Chasing girls is just like looking for a job, it's all about finding a target that you like and is suitable for you, and then figuring out how to make the other person accept and even like you.
So we can divide chasing girls into four steps: finding a target - target analysis - self-cultivation - decisive attack.
Specifically how to do it?
1. Finding a target
You have to find the target that you get to make sense, very common if you take the school flower as a target, then you can only be a joke.
Remember, it's not impossible for a loser to get back at a rich girl, but when a loser gets back at a rich girl, he's not a loser anymore.
The essence is still value matching.
So, when looking for a target to pursue, you must measure your own and the other's value is not a match. Then based on the matching results, and then choose the right target for you to engage.
But be careful, it is not that the value match, or value you higher than him, will certainly be able to become.
This is just the beginning, the value match is just the possibility of getting it done.
The next step is to show the real technology.
2. Target analysis
It is to analyze the needs of the girl, that is, to analyze what kind of boy the girl likes.
The first row of glasses, you say again "handsome" try! Shallow! It's vulgar!
What's the big deal about ......
It's true that everyone likes a good-looking guy!
It's not shallow to like the rich and handsome! It's not vulgar! Girls all over the world love them!
Why do girls love money?
This preference also has a history, in the primitive period, the era of male farming and weaving, until the reform and opening up of gender relations, men can not reproduce without women, women can not survive without men, so men to provide for women's reproduction is the fundamental relationship between the two sexes, and this selection mechanism has been maintained for tens of thousands of years.
These 30 years, many girls have become economically independent and don't need to be supported by you. But the feeling of wanting to be supported by you is still deep in their genes.
Just like liking big boobs is in your genes.
Chow Sing Chi is not only the king of comedy, but also the king of flirting with girls. In "The King of Comedy", poor loser Yin Tian Qiu shouted at Liu Piao Piao, "I'll keep you!"
Liu Piao Piao earns much more than him and doesn't need him to support him at all.
However, it was this "I'll support you" that touched Liu Peopeo and made her fall in love with him.
Nowadays, women don't need you to support them financially, but you have to give her a feeling of "supporting her".
Why do girls like handsome men?
While this really does not need to explain, but in order to prove that I did read the book, I still want to show off a little bit: some psychologists have said that every day gazing at the handsome 10 minutes, the fitness effect is equivalent to do 30 minutes of aerobic exercise, the average life expectancy can be extended by four or five years.
In addition to the preference for handsome men, women also have a preference for talented men (high IQ men) (mankind into civilization for thousands of years, genetically good selection of preferences in the more than one IQ high).
We have found that at the biological level (the biological level is rooted in DNA, which is extremely endogenous) men really only have one need for women, and that is reproduction (this is not objectifying women, it was the case for tens of thousands of years before the perestroika where we were fed). As for all the other sociological needs they were fostered after we were fed.
And on a biological level, women have a twofold need for men: 1. to provide for, and 2. to provide good genes.
This phenomenon was recognized as early as the Warring States period, which is why there is an idiom called "eating in the east and sleeping in the west".
And women at different stages, sometimes prefer to choose the provider, sometimes prefer to choose the gene provider, many brothers have a misunderstanding, think that to be a gene provider must be good, in fact, it is difficult for the gene provider to enter a stable long-term relationship.
For example, Zhang Zhiming in the series "Zhiming Chunjiao" is a proper gene provider, he is often Yu Chunjiao feel unreliable, a previous relationship is also a powerful provider cuckold.
After all, for women, away from the provider simply can not live, away from the gene provider is just offspring genetically poorer (in the instinctive feeling is so, although now women can support themselves, but the gene will drive them to choose this way) ......
3. Self-cultivation
It's not fat guys or short guys that girls hate the most, it's creepy guys.
There are three forms of lewdness: lewd appearance; lewd actions; lewd thoughts.
The appearance of obscene
The body of the parents, can not choose the thing we do not say. But you have to pay attention to the dress, at least the taboos should not be violated, right? For example, if you don't wash your hair, if you don't wear a messy hairstyle, if you don't smell good, if you don't wear black shoes, if you don't wear white socks.
Behavioral obscenity
Like take advantage of the girls salty hands; face a set, behind the back of a set of small people; like to speak in public yellow jokes obscene men and so on.
Thinking obscene
Some boys can not chase girls complained that girls are "gold worship", although it is true that there are some girls is greedy for money, but most of the girls want to find a reliable boys. The fact is that the most important thing is that you have to be able to get the best out of them, and you have to be able to get the best out of them.
4. Decisive attack
(1) Principle: Confidence in the frame.
People who are confident and have a framework know what they want, but also know how to respect others. They understand that girls are meant to be attracted, not chased. They would rather spend their time doing things that will increase their value and improve their inner culture and outer wealth than spend their time licking girls on their knees.
(2) "Marketing" rather than "selling" yourself.
To make the other person feel good about you, you need to:
1 Demonstrate your high value and make the other person feel that she is "worth having".
2 naturally show proper concern for her, so that she can feel that you feel good about her.