Their neighbors are an old couple surnamed Zhang, early in the morning at work will always see the old couple help each other to the park to exercise, and in the evening after dinner can also be seen together holding hands to walk. The old couple's love for each other makes Dandan envious, and she also envisioned that she could be in love with Zhou Liang until old age like them, however, Dandan was very sad after every argument, and when she was alone, she doubted whether she could hold hands with Zhou Liang until old age.
The two argued again because Dandan came back late from shopping and didn't cook, and this time the argument was more powerful than ever. The two of them were so excited that they started to fight for the first time. The sound of breaking things alarmed the old couple, rushed to pull the fight. When they saw Grandpa Zhang and the others coming, they stopped fighting. In order to prevent them from fighting again, Grandma Zhang pulled Dan Dan to their house to persuade them, while Grandpa Zhang stayed behind to persuade Zhou Liang.
Grandpa Zhang listened patiently to Zhou Liang's complaints, and laughed when he heard them, "I thought it was something big, and they were fighting." Zhou Liang hate said: "can not live on the divorce" Grandpa Zhang shook his head and said: "not to that point, you ah, or too young." Zhou Liang silent, Grandpa Zhang asked: you see me and your grandmother Zhang quite love, right?" Zhou Liang nodded, Grandpa Zhang continued, "In fact, ah, we also have different interests, I love to be quiet, she loves to move, and there is no less noise. After retirement, she likes to square dance, I play Tai Chi, at first she always think I do not dance with her, I think and a group of old women twisting around, strange, and too noisy. Tai Chi can strengthen the body and quiet, very suitable for me. We both had a few fights about it during that time, and as I played Tai Chi for a longer time, I realized that some of the things in Tai Chi could be used in my life." Zhou Liang was interested in these words and lifted his spirit to hear his point of view, Grandpa Zhang saw Zhou Liang's reaction then said: taijiquan is subtle and introverted, continuous and continuous, softness overcomes hardness, rapidity and slowness, like flowing clouds and water."
Saying this, he got up and gestured for Zhou Liang to throw a punch. Zhou Liang hesitated for a moment, then straightened his fist, and the old man easily defused it with Tai Chi: "Your fist is rigid, my fist is soft, and if you use softness to defuse rigidity, you will lose. And if both are rigid, both will be injured. After I figured this out, I slowly made myself soft. When your Grandma Zhang argues with me again, I'll use softness to defuse her rigidity. Once I'm familiar with this tactic, I'll be able to navigate not only couples, but other relationships as well." Zhou Liang couldn't help but admire his wisdom, but still didn't understand how the so-called softness could be softened, the old man smiled and said: a glass of water, an apology, a massage, and a word of humor. When she argued with you again, you do not argue against the noise, as long as she poured a cup of water, sincere apology, and then rub her shoulders massage massage, there is a humorous joke to make her laugh, do not believe that her heart is not soft down. Zhou Liang was a little skeptical, the old man laughed and said, "You can try it now ah." Zhou Liang followed Grandpa Zhang to his home to pick up Dandan, with a set of Grandpa Zhang taught, and it worked, just also pearly rain Dandan broke down and laughed.