Recently, I heard my girlfriend has been complaining about her mother-in-law. Her mother-in-law saw her increasingly bloated body, but could not stand the urge of good friends to join the ranks of square dancing. Since her mother-in-law became obsessed with square dancing, her best friend's family has really undergone a sea change.
Previously, my best friend was a happy woman, wearing a suit and going to work every day, and after work, she could participate in all kinds of parties. The reason for this is that the mother-in-law is taking care of the children at home, so she can go home whenever she wants, as long as she doesn't delay the next day's work, everything is OK.
But now it's not the same, although the mother-in-law is still in charge of the household chores and the three meals a day. But after dinner, she is always ready to dance with her friends. The girlfriend had to rush back home after work every time, and then take care of the children to eat and sleep.
Seeing her lamenting her loss of freedom like a whiny woman. I told her that her mother-in-law is not obligated to help you with the kids, and that you should be grateful when she does. If she doesn't help you, you should accept it. If your mother-in-law enjoys square dancing, she will be in better health and less sick in the future, which is also a blessing for your young couple, isn't it?
Best friend nodded. She seems to want to open up, I hope their mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship is as harmonious and happy as ever.