The older generation of parents worked hard all their lives, in order to be able to educate their children, for the children to go to school to consume their own life time and energy. Parents will put the family and children first when they are young, consider the problem will also take into account the child's psychological experience, even if they are not willing to compromise their own. As the saying goes, "thirty years old", when parents are young, they have all the responsibilities on their shoulders, educating their children, taking care of the elderly, keeping the home, only to work hard to make money is the important way.
In order to realize all kinds of daily tasks in life, students carry a lot of pressure on their shoulders and may not have time to take care of their own requirements. Until the child is brought up and the child has his or her own family, the parents feel a sense of relief that they have finally will their accomplished tasks. This is the time when some parents can take care of their own thoughts, to take off the psychological pressure, to live the life they like and enjoy the rare and precious life in the later years of their lives.
An aunt I know is like this, the elder sister in this year's 62 years old, when young, her husband worked in the construction site fell and died, leaving 4 weak children. When I was young, I had to take care of four children who were often hard-working, and I went out to do hard work every day before dawn, and in my spare time, I helped people in the village to sew clothes to earn some extra money. This is so day and night labor, hard work to bring up four children, for them to study in college, the children one by one are very promising, after graduation all stay in the big city to find a good job. The eldest sister is now old and branded with a lot of illnesses, she found herself living alone in her hometown. These 2 years always go to the square on the square dance, met a similar age uncle, the 2 personality is more suitable for the performance, chatting is also quite speculative, so it did not take long 2 own remarried.
Nowadays, the elder sister lives in the old family some people care, many children will come back to see their mother on vacation, usually do not come back to the mother will play some living expenses. Elderly sister is young when there is no time to enjoy life, people in their old age second marriage but find belong to their own love.
Elderly people living apart for a long time, life has been strangersAt present, many young children are all working class, after giving birth to a child the burden of bringing up children are generally handed over to the elderly at home, grandma followed her children to the city to bring up the child, the grandfather stayed in the old home to live alone. Many of the elderly and their partners live for decades, there are actually many contradictions and friction in life, only forced to live under pressure and take care of the feelings of the child to make do to maintain the relationship between husband and wife. Until the elderly due to the child husband and wife after the separation, the two old people actually feel more comfortable and comfortable, this time the elderly will choose to separate life.
But after all, the old man is old, the children are busy working, the children are busy studying, the old man's mind is very empty, this time to find a suitable for their old partner is a good choice.