A lover is someone you meet on a lonely road, someone who needs to rely on each other, someone who can't walk in the light all his life, and someone who has no family relationship with you but lets you taste the taste of men and women and enjoy your soul. So how to be a qualified lover?
What should a qualified lover do? 1 A truly qualified lover, willing to pay and expecting nothing in return. He will be happy only if he is good.
True love can't get praise from others, just secretly dating, really tired. A lover is not a mistress, but a lover who misses each other deeply and gets along lightly. Lovers don't put any pressure on each other. Its love is selfless dedication, and its lover is also painful. Love withered, the pain was heartbreaking, the tears dried up and the heart turned to dust.
A true lover is not a fool, but a man needs a woman at the same time. What will happen in the future? 7788, long life, who wins and who loses, and so on. There is no need to think about it. There is no right or wrong. Even if we go our separate ways after breaking up, there is still a fragrance in our hearts, and it is still sweet to recall. This is a real relationship, not a break-up of interests.
A true lover, willing to sleep with you, does not destroy your family, just pays, asks for nothing in return, and has joys and sorrows that cannot be told to his wife. A lover can share with you, and that feeling is not everyone's life.
I don't want to be a moral saint. I admit that I am just a drop in the ocean. If the marriage doesn't go well, I'd rather find a lover. After all, life is short, youth is fleeting, and it is not easy to meet people who like each other. The feeling of being with the person you like is not known until you like it. Don't judge me by morality, I am very small.
What should a qualified lover do? To be a good lover, you must understand:
This relationship itself is incomplete, don't ask too much. The fun of cheating lies in stealing words. He didn't steal it alone, you two stole it together. You can't be wronged by yourself and feel wronged. You two should work together to steal the success in Qi Xin, and then share it happily. You can't think you're not enough. When did you become reluctant, say nothing and just leave quietly? It's really noisy. Not only is it ugly on the face, but the little good memories that have been destroyed have to blame themselves. Why did you do that? That's really not worth the candle.
Lovers are more in physical contact, don't try to occupy each other's hearts, don't interfere with each other's words and deeds,
First, you have no right.
Second, if the wife can't control him, you can.
Third, he can always coax you for a while. This method is deceptive most of the time. Anyone who has a lover will lie.
Lovers are afraid of each other's constraints. People are so easily out of control, having fun, but unhappy and unrestrained. Why are you handcuffed again?
Therefore, it seems that there is no true love and no responsibility between lovers. If you have to be serious, say yes. But I think this kind of love is a bit hollow, and this kind of responsibility is a bit formalistic. For example, he no longer loves his wife, and his wife and parents need money, and he will try to take it out, no matter how difficult it is. You won't get this kind of treatment unless you are really embarrassed to squeeze him out, but it's boring. A lover cares nothing but himself and is worse than a friend. For example, if you accidentally get pregnant, his responsibility is nothing more than to accompany you to the hospital for abortion. His wife was pregnant and the result was very different.
Don't fantasize about what will happen with your lover. Your love may be touching, but it is fleeting. Their love may be plain, but their love is a warm nest made of grass and mud. A comparison between the two will tell who will last forever. It is impossible to fight against the infinity of others with your limitations. You must find a way to make this limited moment eternal. If the other party gives you 10%, you should return 100%; if the other party gives you 50%, you should return 250%. In short, it is several times as much as him, which makes him feel indebted to you and sorry for you.
Your lover can't live without you and dotes on you in every way. You can't be arrogant, you can't fight with him, you can't even move your mouth, you can't lose your temper. I am really angry. I'm leaving with my ass up. I have a home to go back to. Where are you going?
You should forget all the festivals. Holidays are legal family fun. Even if he wants to live with you, you should push him back. Don't let him play to Cao Cao's liking. You two have very few real things, so others are creating estrangement.
A lover may not care about you, but you must care about your lover. Know yourself and yourself. Your potential threat is not just your lover's wife. You must learn what your lover likes, and you must give up what your lover hates.
Will this spoil him? People's faults are habitual. Don't worry, it won't. You're just making him unhappy with you.
There is also a signal that your lover doesn't like you at first. He suddenly became very busy, and he didn't have time to see you or make a phone call. You asked him to call him, but he was impatient. Of course, he is not busy, but he bothers you.
He has been talking about his family, and he will also mention it, but what he mentioned is mostly his parents, friends and playmates. He mentioned his youth, which is guiding you into his world. If you mention it now, you can't get around your wife and children. This is a hint that there is no place for you there.
But you still can't stop being sad. When you think of her scenes, you are awakened from your dream by her hot tears. When you get along with lies and are happy, you feel scared, you feel wronged, and finally complain that your life is not good. Once people accept their fate, everything will be relieved. So I decided, this time, I can't learn from this fruitless painful experience, I want to make a clean break with him! Know everything and keep making mistakes? Pigs know to stay away from danger. But after a second, I felt uneasy and I couldn't bear it. There are countless reasons to tell yourself to wait? Dream. Maybe. Just in case. Miracles always happen, okay? I thought I would see him at his best if I persisted until the end. He fell down again and again, making people desperate, watching you suffocate and ignoring you. You finally know how cruel he is.
A woman must not let herself fall into this abyss. When breaking up, you'd better always keep a nonchalant smile, listen to him politely, and then disappear from his world forever at the first time. The sooner the better, the better before he reacts. Still retains some dignity and decency. Don't break up after breaking up, kill two birds with one stone. You deserve it.
Being a lover is nothing more than such psychology and process. Understand, everything will be easy, but don't fight unprepared. A woman's time is too limited to be consumed in one sentence. If you are willing to be a lover, you can be devoted, happy and kind. Don't regret, don't be sad. A woman will not grow old because no one destroys her.