In fact, many young people do not want to live with their parents after work, not that young people are not filial, do not desire a family life, but young people and their parents there is a big difference in the concept of life, even if we know in our hearts that our parents nagging, blame, in fact, are out of our health considerations, but we always want to have some space of their own to do things that they want to do but can not agree with. But we always want to have some space in our heart to do something we want to do and our parents can't agree with us.
Such a situation, I think you have to take the initiative to communicate with your parents, explain to them, let them understand your state of life, of course, you also have to work hard to care for them, and encourage your parents to participate in some activities, we can care about each other, but do not bother each other, in order to make the life with your parents live more cozy! The first thing you need to do is to make sure that your parents have a good relationship with each other.
First of all, for the older parents, their thinking may be more conservative, more pursuit of stability, health, so, like we often stay up late behavior or our dress is very Ge may not be able to get their approval. This time you have to explain to them, tell them that you have your own ideas, and hope that they can understand you, respect you and support you.
Take me as an example, I have always been a good girl at home, parents say what is what, rarely to refute their parents, parents think that girls dress up is not good when they go to school, and I have developed the habit of never make-up, but after the work, the idea has become mature, there are always some of their own ideas, and I will often talk to them, such as the last time I came home to wear a sleeveless blouse, and then I was able to get a good look. Wearing a sleeveless shirt, my mother said that the shoulders and crevice nests do not look good, I said to them, now everyone wears this, there is no good or bad, and this wear also cool ah, she did not squeak out.
Secondly, some of your parents' ideas are out of concern for you, but he's not expecting them to care, and sometimes that can cause you problems. This time you should distract their attention, such as more encouragement to parents to participate in some activities, such as to go to a square dance, to participate in some of the elderly interest classes, in short, to give them a bit of distraction, but not tired of things to do. When they find their own hobbies, they will pay less attention to you. This doesn't mean that you have to do anything to distract them, of course. You should also care more about their health and their lives.
I have a friend, is a girl has 32, but so far not married, she and her parents live together, her parents nagging her every day, and on her all sorts of urge to get married, she also said that the annoyance is not enough to get tired of, and has been wanting to move out of the house to find a house their own living. In fact, nothing's parents urging marriage is just anxious for her, of course, I think this age, they should also be on some heart, and then her parents found their own favorite thing to do. There was a lot less attention paid to her, and she said her ears were finally clear.
So the young people who live with their parents after work, since they can't change the reality, it's better to try to adapt to it, and more communication and understanding can make your parents worry less about you.