My view is that, since you are married to your husband, only to face their own mother-in-law, think of some ways, often communicate with your mother-in-law, talk together, or your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law two people, go out to buy some food, eat in the hotel, exchange feelings, to ease, you and your mother-in-law, the mutual divide, increase a little bit of feelings. Since there is no communication, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can create ah, such as daughter-in-law accompanied by her mother-in-law to the hotel noisy two dishes and drink some drinks and so on, while eating, drinking, chatting, a back to life, two back to familiar, three back to four back to the nature of the *** with the same language and have the words to talk about it, such as: husband is not at home, after dinner to accompany the mother-in-law to go for a walk, square dancing.
There is a common communication barrier between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, even if it is a good relationship with the mother-in-law, there are also affinity points. The difference is that some people are able to grasp the proportion of good expression, good collusion, can start from the big picture, for the husband to share the trouble, so, a big grin open-minded daughter-in-law, it is easy to make the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship into the normal life.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still a good deal, everyone is at ease, your husband will be very loving you later. If you don't have a big conflict with your mother-in-law, but you simply can't communicate with her because of her age, then you should do more homework. You can't let your husband think you're doing one thing in front of him and another behind his back, and men don't like that.
Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because of the relationship between the generation, daughter-in-law treatment of mother-in-law must have respect, of course, you can treat each other as friends, but in front of outsiders, or to her enough face, after all, the Chinese people are good face, once she felt that you let her lose face, but also silently in the heart of Oh. The vast majority of conflicts between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law are due to the collusion of less, less communication, can not open up the heart of the contradiction. You are all educated and insightful, so if you can do this, I'm all for it. Don't look at the face of the mother-in-law seems to be very serious, in fact, the heart is all hot, they are not so complicated inside.