When in love, the kiss between men and women is a lightning strike, which is one of the ways to convey feelings. Sweetness can enhance the relationship between two people.
But after entering the marriage, with the growth of age, many couples have become strangers, under one roof. If it weren't for the children, they might not even say a word.
The intimate relationship between husband and wife is more formal, which makes many women feel that they are married to a man who doesn't love themselves, and men no longer express their love to women. They would rather lie on the sofa and play with their mobile phones than listen to women nagging about trivial things in life.
Why is this happening? Does love become a family relationship, so there is no need for intimacy?
No, everyone is eager to be loved, but some people are tired of this day-to-day lifestyle in marriage and even ignore their loved ones.
The longer two people get along, the closer the relationship becomes. Everyone has the psychology of liking the new and hating the old, and often ignores the people in front of them and pursues those flashy things.
Why did july rhapsody stop loving when he was 18? Honey? Wife? Let's see the truth about the bearer.
@ Tiger Brother: I stopped kissing after my wife said that she never really liked me.
My wife is my college classmate, and she is my senior. When we met in the same city, I began to pursue her. After dating for a year, we got married.
I love her very much. I bought a house with her name written on it, and gave it to her for safekeeping after I paid my salary. She is also in charge of family affairs. I think I gave her what I could, but she likes to quarrel with me more and more.
After every quarrel, she would say sorry to me first, saying that she would quarrel with me because she was in a bad mood. After ten days and a half, she took the initiative to argue with me. After I found out that she was wrong, after chatting with her, she said that she never really liked me, just because she thought I was a good person and married me.
Her words really hurt. I love her, but I feel hurt. For the sake of my son, I'm not as good to her as before, but it's okay, but I don't kiss her anymore.
I hope I can wait until the day when she falls in love with me, but I know I can't wait, so I'll make do with it.
My wife doesn't like kissing, so I can't brush my teeth first I'm used to it.
When I was in love, my wife didn't like me kissing her. Let me kiss my cheek or forehead at most. I thought she was reserved.
I just found out after marriage that she just doesn't like kissing. Every time I sneak attack, she washes her lips over and over again, as if I were dirty. In order to make her accept me, I don't eat smelly food or brush my teeth, but she just won't let me kiss.
Everyone has self-esteem. After a long time, I have no interest in chasing her and kissing her. She seems to like the way I keep my distance from her.
There is a close relationship between us, that is, we don't want to kiss. She said she just hated kissing and felt uncomfortable.
If you love her, you have to accept her shortcomings. I wonder if there is anyone with the same fate as me. I sometimes wonder if she is mentally ill and so disgusted with kissing.
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@ Gaoshan: The relationship between husband and wife is weak and they are tired of looking at each other. They don't even want to kiss her.
We are all working. We are busy with work during the day. In the evening, we went home and had a good time after dinner. She went to the square dance and I watched TV at home. I don't want to say anything more.
In her words, she thinks I am enough, and I think she is enough. She scolded me without saying three words, and I retorted. This life is actually quite boring.
But we have never mentioned divorce. We think that marriage is actually the same, and how many people can really love each other until they are old, just to live together.
There are only a handful of intimate relationships between us. When I took the initiative to find her, she either said that she was uncomfortable or not in the mood. After a long time, I don't even want to think about it.
Although this kind of marriage sometimes makes me feel miserable, I have never thought about divorce, and I don't know what will happen in the future.
@ Lao Huang: I work outside all the year round, and I can't even kiss if I want to.
My son is going to college, and my wife is taking care of the whole family in her hometown. I know she works harder than me, and I will give her the money I earn every month to reassure her.
We have a good relationship. Every time we go back, we are a little strange, but in less than half a day, we will get close again. She cooked for me, I told her what I saw outside, and then we went out to buy daily necessities. I felt very happy.
Although I seldom kiss my wife, I think she should understand me. When I am rich, I will go back to her, watch the sunset together and face life together.
When a man reaches middle age, in the eyes of some men, his wife has become the most important person in his life. He will take the initiative to kiss his wife, tell her his love and make her feel happy.
However, some men are lazy in marriage. For whatever reason, they don't want to kiss their wives. They don't want to manage their marriage with heart, but they hope that the other half can make a change first. 、
A good relationship between husband and wife is created by each other, not waiting. Only by knowing how to manage your own marriage can the relationship between two people be closer.
May everyone know how to express love and maintain the relationship between two people!