We all know that many single elderly people living alone, often feel lonely and isolated. In order to change this situation, but also to improve their quality of life, some people will find an old partner to live together. That said, if the two sides can accompany each other and take care of each other, it is also a good choice.
But the problem is that elderly people tend to focus on the results and light process, and only really come together when they realize that there are big differences between each other's habits, ideas, and relationships with their children, which can lead to entanglements or contradictions, or even break up.
Like a 65-year-old Pi Da-ma in the courtyard, as told, partner only 7 months to break up, because the old partner is always blind nonsense, this day can not go on.
01
I'm a villager in the middle of the city, and I've been given five houses for demolition, so I've been able to make ends meet by collecting rents, even though I don't have a pension. I have only one daughter, and I wanted to stay with her, so I could take care of her when she got older. The first time I saw this, I was able to get the ball rolling, and I was able to get the ball rolling, and I was able to get the ball rolling.
This makes me more or less a little bit lost, often heard who's children have no success, stay at home to chew the old what, and we have this daughter is good, on the family property is not at all interested in. The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't think I'm going to be able to do that, but I think I'm going to be able to do that," he said.
People are sometimes so contradictory, when the child does not progress, will be anxious and angry; when the child is away from their own to struggle, and will be reluctant and miss. As the saying goes, not to raise children do not know parents grace. It's true that only people who are parents can realize what it's like to be one.
By this time, I also figured out that everyone has their own life. And as an old man, as long as you take care of your own body, run your own life, is the greatest love for the child.
02
In order not to let my daughter worry, but also to live a happier life, I intend to find an old partner to enjoy their old age together.
With the help of my neighbors, an old man named Yan soon came into my life. He is a retired worker, handy, happy all day, love to talk, love to joke, belong to no matter who meet with the familiar kind of people.
I like the old Yan's character, think with such a person to live a life is certainly not boring, will not lack of fun, so not long to recognize, moved to a piece.
Because each other are single for many years, at the beginning, help each other, very fresh, that I found the right person, the rest of his life should have to rely on . But as we got to know each other better, many of his problems showed up, and I gradually realized that I might be happy a little too early.
03
Lao Yan likes sports, and especially likes to watch sports TV programs. There was a time when he would stay in front of the TV every night to watch soccer matches, and he would applaud and even yell when he was excited.
This was a real pain in the ass for me, as I was a very light sleeper. After many reminders to no avail, the two of us had a disagreement, and from time to time, we had a fight.
It was hard for me to get past the game, and I thought I could get a solid night's sleep, but he changed his ways and went to bed early and got up early.
After he made such a mess, I was very sleepy, but I couldn't sleep no matter what, and I had to get up at 5 o'clock when I was tossing and turning.
04
If the night rest is not good, during the day nothing to make up for a sleep, which can be reluctantly accepted, then the old Yan's another move, but I no matter how can not bear.
He is the captain of a square dance team, and every day after the show, he would let a few old ladies come to the house to watch videos and practice new dance moves.
One day, I walked back and found that he was laughing and joking while holding a woman's hand in the dance, and suddenly I was not happy. After all, the two people are partners in life, he so do not take into account my feelings blind nonsense, is not too much?
Since you are not polite, why do I have to make do. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it, and I'm sure I'll be able to do it. Afterwards, a few old ladies slipped away.
05
After I so stirred up, the old Yan may feel lost face, the attitude has changed a lot, not only no longer do the housework, but also noiselessly with me to separate the room.
It's not just a matter of time before you get to the point where you've got a lot of money, it's a matter of time before you get to the point where you've got a lot of money, it's a matter of time before you get to the point where you've got a lot of money.
Such a stalemate for more than a month, one day out, the neighbor sister quietly told me, said more than once to see the old Yan accompanied by a woman in the shopping it, can be long a mind, do not be stupid to be counted on others.
Upon hearing this, I immediately realized that I have no chance with the old man, and the strong melon is not sweet, or each of them is good. The next day, I took the initiative to break up.
Conclusion:
From Pi's experience, it is easy to see that many single elderly people have the idea of finding a companion to live with, but because of their habits, ideas, and different personalities and temperaments, the real partnership can not do to understand each other, and mutual tolerance, once the conflict will be complaining or accusing each other, and finally broke up.
For the lonely and isolated elderly, partnering is indeed a good choice, but in the face of reality, we must not be hasty before making a decision. After all, this is not a family, need to carefully understand, carefully grind, until each other agree, and then go to take that step.
Everyone is looking forward to living a happy life, but don't forget that only when others are happy, they will be really happy.
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