When a person is diagnosed with cancer, it is the most frustrating time of his life, and after all, he is counting down the days. In fact, people in their daily lives really who will not think about that day will go, which is not psychologically prepared for death, almost no death education since ancient times, foreign countries and we are different, from a young age, there is a lot of death education. But how to educate people do not want to die is objective. If the diagnosis of cancer early and middle stage, do not think of psychological counseling, it is useless. Must be able to operate on surgery, can not be delayed. Now many cancer patients are diagnosed, for various reasons, from small hospitals to large hospitals, waiting for a variety of tests to determine the operation, it takes more than ten days or even more than a month. Cancer is a unit of time times the growth of the discovery may be early, surgery on the middle and late stage there. After the surgery, the doctor will recommend radiotherapy to the patient according to the pathological staging results. This recommendation is determined for you according to the treatment guidelines set by international or national oncology authorities or research specialized institutions. In fact, it is said that getting a tumor is like a glass of water poured onto fluffy soil, and it is all absorbed and dispersed in a flash. As for whether you do radiotherapy, you need to seriously examine the doctor's recommendations and pathology results, and give up your body to touch the bottom to consider the value of human life and death. Money is also a constraint. Truth: With cancer, a person has determined the future time of life, no matter how long or short you want to live. Talking about counseling is a bogus proposition. Can you counsel a patient to barely show relief in your face that that patient doesn't understand that he or she is meeting death? This is a good person to put their own psychological consciousness on the patient. So the patient seeks life with money to toss radiotherapy, no money according to the conditions, remember: the most important thing is to minimize the patient's body to suffer. Some people think: rather let the patient enjoy life normally for half a year, but also better than tossing the pain to live a year, which is the reason why people themselves need to carefully consider the choice of surgery to continue treatment decisions. People care more about relatives, couples, fathers, sons, mothers and daughters to use the time to talk more about the good memories of the past, emotional communication is the most important, and look forward to a peaceful life every day. The best psychological counseling is the exchange of affection, less tossing and less pain, should eat sedative medicine early to eat a little, the heartache of loved ones is difficult to express in words ah!
Wearing a mask, his thinning hair was blown upright by the wind, but he still insisted on going to the unit. The unit of people know about his illness, he also knows that he is now dressed a bit strange, he also knows that colleagues behind the scenes certainly in the discussion about him, he also knows that colleagues see him are a bit overwhelmed, do not know what to say. However, he did not want to stay at home, he wanted to go to the unit.
Sooner or later, other people will know that the concealment can not be concealed, and there is no need to conceal. It's normal for people to live and die, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. He does not want to hide at home, he does not want to make himself at all times like a very sick patient. He felt good now, so he was going to live like a normal person. The doctor said that when he gets out of the hospital he should not think about his illness all the time and that he can live like a normal person.
This was his recovery period after his first intervention, and he had half a month to recuperate at home before returning to the hospital for his second intervention.
He had advanced lung cancer that had metastasized. Despite the fact that the doctors and his family were trying their best to enlighten him that he could live with the tumor and control his condition. However, he himself has a fundamental judgment, he looked up a lot of information, he can probably know his survival period. After thinking about this, his heart is open. Lower the expectation of life, lower the expectation of life, do your best to get a better result, and that's it.
From the day he was diagnosed with lung cancer, he didn't think there was anything scary about it, and he felt no difference between himself and normal people. If he hadn't been coughing for so long, he would have gone for a CT scan and found out that his lung cancer was terminal, and he would still be at work, coughing away.
After the first treatment, there were a few days of weakness, nausea, fever and lack of energy.
The first treatment did have a few days of bad feeling, weakness, nausea, fever, and a lack of energy. He feels that he is just like a normal person now, so why does he always think that he is a patient with advanced lung cancer?
Before the second treatment, he had to do a checkup, to see the effect of the first treatment and to provide a basis for the second treatment. He doesn't know what the specifics are , just listen to the doctor. All he can feel is that his cough is much lighter and he doesn't wheeze much. He knows that the tumor is still in his body, and sometimes when his back and shoulders feel a little uncomfortable, he will wonder if there are metastases again, but before the PET-CT only suggests liver metastases, so he doesn't think about it too much.
In fact, before he was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer, he had all kinds of mental preparations. Although he was usually very healthy, he was almost 50 years old, and he should have figured out many things.
Death is not scary, and he was worried about the long-term pain and suffering that might come with it, and the pain and burden it would bring to his family. -In fact, the worry is superfluous, it should come sooner or later, it is good to be psychologically prepared.
The more free time the more psychological pressure, will think a lot, in fact, is useless. So he does not want to be alone, does not want to stay at home alone. He wants to go back to the unit, so that his colleagues can adapt to his state, and he readjusts to the environment he is in.
Not to think of himself as a patient with advanced lung cancer, not to think about what might happen, now it's good, then now live happily as a normal person, so there is no psychological pressure.
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Cancer patients need the encouragement of their families and the support of their friends in order to help him reorganize his confidence to face the disease, adjust his mindset, and dispel the thoughts that are not positive. Many people may find it hard to accept the news when they first get it, but they must figure out that if they treat anyone and anything negatively from now on, they will not only make themselves more and more pessimistic, but also make the cancer more and more difficult to control. Therefore, cancer patients should first build up confidence and believe that today's medical technology is getting more and more advanced, and that having cancer does not mean that one's life has come to an end. Even if it is difficult to cure, our strong desire to live can still prolong our life a little bit. If you find it difficult to adjust your mind, you can also turn to a psychiatrist, who will give you some professional guidance to help you get through the difficult times.
Whether it's a minor illness, a major illness, or cancer, a good state of mind and a happy mood are absolutely beneficial to the treatment of the disease.
When Mao Zedong went to visit a patient, he comforted the patient with the words, "If you are here, you are at peace." It's good to have a mindset of taking the disease in stride. However, due to the different outlooks on life, values, and worldviews of each person, it may be easy or difficult to adjust. For example, some people take life and death too seriously, that is, very afraid of death of the kind, the face of disease worry, anxiety, can not eat, sleep well. For such patients, we should guide them how to correctly look at the issue of life and death. Who has not died since ancient times? Life and death is the law of nature, who are inevitable, just late and early problem, do not have too much period of service. Because of fear, because of anxiety, and can not cure the disease, death will not sympathize with you. On the contrary, you let go a little bit, a little bit easier, the treatment with the doctor treatment, the food to eat, the play to play. If the physical strength is still available, economic problems, tourism is a good choice to relax, travel around the mountains, one can divert attention, the second in the unknowingly forget about the disease, suffering from certain help.
In addition, the patient should participate in some social activities, find friends to chat, but to talk about some happy, happy, interesting content. You can also tell some other people how to fight with cancer typical examples, so that the patient to establish confidence in the fight with the disease. For example, drinking songs and dancing with others. On the one hand, they can forget the pain of the disease, and on the other hand, they can exercise their body. In a word, as long as the patient is happy. Often tell some jokes to the patient will have good results.
In the face of life-threatening cancer, it is really a difficult thing to build up enough confidence and stay unusually calm. Therefore reducing the psychological stress of cancer patients is therapy in itself, even a quite important therapy. To let the patient fully understand the condition, psychologically assist them to get out of the negative emotions, cooperate with the treatment, and actively fight against cancer.
Dependence increases, passivity worsens, and behavior becomes childish;
Self-esteem increases, and after illness, he always thinks that he should be cared for and taken care of by others, and that his relatives should be devoted to him
Suspicion worsens, and he even thinks that others talking in a low voice are talking about his illness, etc.;
It also manifests itself in abnormal subjective sensations, easy to be agitated, anxiety and fear, fear of loneliness and so on;
1, when the doctor for the patient to confirm and inform the family of the condition, the family should strive to control their own emotions, timely to the doctor to understand the patient's overall situation, to take care of the patient's burden, and to assist the doctor to choose the best treatment program to achieve satisfactory results.
2, the patient learns that his condition will produce pessimism, fear and nervousness, some even hold a negative attitude, refusing treatment, waiting for death. Here, family members should be patient, help patients to free themselves from pain, build up confidence in overcoming cancer, and accept and cooperate with treatment.
3. Pay close attention to the patient's dietary care, and provide the patient with delicious, easy-to-digest and nutritious diet. In the process of radiotherapy and chemotherapy after surgery, the patient's physical strength and appetite decrease, and the diet is especially important, which can improve the body's immunity and anti-cancer ability, and is conducive to recovery.
4. In the treatment, patients are in great pain, and some of them may be very grumpy, so their family members should be patient and understanding, and share the pain of the patients, especially when the patients' condition worsens or even becomes hopeless, the family members should give the patients psychological comfort and spiritual support.
5. Cancer treatment is a long-term process, in addition to the treatment period, but also to go to the hospital regularly for checkups, the family should cooperate with the patient to complete each follow-up visit.
To summarize: a positive, optimistic and upward mindset will be the most powerful weapon to overcome the disease. If necessary, patients can also request professional psychotherapy and spiritual intervention from their doctors, which is also beneficial to improving their condition.
Human life is quite fragile, all living animals will do anything to survive, but where they and their loved ones are suffering from the dreaded cancer, the shock is equivalent to a doctor's notice of critical illness, and the spirit is extremely fearful and collapsed. Persuade others to think very simple, the turn of their own and their loved ones in order to y understand the disappointment and helplessness, as a close family member to start certainly the same as the patient is the same talk about cancer, the spirit of inability to accept the facts, but carefully think about the need to calm their own moods, cancer patients the best medicine is the mentality of the loved ones should not be demoralized, accompanied by the loved ones of the patient and care is the best way to believe that today's scientifically advanced doctors will use the best treatment methods to prolong the patient's life as much as possible. I believe that today's scientifically advanced doctors will use the best treatment methods to prolong the patient's survival period as much as possible, and everything will go with God's will!
#Drink a cup of "Fruit of the Loom" and feel better#
Be a beautiful patient, although the body pain, but the spirit can be happy.
It's the natural order of things to live and die.
The role of the patient is a role to be feared and loathed, but at this point, rather than accepting it as a last resort, we should be happy to take on this role and play it well.
The patient must rely on those around him to restore his health. So, first of all, the patient needs to give up his original social responsibilities, to trust in the help of others, to be open to their help, their diagnosis and treatment, and to cooperate with them in order to restore his health.
Sickness is a state of unmet needs, causing much discomfort and even death. It requires the patient to recognize his or her needs and to actively seek ways to satisfy them (mentally or physically).
The patient needs to have a desire to live, to have hope for the future, to give up his or her dependent role, and to be independent in his or her daily life.
The patient should take the initiative to get to know his/her fellow patients during the hospitalization, and to be accepted by all of them in order to satisfy his/her sense of belonging. It is important to familiarize yourself with the new environment as soon as possible to reduce the anxiety associated with unfamiliarity.
Find your own favorite pastimes and enjoyment. For example, often listen to their favorite songs, read their favorite books ...... play their favorite games, etc., in short, let yourself more in the pleasure of feeling.
Sickness is also a form of life, a reminder from the body.
"You're too tired to rest!"
At this point we have a lot of different experiences and feelings ......
Perhaps as a result we know what the most important thing for us is?
Everything is scared by the feared cancer. It should be told that there is no cancer at all, that there is no disease that cannot be cured, that there is no medicine for everlasting life.