Is the kind of life you lead age-dependent?

I think that the kind of life you lead is age-related, as well as the kind of life you lead for other reasons such as your family, your surroundings, and your psychology.

I always thought that doing what you want at what age is a better way to live your life, so that you have enough time to prepare yourself for the next stage, study, work, marriage, education, etc., and that each stage is just suitable for the same age, but then I realized that this is not the case.

Take two examples.

The first is education, in the country, the normal age of education is three or four years old into kindergarten, six years old to read a year, teenage middle school and high school, twenty years old to graduate from college, this is the more common reading age, so the age of the result of the current life is not a problem, but this can only be most of the time, or the majority of this era, rewind to more than ten years ago, such a model does not hold water! Only a small portion of the previous generation made it to college, and a large portion entered life before graduating from elementary school.

The second is marriage, in the country, it is obvious to see that the age of marriage is completely different, from the most remote mountain villages may be married in their teens, the average city after graduation from university to get married, the first-tier cities may be about thirty years old before they will consider getting married, but the fact is that there is no standard to tell us at what age we should get married, but rather there is a rule that you can get married only after how many years old. This rule, so if you say at what age should have what kind of life, then at what age into marriage?

Take these two examples to prove that what kind of life is actually related to age, and not related to age, so that life nowadays has to do with age, family of origin, surroundings, mental age and many other concepts.

In the 21st century, many models have become more mature, for example, the age of marriage in the previous generation was generally very early (and still is), the earliest girl who got married beside me was 16 years old, what is the concept of this? Normally 16 years old just graduated from junior high school, people are still enjoying their holidays, she is already thinking about getting married, this is very similar to the girl who got married early in the recently released movie Wrestlemania, if this girl lives in the city, even if she dropped out of school, her parents will surely provide other directions to choose, not get married.

But this is all an exception, nowadays the pattern of life is getting more and more mature and at an age everyone has a standard of life when it's time to get married and when it's time to have kids. So in fact, I am more praise what age has what kind of life, just real life tells me, this is just what everyone sees, there are a lot of unseen places, can only say, life is not only related to age, but also related to a lot.