In modern society, socializing is a very common thing, but for honest people, it is slightly more difficult, if you want to properly develop skills in this area, then the first step to do is often socialize, and the second step is often read.
Human beings are herd animals, so socializing is a necessary behavior for human beings. But some people like to socialize, some people do not like to socialize. Especially for honest people, many honest people will suffer socially because they lack talent in socializing due to their personality.
Then, if an honest person wants to socialize well, the first step is to socialize often. The original meaning of socialization is to communicate with others in this society, honest people in the social aspect of the lack of ability, often have several performance, and others when talking to swallow, often say the wrong thing. When there are a lot of people, they don't want to come out, they like to stay alone. Even serious, there will be some social phobia. So if you want to change the lack of a certain area, then you have to face it squarely, you can take it as a challenge, the more afraid of socializing, the more often you have to socialize. When you get used to socializing, that's when you start learning social skills, and if you live in perpetual fear, then you won't be able to master social skills. When one's emotions are in a tight spot, of course it's easy to say and do the wrong things.
The next step is the second step, reading long. Why do you say read long? Reading is one of the most basic and effective ways for a person to grow their knowledge. A book created by a former person is all that he has gained from his life's views and experiences of the world. Reading is about enriching yourself, learning something that you can use for yourself and then applying it to socializing, enriching your social skills, making what you say less vague, and helping your thinking and language skills.
So if an honest person wants to master social skills, they need to join in social activities and read from time to time.