The Fourth of July holiday is over, everywhere is joyful, busy back home.
In the kindergarten, parents rushed to pick up their children and hold the bedding. The children are like birds out of a cage running happily and laughing. The mouth shouted "vacation, so happy ah!"
The path outside the kindergarten was full of laughter. The candy cane and cotton candy vendors at the door were busy, and their faces were all smiles.
At that moment a discordant voice rang out, "I don't know, do what you eat!" This shout was loud and angry, and everyone looked sideways as the grandmother rode off on her bike with her child, nagging and cursing all the way.
I don't know, where did this grandmother get the anger, every time she picks up the child, every time she talks to the child is a roar, hate da da da, the child is always timid, either speak quietly or no longer speak.
After all, the child is a child, although shouted, scolded, or can not remember, she will still ask the grandmother some things, still want cotton candy, want small toys, but the grandmother never give to buy, always angry, said "I do not have the money!
They are the only ones who have ever been in the same situation.
Three years ago, the child just went to kindergarten, the school will be pampered, will be unreasonable, will want to care about the grandmother love, but the grandmother will never be sympathetic to the child, often shouting, the child scolded cry, even the grandmother will ride in front of the bike, said do not want you, do not follow me. The little girl then cried and chased after her. Some parents say don't let the child cry, quickly carry the child on the car. But the grandmother does not listen, or will ride forward.
One time when the teacher was off duty and saw her, she hugged her, dried her tears, and comforted her gently. The little girl cried and said, "Teacher, my grandmother doesn't want me anymore.
The teacher took the child to catch up with the grandmother, and said to the grandmother: "Auntie, don't let the child run behind, there are quite a lot of cars, it's very dangerous." The grandmother changed her smile and said, "The teacher is off duty, she does not listen, angry." Take the child away.
Nowadays, the child rarely cries, always quiet, occasionally a question, will attract the grandmother's dissatisfaction. Perhaps it is in the kindergarten that she is the happiest days.
Vacation, seven days, how will the child spend it?
I don't know why this grandmother is so angry. Maybe she is not feeling well as she is getting older, but she also has to pick up and drop off the child every day, and take care of the child's food and drink, and all these trivialities are too much for her to handle.
But wasn't this a result she could have predicted?
Five years ago, Yino's mom and dad got divorced. Dad with a very lame reason, that is, Yino mom is too busy, not willing to couple separated and divorced! And they this separation, is in the same urban area, a city east, a city west, driving at most half an hour away.
The child's mother does not agree, good advice, no effect, in order to save the marriage, proposed that if the divorce, she wants all the family property, do not want children.
At that time, Yino was less than a year old, dark big eyes like obsidian, white skin, summer wearing dressy high-top sandals, white princess dress. Grandma took her to play in the garden of the neighborhood, sitting in the park pavilion to talk about, said daughter-in-law every day do not go home, do not do housework, the son said the divorce, the daughter-in-law as long as the money do not want the child, said the son agreed to, she disagreed, she said to tell the son to go to court to prosecute, how to decide on how to decide on how to decide on how to decide on how to decide on how to decide on how to decide on how to decide on how to decide on how to decide on how to decide on how to decide on what to do with the family savings to her? The family's several houses belong to the old couple, and the daughter-in-law can't take any of it away from them, and she doesn't want the children. I will not let her see the child even once in the future.
At this point in time, Yino was just learning to walk, always looking at everyone, looking at the grandmother to smile.
I looked at Yino and saw how beautiful she was. She didn't know that she was going to be without a mother, so she was really poor.
After the grandmother left, people in their village said, Yino father where is the dislike of separation ah, obviously and their own store in the hair wash girl good, brought home many times it, a look can be seen. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to get it right.
Yino mom is a Northeastern people, she went to college often go to the school near the barber store to do hair, then Yino dad in this barber store is a shareholder, but also the master. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you'll be able to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world.
Yino's mom is a beautiful young woman with a lively personality. The first time I saw this, I was able to see the woman's face, and I was able to see her face, and I was able to see her face, and I was able to see her face. However, Yino's mom was overwhelmed by love and secretly lived with Yino's dad.
After graduation, Yino's mother did not look for their own professional-related work, but listened to Yino's father's arrangements, dish down the barber store side of the store, Yino's mother opened up a daily beauty store. Yino mom itself is beautiful, learned in just a few months will soon get started.
Trimming eyebrows, massaging, scraping, skin care, pasting masks, and later learning to tattoo eyebrows and bleach lips. The more you do, the better your business gets.
This is the first time I've ever seen a woman in the world who has been in the world for a long time.
Because of her busy career, Yanno's mom rarely did housework and was not very good at it. In the family is also a petite girl grew up. Because they have not been able to have a child, the grandmother has a lot to say about Yino's mom.
The two were married for five years before their careers were stabilized. At this time, Yino's father has returned to Qiaoxi to open the store. This store is very large, is their family urban village transformation sub store, their own family property rights, but also divided into four houses. Yino father's value doubled, the original family conditions are good, now better.
During the monthly period, Yino grandma to wait for the month, the two places are thousands of miles apart, different dietary habits, the conflict also came out, the mother-in-law feels that her daughter-in-law can not, what all to their own pro-mother, do not put her as a mother-in-law in the eyes. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
Yino's mom went to the store soon after giving birth, because there is no milk, Yino gave the grandmother to bring. At first, it was the grandmother herself who brought up the issue. The grandmother felt upset when she saw Yino's mother at home doing nothing, and even though Yino's mother gave her a lot of money to buy her clothes, she was still not used to it.
Yino's mom went to work. At first, she went home every day, but then she got married and quit because one of the sales clerks got married and quit, so she was even busier, and Yino was almost a year old, so she didn't go back often.
The couple's relationship has reached the seven-year itch, and the beauty store is often open late, as is the barber store. So, Yino mom and dad often do not go home, always spend the night in the store. The two usually see each other only once in half a month.
Yino's father proposed to let Yino's mother go home to watch the children, the beauty store disk out. Yino mom does not agree, Yino dad said do not agree to divorce, Yino mom does not understand, but also do not believe that Yino dad really want to divorce, she does not want to lose their own careers, but also do not want to soften. Then said the gas, divorce can, as long as the money do not want children.
A Nuo father sued, a Nuo mother only to understand is really want to divorce, she just reacted to the child, but she said do not want the child's recordings, and the fact that she never took the child, and the child only look for grandma, do not want to mother all this, so that a Nuo mother really give up the child. Maybe she is still thinking, they have so many years of affection, how to really divorce, even if the divorce will be remarried.
Just like this on impulse, divorced. When she looked back and realized that her husband has become someone else's husband, the child also does not allow her to see, she made a scene a few times, she has no relatives in this city, how can they make a scene over the people locals.
Yono was happy to live with his grandmother. The first time I saw her, I was so happy to see her, and she was so happy to see me.
Dad got married and had a baby brother with his stepmother. Grandma is annoyed when she sees Yino, who looks more and more like her mom. She said every day that Yino is just like her dead mom.
Yino big envy brother, said also want to go home, but mom and dad do not want her, and then the children said, mom is the brother's mother, not her mother, her mother does not want her. Yino asked her grandmother, "Where is my mom?" "Dead!" Grandma replied rudely.
It was vacation, and Yino wanted to go to kindergarten and see her teacher Zhang. But it's vacation. Yino did her homework by herself and helped her grandmother choose vegetables.
Grandma would take her out to play in the park. Grandma would go to the square dance, and Yino would play with the kids on the side. She would take her to the market, and she would help her carry her things. Dad's store is in front of the neighborhood, she sometimes go to the store to find dad to play, dad is not busy, brother always want to sit on dad's lap. Yino didn't like it. Mom also always hugged her brother, took him to buy food and toys, and always told Yino to go to Grandma. She knows that her mom is not her mom, so she does not like her.
On vacation, Dad's family came to Grandma's house for dinner, and Grandma made a lot of delicious food. Bought moon cakes and fruits, grandma smiled and talked to her brother and called her eldest grandson.
Yino watched TV on the side, Yino sleepy, went back to bed, but Grandma always sits in the living room to chat with Dad, holding his brother. Yino lying in bed, pull open the curtains, see the stars in the sky, I heard that people will become stars when they die, she was looking at the look, which one is the mom became it? The one that was the brightest? "Mom, where are you? Are you really dead? I miss you so much, I want mommy!"
The night is deep, Yino fell asleep, the tearstains in the corner of the eyes, who can notice, who can understand?
Dad always buy the most fashionable clothes for Yino, go to the best kindergarten in the neighborhood, he bought Yino all kinds of dolls, plush toys, buy beautiful head flowers, he felt that he did not treat Yino poorly. He didn't know what kind of attitude grandma had towards Yino. Little people, but do not get tender favor. Such a beautiful face, but has a quiet understanding that does not fit the age.
Grandma's labor, grandma's resentment towards Yino's mother, and grandpa's death are enough to put grandma in a bad mood, but Yino is your own granddaughter ah, it is you through the legal means, the family means to snatch from her mother's side ah. Why can't you treat her well?
Mom and dad divorced, the most bitter is the child. Dad a home, mom a home, leaving her own, only in the grandmother's house, grandmother is old, bad temper, this home, how can be cozy?
Looking at the tiny Yino, we do mom and dad are not to reflect on their own, since have a child, we must take responsibility for the child, the father should be responsible for the family, loyal family, to give the child a perfect home. Mom is responsible for the child, not because of their own career, the child does not care. If you miss your career, you have a chance to come back. If you miss your child's childhood, you can never go back and make up for it.
Divorced, not dead, remove all the difficulties to meet more children, give the child some warmth.
Here, I would like to commend the full-time moms who have given up their careers to take care of their children, you are not incompetent, you just love your children more, but you are just not big enough to take care of your career and your children.
Since you choose to work full-time, don't be so presumptuous as to think that you can't do it, just take care of your children and family wholeheartedly, and then come out to work when your children go to kindergarten, it's not too late.
Working mothers, children have the elderly to help bring, but also to accompany the child, learn to live in harmony with the elderly, so that the elderly happy.
Moms aren't superhuman, they need to be understood by their dads. The father is also a child, need to mom care, can not be cold. Husband and wife love is the blessing of children. If you love your children so much, then love their dad or mom more. Only when the couple is in good love and the marriage is strong, the children can grow up happily and healthily!