1 Hundred good filial piety first, the mother-in-law as their own mother. As the saying goes, not a family does not enter a family door, step into the family, the first thing to do is filial piety, more concerned about the physical and mental health of the mother-in-law, often do warmth.
2 buy gifts for your mother-in-law, the gift does not lie in expensive, practical best. Especially in the important festivals and mother-in-law's birthday, buy some gifts for your mother-in-law, even if she said that she was afraid of spending money and so on, but she must be very happy in her heart
3 Do not accuse your husband too much in front of your mother-in-law Couples actually have conflicts and friction, you can solve the conflict between the two of you, in front of the face of the mother-in-law to their husbands to point fingers, or call to come to the wave, each and every one of them is a little bit too much, but the mother-in-law has a lot to say. The mother-in-law has a love for her son. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
4 More communication and understanding People often say that three years a generation gap, you and your mother-in-law age difference is so large, it is inevitable that the values are not the same, this time more to the mother-in-law to ask some questions, mother-in-law in the life of experience compared to certainly higher than you. When it comes to things, listen to your mother-in-law's ideas. There are some problems that can't be communicated, so don't fight tit-for-tat. The first thing you need to do is to take a step back.
5 Do not say bad things about your mother-in-law This point should be borne in mind that people's words can be feared, especially in the neighborhood, some of the words will inevitably be transmitted back to the mother-in-law's psychology must be very difficult. A smart daughter-in-law will only praise her mother-in-law outside.
6 Do not intervene too much in your mother-in-law's private life Big mothers generally like to dance, or go to the supermarket to buy some discounted goods, do not mind their habits developed over the years. More tolerant. Dancing is also exercise.
7 do not move angry run back to the mother's home The mother's home is certainly very good , will always be your safe haven, which is so, sometimes the conflict will escalate. Sometimes a problem is not a way to escape, once or twice can be, often so, not only your husband will be annoyed, mother-in-law heart more dissatisfied
8 Do not strongly express the sense of ownership Of course, you are also a part of the family, encountered some of the decision, do not express their own strong will, and ask other members of the idea.
9 Do not treat your mother-in-law as a free babysitter, the old man is thrifty and frugal all his life, to the age of retirement is the time to enjoy the blessings, her old age, should not be kidnapped by you. Mother-in-law is certainly willing to coax their own grandchildren, help you share the housework with children, but you can not overly demanding what should be done.
10 can not live together, try not to live together. Distance produces beauty, long-term investigation found that the two home distance to do a meal time, is the most appropriate distance.
Every family has its own difficulties. Since you stepped into the door of this family, no matter whether the husband or, mother-in-law also pose, must learn to communicate with each other. In this way, the future days will be more harmonious.