I grew up in the countryside, and there are many such things in the village. One example is the case of a brother who died and his sister-in-law; another is the case of a brother who died and his sister-in-law. Fear of gossip words outside the words is I do not refuse, together is a three win, parents are happy, sister-in-law accepted, you also solve the lifelong affairs, quite good.
Follow your heart in all things, you have to know: you and your sister-in-law together will be gossiping, you are not together will be said, the mouth is long in other people's bodies, idle gossip, do not rest assured. The fact that they say what they say is their business, and the day is still their own.
Their own family and harmony is better than anything else. If you feel that your sister-in-law is also good and acceptable. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one. As for what you say gossip and so on there is no need to consider more. According to past rural customs, brother passed away brother can marry sister-in-law as a daughter-in-law. But when the brother is gone, the brother can't have the sister-in-law as his wife.
Now is the rule of law, as long as you are willing, and does not violate the state's marriage law, your parents do not agree and then oppose are useless. If you are not willing to your parents again like, your sister-in-law again willing to be equally useless. My opinion is that if you also like your sister-in-law, then it's a good idea. Don't be embarrassed! The law will protect you if you are truly in love and willing. You just take your sister-in-law boldly and bravely go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a license, as soon as possible to turn your sister-in-law into your lover - a legal wife.
Marriage is not a child's play. Marry or not to marry a woman, or to see you love her, you and her character, three views are not compatible. Other than that, your parents' reluctance, the gossip of your surroundings should not sway you. The life you live is for yourself. I'm not sure if you're a good person, but I'm a good person.
Your parents can't afford it, which means your sister-in-law is a very good daughter-in-law, recognized by your parents. There will also be a lot less friction in getting along as a family. If there are nieces and nephews, it's good for them too. But it still depends on whether you like your sister-in-law like that or not. If you are interested, it would be good to get along with them in a different capacity. Gossip doesn't matter.
This kind of thing does happen, and you are not a precedent. Don't worry about what others are saying. Let them talk about their own lives. The main thing is, first think about your own heart whether you have the intention, in the see sister-in-law's will how. See your introduction sister-in-law does not oppose means she is interested, if both are interested, indeed a good thing.
This is a great way to re-establish a family that is facing disintegration. The parents save heart, sister-in-law save heart, you also save trouble, completed the lifelong affairs. It's a good thing that everyone is happy. It's true that there are such things. But the role is that of the sister-in-law, whose sister passed away due to illness. She takes her sister's place and turns her brother-in-law into her husband. From then on the family was on track and the family blended in harmony.
If you don't like your sister-in-law, then don't make it difficult for yourself, condescending, emotional matters can't be exempted from force, which are all kind of rather bad. Some parents due to the death of their son, feel that the son in law alone to raise children is not easy, will suggest that the younger son to continue sister-in-law. This practice is not unheard of, but the youngest son and his sister-in-law must have a foundation of affection, otherwise the marriage will have too many stumbling blocks and it will be difficult to get together. A twisted melon is not sweet. Be quiet and ask yourself inside.