Grandpa and grandma, as people of different times, their values, aesthetics and experience in parenting are obviously different from mom and dad, and sometimes there are some laughable things that happen.
Daughter went to her grandmother's house, a few days later, parents almost did not recognize, netizens: yearbook out of the baby
Ms. Mo is a fashionable hot mom, not only on their own dress requirements, and just went to kindergarten, four-year-old daughter Yoyo also has a different dress requirements, every day to her daughter to dress up beautiful.
For a while, Yoyo's sweet wind, princess style dress has become a kindergarten girl parents compete with the model, Ms. Mo is very proud of this. But in the child's winter vacation sent back home to the grandmother to care for a few days, happened a subversion of her aesthetics of things, let her really laugh and cry. A few days after sending the child to the grandmother's home, Ms. Mo and her husband were ready to pick up the child. But when she returned to her grandmother's home, see the home in front of the parents to meet their own Yoyo stunned, this dress almost do not recognize is the family's Bao Wa: "This is which 'Fuwa'"?
Just see the daughter of that small size in wearing a flower red and green flower jacket, pink face red, its brow on the point of a round and red vermilion nevus, round head tied two groups of twisted braids bundled up pills, and in the pills of the left and right sides tied with a red flower. At this moment, Yoyo saw his mother and rushed over with a big smile on his face, his big eyes looking at his mother like stars.
People in different times, and individuals themselves have different aesthetics, concepts of life, the family has the old man to bring us children, the child's character, the impact of different differences.
A, can feel the warmth of the family, the character of the gentle
Nowadays, most of the mothers and fathers in order to go to work to earn money from the morning busy to the night, very little time to accompany the child, and in the spare time most of the cell phone, watching TV to play to amuse the life of the pressure, to the children's companionship, care is very little. If the child is given to the family elderly care, not only can the child get timely care, but also allows some of the elderly have to rely on, and with the increase in the age of the elderly, their minds are more mature, stable, to a certain extent, can be rubbed out of the child's playfulness, impatience. This makes the child's character more gentle and loving.
Two, so that the child has a caring heart
The child in the mode of coexistence with the elderly, the common topic is only clothing, food, housing, transportation, such as "whether to eat? The first time I've seen this, I've seen it in my life. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty and get out of the way. Is it cold to add clothes?" In the details of daily life, children will imitate the behavior of the elderly under their careful care. It is said that young children are best at imitating the behavior of those around them, and in the old man's daily life, the children are easily infected, so as to develop a heart that knows how to care for others.
Three, you can reduce the child's obsession with electronic products
Nowadays, the popularity of electronic products, and the children of this kind of magical full of temptation is always easy to attract the product, as a young parents familiar with all kinds of electronic products, and most of the old man seems to be not cold. As a result, most of the elderly choose to spend time in the park may be the way to walk, writing, reading or square dancing, etc., to a certain extent, can reduce the child's access to electronic products, and even more likely to follow the elderly to learn a skill.
Everything has its pros and cons, the topic of the elderly with children or have to analyze specific problems, if the child is simply thrown to the elderly
custody, or dislike of the elderly to help with the baby are some of the wrong.