the empty bag, despite the good memories, but the road is still underfoot extension, do not have to stick to, and walk and cherish, including now, including the childhood that has long since faded away.