It is unforgivable for many men to be betrayed by their wives, and the sacred marriage is not allowed to be betrayed. Should a wife's betrayal be forgiven?
1, is the heart balanced?
After all, things like the wife's infidelity are likely to cause a great sense of imbalance in men's hearts. Many times, because of impulse or anger, I will make some regretful actions. Therefore, we should seriously consider whether we can balance the inner pain and unwillingness if we choose to forgive. If you can't balance, then in the days when you get along, your relationship will be in a sense of imbalance and it will be difficult to develop for a long time.
2. Look at your wife's attitude
Marriage is a matter for two people. Even if a man is willing to choose to forgive each other and continue to live a good life, it depends on whether his wife's heart is still in this marriage.
See if the other party has taken the initiative to ask for forgiveness after betraying themselves, and whether the feelings between husband and wife still exist. Sometimes women are willing to return to their families just because they don't want their children to get hurt. In fact, such feelings are still very fragile, and such marriages actually exist in name only.
3. High frequency of going out
If your wife has an affair and betrayed you, she will definitely meet you. And the frequency of meeting may be higher and higher. After all, it is a new love at the beginning, and I definitely want to seize every opportunity to meet. Then you may spend more and more time going out and looking for various reasons to lie to you. You may even make up some other reasons for not going straight home, which you should pay attention to.
4. I began to pay attention to dressing up.
Generally speaking, married women may not care so much about their appearance, because they think they are married and there is no need to care so much about their image. Of course, not all women are like this, but if your wife has not paid much attention to image dressing.
And one day this happened suddenly, and I began to dress myself up as I did when I was in love, and then I went out.
It is said that women please themselves. If it's not for you, there must be something else.