However, an old woman who was nearly sixty years old did the opposite and made a jaw-dropping decision at the age of sixty. She wanted to have children, but she actually gave birth to twins in her life.
The ordinary couple gave birth to their only daughter, but she died unexpectedly.
As the saying goes, children are God's best gift to parents, and so is Sheng Hailin's family. 1980, she and her husband gave birth to a baby girl, and the whole family was immersed in a happy and peaceful atmosphere.
Sheng Hailin is a doctor. She had a dream of saving lives since she was a child. With the careful care of her parents and the good education of the school, she got her wish to work in her ideal hospital.
At the age of 30, Sheng Hailin met her husband under the introduction of colleagues and friends around her. He is honest and honest, but he takes good care of Sheng Hailin, so they soon entered the marriage hall.
It didn't take long for the young couple to harvest the crystallization of love. The birth of their daughter brought vitality and different feelings to the family. Sheng Hailin left the best for her daughter and shifted her focus from work to family. Under the careful cultivation of the couple, the daughter thrived.
But this seemingly happy family met with a bolt from the blue in the following days.
During the Spring Festival, family members get together for dinner. Unexpectedly, it was this New Year's Eve dinner that took my little daughter's life.
At that time, there were too many people in the family, and every adult had a job at hand, and no one was around to take care of her. In this way, my daughter was sent to the hospital because of gas poisoning in the kitchen, but death did not spare her, and the child finally passed away.
As a doctor, Sheng Hailin was deeply saddened. It is really wrong for my daughter to die quietly in her own cardamom years. The couple only have such an only child and have no plans to have a second child. Daughter has an unusual position in the whole family.
As a result, the reality is too cruel, and the tragedy of white-haired people sending black-haired people is staged again. For couples with traditional conservative ideas, not having children is not only a sign of unfilial to their families and elders, but also unacceptable to two elderly people who are about to run into six.
Sheng Hailin, 60, decided to give birth again, becoming the oldest woman in China.
In this case, Sheng Hailin can't sleep without thinking about tea and rice every day. After many days and nights of deliberation, she made the boldest decision in her life-to have another child.
Why does this almost impossible thing in the eyes of ordinary people come out of a doctor's mouth? Anyone who knows something about medicine knows that once a woman has a baby over the age of 35, she is already an elderly woman. If she is pregnant after the age of 40, it may cause potential danger to her health.
Sheng Hailin will be 60 years old soon. It is impossible to have children by normal means at this age, and the risk rate of artificial conception is extremely high.
After hearing her decision, the neighbors tried to persuade each other. In case of any accident on the operating table, it will not be worth the loss. However, Sheng Hailin did not listen to everyone's opinions. As a doctor, she knew that if there was an accident, she might lose her life, but she didn't want to give up this opportunity.
Once a person has decided something, he needs to follow his own heart and can't be shaken at will because of other people's gossip, right?
Through the unremitting efforts of the whole family, we finally found a hospital willing to deliver her baby. 20 10 in may, a year after her daughter died, a pair of twins were successfully born through the advanced fertility technology of "test-tube baby", and Mr. and Mrs. Sheng Hailin also ushered in the second spring belonging to this small family when they were near 60 years old.
Let alone how happy the couple are. After hearing the good news, the villagers also came to congratulate. This is a miracle in medical history, and Sheng Hailin has also become the oldest maternity in China. In addition to being happy and celebrating, in fact, stress also exists at the same time. When they tried their best to give birth to twins, the family savings were almost spent. However, raising these two children and sending them to school is not a small expense.
The twins have huge daily expenses, and Sheng Hailin works hard to make money.
The husband and wife know that they are old and may leave before their children grow up. What about the children? Who will take care of them?
These are all problems. Now Sheng Hailin is bent on making money desperately. At the age of 60, most old people have enjoyed their old age at home, which has nothing to do with square dance, but she can't. His wife was accidentally injured in a car accident, resulting in paralysis of the lower body. The burden of life suddenly fell on Sheng Hailin alone.
When she gets home tired, she often goes to bed. It is really too difficult for a 60-year-old man to work overtime every day.
In an interview, she told reporters that she was sorry for her two daughters, because she was too busy at work and had little time to spend with her children, so she sent them to a boarding school, where accommodation and meals were settled and she could only come back on weekends.
For more than ten years, Sheng Hailin has suffered only her own crimes and sufferings, and she has always said that she must persist, otherwise the family will be finished.
Older women can stick to their dreams and consider the danger of the consequences.
Some old people have the same experience as Sheng Hailin, who lost their children in old age. When they heard the old woman's story, they all ran to learn from her.
Sheng Hailin advised them to think carefully. First, raising children is always more difficult than giving birth. After children are born, they need to spend a lot of time and energy to cultivate, and they also need to ensure that they have enough funds to support all kinds of expenses for the rest of their lives.
The second is the danger of giving birth at an advanced age. Sheng Hailin belongs to the lucky ones. She didn't encounter sudden situations such as bleeding during childbirth, but this high risk still exists for another person. It is quite possible that her mother died on the operating table before the baby was born.
In addition, the sequelae left by elderly women can not be ignored, because various tissues and organs of the body have degenerated and shrunk in old age, and they can't stand tossing. If they give birth at this time, it will bring serious harm to their health, so that some diseases may follow after giving birth.
Even if there is no disease in the body, the physique will be worse than before, which is also a true portrayal of Sheng Hailin's later years.
But she has no regrets. Whether it is right or wrong, it is her own decision. In fact, young people should have this kind of bold thinking, dare to think and fight, don't worry about failure, as long as they stick to their original dreams, regardless of the consequences, but they will always do it.