People grow old in a flash, don’t look for trouble
The quality of life depends more on our attitude
1. In this life, people come and go in a hurry , like a white foal passing through the gap. Life is certainly not easy, but the quality of life depends more on our attitude. The more you struggle, the more troubles you have; the more you criticize, the more constraints you have; the more you embarrass yourself, the more unhappiness you have. Only by not embarrassing yourself and being gentle to yourself can you live your own happy life.
As a person lives, he will inevitably encounter some disturbances. If you are too sober and indulge in disputes and distress, it may not be a good thing: Instead of taking everything seriously, it is better to learn to be confused, let go of right and wrong, and laugh at gains and losses. No worries, no worries, live a happy life.
There is a good saying: "Being angry is punishing yourself for the mistakes of others." In life, you will inevitably encounter some angry things. Even if you don't cause trouble, some things will "come to your door." Come". You might as well be a little confused and don't let other people's rudeness affect your mood. If you are blindly disturbed by other people's mistakes, you will lose more than you gain.
Be a "busy" person, use your angry time to do more meaningful things, make your life fulfilling and make yourself stronger. There are many rights and wrongs that you don’t need to care about, let alone pay attention to. If you are a little more unrestrained, if you take a step back, the world will be wider, and if you have no gain or loss in your eyes, you will be a person who is at ease in the world.
2. There are hundreds of flowers in spring, a moon in autumn, cool breeze in summer and snow in winter. The changes in life are like the four seasons, with losses and gains. Looking at the world with a normal mind, every day is a good time.
Life is like sailing against the current, with stumblings and joys and sorrows. The most important thing is to learn to adjust your mentality. When the road is smooth, stick to humility, prudence and simplicity; when there are bumps, you must also maintain a positive, optimistic and open-minded attitude.
Keep a normal heart and let your heart become as flexible and strong as water. Let the wind and rain rise and fall, and the tide will come and rise, but it will still be intact; be unfazed by favors and humiliations, and watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court; go. If you don't want to stay, look at the clouds rolling and relaxing in the sky.
3. In life, there are always people who sigh: "Life is so tiring." In fact, you might as well examine yourself to see if you are trapped in daily trivial matters, whether you are entangled with petty gains all day long, which is frustrating and irritating. There is a saying: "To hold on is courage, to let go is open-minded." A lot of people's pain is often caused by the inability to let go, the inability to forget, and the repeated struggle with the past. As a result, the longer we live, the more depressed and exhausted both physically and mentally.
Everyone only has 24 hours in a day. One more second of delay in worrying things will reduce one second of happy time. Those who walk briskly in life do not have smooth sailing from the beginning, but they know how to let go, are good at forgetting, and naturally live relaxedly. If you look more broadly, your heart will feel less tired. Looking back, they are all small things.
On the road of life, there are far fewer real worries than imagined, and the ingredients required for happiness are not as complicated as imagined. People grow old in a flash, so don’t look for trouble. Life is short, why bother yourself? Choose to live a happy life, let beauty emerge in your life, and live every inch of your time how you like.