Marriage and love are both on both sides, like glue like glue, who can't leave anyone, but once the marriage is broken, the love is gone.
Love at the time, regardless of the two people in not together, each other love each other, each other hanging on to each other. If two people have problems with their feelings and separate, it depends on how deep the two people's feelings are, if the feelings are deep, the two people can still get back together. If the feelings are not very deep, it is difficult to say, after the separation of the injured party, will be in the cooling period to think about a problem, two people in the end is not suitable, the future of the two people together will be a kind of what situation, is happy or suffering, will continue to think about this problem.
Calm period for a long time, the mind completely awake, this time if you choose to put down this relationship, which means that the two do not exist love, this time if the other party wants to get back, I'm afraid it is impossible, put down the feelings and then want to get back together, back to the old days of such sweet love, is impossible, feelings of the scars of the scars once a big crack, will not be restored to the original as good as the beginning of the appearance, even if the two together, the two will not be able to get back together, but will be able to get back together. Even if the two people together, will feel uncomfortable twisted, slowly will also be separated, so that since one party has put down this relationship, then the other party should also want to open, slowly put him down, each other will come out of the pain, to meet the new life.
I think that since he has put it down, but you still want to get back together, I think it depends on your character.
If you belong to the extroverted, then I think that since you can not let go, the brave pursuit of him, since you can not let go, you have to be brave to try, or else, wait until later to regret is useless, if you are still young, then you can take your time, I believe that in the cold of the ice will also be melted.
If you belong to the introverted, I personally feel that then give up on your own will be better, because you like the one he has put down, then, you will certainly spend a lot of time in his body, so in his heart, will feel that you can be dispensable, even if you end up in the together, I think that your feelings should not go on for a long time.
Listen to my advice, there are times to give up properly, maybe there will be better, there is no need to hang on a tree, so it is not worth it, you just work hard, have their own financial resources, now there is no later will have, believe in yourself.