Divorce requires courage, and at this age, it takes even more courage to divorce, and this courage is only given by men. This is the first and most likely scenario.
The fact that you can't even make do with what you've got shows that it's not just a matter of feelings.
Usually there is a principle damage in the marriage, or some behavior of the other party, has seriously touched their bottom line, to the limit of their tolerance.
For example, there is domestic violence, betrayal, irresponsibility, or addiction to gambling and alcohol.
When it comes to the older generation, most of them think of hard work, hard work, simplicity, and hard work, but there are also those who don't take responsibility for their own lives and have a big temper at home.
There is also a part of the population that is getting older, the more it is getting worse.
There are many such cases around, in fact, the couple's feelings have long been gone, is to hold the attitude of making do with this life. The husband's temper, eccentricity, young often domestic violence wife, and then the child is older, there is some restraint, but when the child is married, not only back to the original, and even more than the previous excessive.
In the case of intolerable, the woman only filed for divorce, and only divorce to get relief, is not willing, but more do not want to be in this marriage to take in their own lives.
So it's not that she wants a divorce, but she can only get a divorce, not even a chance to survive.
Secondly, they have been ready for divorce for a long time.Most are ready for divorce when they are young, and the only reason they put it off until they are 50 is because of the kids.
After the child has a family and a life of his or her own, such a divorce will have little effect on the child, and the child will have his or her own family and a life of his or her own anyway.
This kind of woman has long been desperate for marriage, and her heart has long been broken.
Maybe there is no principle of injury, but in many small things, accumulated countless times of disappointment, which evolved into despair. It's always been about waiting and inevitably preparing in advance for a divorce.
So, every disappointment brought to the loved ones in the marriage, that is never healed scars, no matter how long the past, there will be a trace in.
It is said that time is the biggest killer of marriage, in fact, disappointment is.
Every time you experience a disappointment, the other person will do one less thing to love you, and the enthusiasm will be reduced by one point as a result. People's hearts are not cool for a day, leaves are not yellow for a day, how desperate a person is for you, how ruthless and desperate they will be.
Generally this kind of woman in the divorce, but also will not think of remarriage, just want to make up for their own, just want to love themselves. I hope to put on their own lifetime of debt, are not given back.
The rest of their lives only to please themselves, only loyal to themselves.
Third, prepare yourself for the retreat.To put it bluntly, it is a change of heart, there is a new love outside, in advance to prepare for their own retreat, so that, after the divorce will not need to spend that difficult window period, to a seamless.
Women are not rational creatures, they just follow their feelings.
So when they do something, when they make a certain choice, they don't think about the cost, the consequences, they just follow what they feel at the time and tend to get bent out of shape.
It has nothing to do with age, it's the nature of women, nature, sensual animals.
As the saying goes, when a woman decides to go, no matter how much the man retains, it will be in vain.
But I have to say one thing, naturally, can be worth the woman so desperate, of course, because of the "true love", at least she thinks the true love. Usually, they are cheated, but just by the rhetoric and sweet words of the men out there.
General outside the man, are painting cake to her hungry, promised her a particularly beautiful, promising future . In the face of this cake, the woman is really no way to refuse, and even directly began to fantasize about the future of the happy life, is thinking about their own dance in that colorful new world.
When really together, the freshness faded, the face of life in the chicken skin, will only begin to regret and blame themselves. But by that time, there's no turning back.
So, people must not pursue excitement, the more beautiful things the more dangerous, even if it is not dangerous, will take you into danger. Plain and simple is true, but unfortunately many people will only shout slogans, not at all to the heart.