Dating, has been a lot of brothers of the problem, because of the lack of experience, so the details of the date is not good control, and some people even should take the girl to go on a date where they do not know, a lot of people simply think that the date is a simple invitation to the girl to go to dinner, watch a movie, in fact, the date is not purely some of these places.
For the first two dates, the choice of venue will be different, just meet with the girls best to go to choose some can promote each other connected to the sense of place, such as a corner of the cafe, dessert store, etc., so that the venue will make each other feel comfortable, to promote each other's conversation and communication, to establish a close relationship with each other, to understand each other. The second date will be to choose a little higher place, let each other in a state of excitement, such as KTV, table games, etc., to be able to play games through the way to touch the girl.
So what kind of place should you choose for a date?
You always think that you have to go to that place in order to get her, but, in fact, the choice of dating place is really not so important, you can take the girl to any place, the important thing is that you are very familiar with this place, can make you happy.
When I was in elementary school, on weekends, I would call up my yard buddies to play in the mud field together by kneading mud for a whole day. This is just a very common thing, but it is still fresh in my mind now.
However, for girls at that age, if I had asked them to do such a thing at that time, and we had immersed ourselves in each other, wouldn't our relationship have naturally warmed up?
There is a buddy of mine who has a very rich family, and he belongs to the rich second generation, and every time he asks a girl to go to some high-class restaurant, the kind of place where you have to pay thousands of dollars for a meal. However, ordinary girls usually do not go to that kind of place, they will only go to eat some delicious but not expensive things, such as roadside stalls, or a new restaurant, then she will think of the last time in ordinary life with you to go to which high-grade restaurant? If another buddy asks her to go to an affordable restaurant, but one that she goes to often, do you think she'll think of this guy the next time she goes to eat at this place? That's why expensive places aren't always good places to go on dates.
There is a buddy beside me, he belongs to the kind of people who have been very good at getting girls since they were young, and now there is a professional term called "natural good hand", he has a date that is directly about the girl to her home to eat today, he usually likes to cook at home, this time he suddenly wanted to ask the girl to come to his home, he cooks for the girl to eat, so they went to the market together in the afternoon, and then they went to the restaurant. So they went to the food market together in the afternoon to shop for vegetables, back home together in the kitchen to cook, the girl is still helping him cut vegetables, he is responsible for frying, the results did not expect is that they have established a relationship that night. Wouldn't the food market be a good place for a date?
So the key to dating anywhere is that the theme must be something you want to do at the moment.
We're just showing this favorite girl a side of our life that you yourself usually enjoy, and you're just sharing your joy with her.
So the choice of dating place is not the most important place, the most important thing is actually whether you yourself are really like that place, you are from the heart want to go to such a place to date, because you will feel happy in such a place!
Many people have the wrong idea, he thinks he should take the girl to such a place, the girl will like him, he cares too much about what the girl thinks, in the beginning stage, we should be more to release their own value, will be displayed in front of the girl, the girl is not because of your dating place is expensive or prosperous will like you, but because you as a person and like you, you like your life, she will like your life.
It really doesn't matter what place you go to, what a girl enjoys simply in a dating place is the feeling you bring to her when she goes out on a date with you, a relaxed, happy feeling that makes her enjoy being with you, and even after the date is over, at some point, the thought of being relaxed and happy on the date reminds her of you. When she thinks of you because of the ease and happiness of dating you, isn't she falling in love with you?
There is another important point when dating, first of all, you have to be clear that the girl is a girl, after all, the girl is most afraid of letting her to make decisions, especially you have not become a boyfriend and girlfriend, you as a man, you must know where you want to go next. These are your responsibilities as a guy, you need to go ahead and take the risk to lead her to what you want to do. For example, after you watch a fun movie with a girl, next to the restaurant, then you must know where to go to eat in a while, instead of a gentleman asking the girl, "Where do you want to go to eat in a while?" , you should take the initiative to suggest where to go for dinner and let her turn you down if she doesn't want to go to this time.
Another point of dating is that you don't want her to think that your date is the same as the one she usually has with her friends.
You have to make her feel that the day with you is very fulfilling.
The day of the date down the line makes her entire being feel like it's been a long time.
So what can you do to make her feel as if days have passed since she spent the day with you?
Is it really necessary for her to go on frequent dates with you? Or do you want her to be in a constant state of excitement?
What really works is ...... mood swings!
Can't figure it out? Still don't get it?
If you really can't figure it out, you can observe those couples around you who are always together, are they just living a bland life together? Although it is said that ordinary is true, but is it really so? Why would they say small quarrels and small quarrels to live a life? They must have experienced all kinds of happy and sad feelings together, so many emotions together to bring each other closer, to bring each other's hearts closer together.
But these are the effects that others achieve in a few years. What do we have to do to make a girl experience so many emotions in one day?
If once you make her able to experience so many emotions, then she must internally default to you as the one she likes. Your attraction to her is exponential.
How many emotions and feelings are there in life?
We can list a lot of them like: happy, sad, sad, upset, irritated, excited, cozy, touched and so on. Although there are so many emotions, we don't need to have all of them. All we need to do is to have just two or three emotions.
In the end, you just need to let her be able to experience these emotions during this day, then she will feel as if this day just happened a long time ago, and your intimacy will rapidly increase, just like a pair of lovers.
So, the choice of a dating place is not just a popular place like a movie or a dinner, but you have to be selective and choose the kind of different places that can bring various emotions to the girl.
Dating place is the need to choose the kind of place to bring different emotions to the girls, so not just a dating place to be able to let the girls experience so many emotions, the next first to talk about how to arrange a variety of emotions is a reasonable way to date, summarize:
We can not always arrange the mood of a tone, we need to cooperate with the use of warmth, sweetness, so that let the The people comfortable emotions to go and nervous, stimulating emotions alternately, to be able to maximize the cause of the girl's inner fluctuations.
Three alternating emotions, we first let the girls feel happy, happy emotions, then let her feel stimulated, nervous emotions, stimulated, nervous emotions can correspond to like a roller coaster ride and so on entertainment projects, these are very good dating place, you can hold her hand in her nervousness, so she leaned on your shoulder, and finally you can tell some sad, reminiscent of the story, for example, you can tell your childhood encountered a lot of people, and then you can tell some of the story. For example, you can tell something sensational that you encountered when you were a child.
Here's a tip, when the girl told you sentimental things, let her think of their own childhood, she began to tell you about their own childhood, some sad things, you can first say things to her **** Ming, expression of this matter you also sympathize with you and her emotions are the same, after this when she calmed down, you can flirt with her and say that all cried into a small flower cat! No matter what she said, you said: but quite cute, come on, make a cute face to see ~ if she did, you just kiss up, kiss her face, and then flirt with her a sentence, how to kiss a little bit, it is as red as an apple ah, smile, and then take her to another place.
Actually, I'm not the only one to mobilize her emotions in this way, you can also organize some of your own emotions, and then apply them on the line, all you need to know is that, be sure to bring different emotions to her, when you are dating her.
Different emotions correspond to different places, the coffee shop corresponds to the comfortable warm, suitable for chatting to increase the sense of intimacy, the escape room corresponds to the feeling of nervousness and excitement, the bar corresponds to the happy, excited emotions. You have to find a place to go on a date based on the emotions you choose to bring to the girl.
Then you can specifically arrange the order of the date place, I generally will be able to make each other happy place in the first, and then in the arrangement of a tense, exciting place, and finally on the arrangement of a warm, comfortable place.
Just after the New Year, I think some of my buddies may also take their favorite girls to the New Year's Eve countdown, in a square, thousands of people gathered together, that kind of tension and excitement is also quite reminiscent of the feeling. There are also dating venues, like bars and nightclubs, such venues, when the nightclub music remembers, a lot of men and women are dancing and getting high on the dance floor, such venues are also exciting and stimulating, and there are many other venues that can also bring such emotions.
The mood settings of a good dating place are:happy, excited, moved and calm.
By now, you already know that there are a variety of emotions to bring to a girl on a date, so let me tell you how you should go about choosing a place to go on a date.
The first thing you need to know about dating is that it's not just about going to the movies, it's not just about going to the place where we go to think for the girls, it's more about thinking for yourself, and of course asking for the girls' opinions.
Many of my buddies only know how to take a girl to dinner and a movie, so it's a very common and popular dating place, but you can't limit your thinking, there are a lot of fun dating places, such as singing, bars, nightclubs, board games, VR, amusement parks are also very good dating places.
Even the previously mentioned take the girl to the market to buy food, go home to cook is also a very good date theme, because you bring her to the home to cook together, such a daily theme, especially at home, is not more like a small couple at home to spend the day?
There are also a lot of very popular dating venues, let's say your favorite girl talks to you about the League of Legends, then you can also take her to an Internet cafe to surf the web, and tell you that strawberries are selling more recently, you can also take her to an orchard to pick strawberries.
There is another important point of dating is the intimacy upgrade, in the moment if there is so much that can touch the girl's point, then you have to be bold and confident, natural to touch the girl.
Many buddies actually do well on every date, girls feel relaxed and happy when dating her, but he was slow to elevate each other's relationship, do not dare to go to the girls for physical contact, the results ultimately let the girls also began to slowly become cold, like a pot of water, the water has boiled dry, so we try to be in the second or third date must be with the girls physical contact. The first thing you need to do is to get in touch with the girl, or else why would she want to go out on a date with you?
And one more thing is that the date should not take the girl to go to the place you are not familiar with, you usually do not go to the bar this kind of place, the result is that you take the girl to go, you play there and not happy, you think the girl in your side can be happy up? Because you are not familiar with such a place, you get there, you can not let go, may not even talk about the bottom of the air, at a loss, the girls will like this you? So the dating place must choose their own familiar and play with the place.
Just like you go to a restaurant, inside the boss and you know, you enter the scene she will greet you, talk to you about the situation, around the waiter you also know, then this hotel compared to other hotels on the good, not to mention that too many people, the waiter is half a day to call over, of course, you have a good mind, then when I did not say. I'm just saying a familiar place gives you more points.
If you really want to go to a place you are not familiar with, you feel that this place should be very fun, just like the VR game store that came out not long ago, I think if you are the first time to go, you will surely feel intimidated, you are not clear about what to play, then this way, you can first call on a few better relations with your buddies with you to go to the experience, and then when you have already figured out how to play or The first thing you need to do is to get a good understanding of how to play the game, and then you can ask your favorite girl to go, so the effect will be very different from the first time you go.
There's another trick to dating and chatting, if you take her to a place where you often go to play, then you can also talk to her about why you used to go to this place and what happened to your friends in this place.
This is all about dating. Today, I have talked to you about the key points of dating and the choice of places to go on a date, as well as a lot of detail level things, and I think you now have a general understanding of dating.