Perhaps, it should be so scattered. At the end of the relationship , wrote the last letter to the husband to draw a conclusion for this relationship. Below I have organized the last letter written to the husband, welcome to read.
To the husband wrote the last letter aHubby:
The last time, really is the last time to call you so, there is more than a year right, we broke up more than a year right? After today, we really don't have any relationship any more, I tore up all our photos, hehe, can this erase everything we used to have? I will keep my promise, no longer contact with you, no longer disturb your life!
To this day, I really understand how you felt when you wrote to me that day. It was my fault, everything was my fault, and I ruined the relationship between us with my own hands. You know, I cursed me never get happiness, although I know you want me to be happy, but now I realize that the world in addition to you can give me happiness, others can not give, very funny, right?
Hubby, do you know, when I one by one buckle down our big head stickers when the heart is so difficult, you are not always blame me for hogging all of our photos it? Now this is retribution, you can not see any sentimental things, but I have to destroy one by one, heh, you must call me a fool again, together for three years you always treat me as a child, although you are a child; husband, my days in Xi'an is not happy, always think of you, think of the bits and pieces of our relationship, dear you know, here is full of the city of our shadow. I always stubbornly think that people are divided, in that place called university, we are still sweet together. But I won't say it, and I can't say it. Hubby, do you remember 215? Every time I sit on 215 and see those pulling hands I think of you, think of me hugging you, and then I will smile a little, very quiet sitting in the seat sad, Xiaolan is afraid that I am melancholic it, after I finished I want to laugh, do not want to defend at all, by the way, Ziqi do you still remember not, it is that child with depression, she always take me as her role model, ah, she is also very bad now it, but I can't help her, it's really very helpless. Honey, now everyone seems to be living not very good, but I think you can be very good very good life, remember what I said, at least better than me. Hubby, I owe you a happiness, this life may never be able to pay back, really sorry very sorry, but how can not change, darling, find a good girl let him for me to give you happiness, although I will be jealous, but I also understand that I have not that qualification, so I will be in the heart of the sincere blessings to you. Hubby, let me tell you a secret, I dreamt that we made up, as good as before, and then I woke up laughing, hehe, it's silly isn't it? Dreams are all the opposite it 。。。。。。。
Hubby, we have been together for three years, I do not seem to have written you a love letter, this is the first and last, but unfortunately you can not see, although I want you to see 。。。。。
Well, dear husband, remember that you have to be happy, hard to be happy, to continue my happiness with you!
XXX
XXXX.X.X
Wrote the last letter to my husband Part IIDear:
Sorry. I've been holding your hand for 18 years, but I couldn't grow old with you. Good woman thousands of millions, and ultimately did not become one of the millions, very sorry.
I really hope you good, leave me, I hope you can find that suitable for you in one of the millions. After all, once with you hand in hand, memory only want to leave your good, also let me not waste with you once hand in hand.
No matter who you are with from now on, dear, please make sure you do not take her as your appendage. She must be treated as an independent person, she also has a thought, she also has self-esteem, even if you think contrary, please be sure to respect her, respect the premise and then calmly solve the problem.
When it comes to anything, you must have some time to think differently, remember to respect in front, do not impose your ideas on her, you are not in her head roundworm, remember to know? The same thing can be done with the same people, but not with the same people.
Dear, please remember? A good word of three winter warm, bad words hurt people June cold? This sentence, do not use words to hurt her, bad words like a sword, bad words out of the mouth will certainly hurt her heart, even if she is no longer mentioned, that is not she does not care, that hurt will always be in, just she does not want to mention. So, please make sure you don't say bad words again, the heart of the wound left behind will be very difficult to heal.
Also, honey, you are a man, remember to not do anything to her, how she is also a woman. To know, your violence left her not only physical injury, more is the heart of the cold and fear. Force is not a solution to the problem, will only make everything worse. You have to be able to get the best out of them, but you can't do it without them.
No matter who you and come together, I will bless you, living together for eighteen years, remember all your hands and feet, but also understand all your temperament, today still want to advise you. Collect your sharpness and obstinacy, put down your machismo. Home, it should not be a place of reasoning, more good words, timely confusion, your heart will also be very easy. Work has right and wrong, life has nothing right and wrong. Couple of bedside manner, more pay can only prove more love, if the heart wants to return, pay has been deteriorated, has not been love.
Remember that you love her, her good purpose is to make her happy, don't let your love become the shackles that bind her, shackles heavy will make her suffocate.
My dear, I do not know who will be one of your ten million in the future, if you find her, please be sure to give her 100% trust, she is a kite attached to you, you hold the kite line one end, she can not fly away from you, if you tighten the line is too fierce and too tight, the line will be collapsed.
Dear, learn to let go of the past, not entangled in the past. The real let go is that you remember the past will not be angry, such as if you can really let go of the past, you will also be very relaxed. The days have been passing, the time has been passing, you have accumulated too much in the past in the heart, the heart will be burdened with heavy, you will not be happy. Don't let yourself get too tired of it, all things confused some, look down some, you will be very relaxed and happy.
Doing wrong is not afraid, to dare to bear the punishment of doing wrong. Don't be a dwarf of language and a giant of action, or a dwarf of action and a giant of language. Anyone who likes good words to add, words of encouragement. You scrub the floor all day, cook all day, tired yourself, and not necessarily pleasing her.
Dear, good health care of their own body, old age is not sick, that is the most useful thing to do for their children. While you are still young, I hope you can love her sweetly, take care of your body, and enjoy what you lack in me. What I have not been able to satisfy you, I hope she will do.
Dear, quit the bar, drink messy, but more messy things, language out of control, action more out of control. If you're not careful enough to move, you'll hurt another woman.
If you can still think of my good, please only remember my good, if you really can not think of my good, then completely forget me, do not dwell on the past, enjoy your future.
We separated, no longer entangled with each other, released each other, slowly also released each other's injuries. Life is short, once gathered a few years is not easy, but also with whom to get together again capital is fate, please cherish it.
If you love, please love, if not, please let go?
I hope you will be really easy and happy from now on?
XXX
XXXX.X.X
Wrote my last letter to my husband IIIHubby:
Hello!
I don't know if I still have the right to address you like this when you receive this letter, so please allow me to still call you like this for the last time.
In retrospect, this is the only letter we have written in the past ten years, and I am afraid it will be the last one. Ten years ago, we are also from writing a letter to start our acquaintance, know each other, love each other, now the same, also by the letter to our end it.
I don't realize that we have come to this point. To be honest, now I have not hated you two in my heart, really, everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, I only blame me for not being gentle enough, and not enough pure and lovely, these two points are the goal you have been pursuing.
I don't have enough water to make a waterfall for you, and I'm sorry for that. I'm not sure if you're a good person, but I'm a good person, and I'm not sure if I'm a good person. It is the city's lights and greenery that has bewitched your eyes, or is it that you already have a sentimental heart. When I saw the article you wrote to XX and the animation you made for her, I couldn't be calm, but I saw a heart leaping for love, and I also saw your deep love for her. You once told me that you can't leave each other, you love each other y, but you can't let go of me and Hanhan. Seeing you in such a dilemma, I suddenly remembered a saying: love is fulfillment. I love you, so I'm willing to fulfill both of you, and I'm afraid this is the only thing I can do for you now. I sincerely wish you happiness. But I would like to give you a word of advice: do not get entangled with your many sisters, no woman will be happy to see their own men circling between many women, whether you and they are friendship or love, love is selfish, and hope that the other side of the eyes only their own.
When I wrote this, I suddenly remembered the ten years of wind and rain that we have walked together. At that time I was 20 years old, you are still in our rented small dormitory for me to celebrate my birthday, then although there is no decent food, the best dishes are only a back to the meat. But very cozy, when we were poor, so poor that even the honeycomb coal to calculate the burn, every day to go outside to collect firewood to make a fire, you have to carry a bag of firewood back from work, without regard to the different eyes of others, that picture I still remember very clearly, as if it were yesterday, just has been separated by ten years, when we were poor only love, but very sweet. Now think of really want to go back to live in that kind of day, but who can give us back a when you and I? The days are better and people have more ideas. Read an article you wrote, read the first half, I thought I was that she, and you suffer with that she, but after reading to understand, I'm not, I'm nothing, that should be your first love XXX it, just I do not understand, you and when she lived in Chongqing. Sour heart, when will your heart have belonged to my position? Even if it is a small corner.
This evening to take Han Han to the middle of the square to play, she saw a lot of people dancing, she is also happy in the inside of the chaotic jumping, running, not a moment to run to the other side, I only looked at her from afar, to see if she can find me, it did not take long to see her running while looking around, I thought she played happily, and came closer to find the tears in her eyes, the heart of a moment of pain, the heart of a moment of pain. I went over and hugged her tightly, just want to be with her, she is only three years old, do not know anything about the age of the day only know happy, how much I want to give her a complete home. I want to give her a complete home. How's mom? She will say yes, I think she will grow up to blame me, I just want her to be happy. Our daughter is very good, very obedient, but also can understand a lot of reasoning, learning things quickly, all the world's mothers in the eyes of their children are the best right.
I said, everyone makes mistakes, we face the wrong people, need to do is just tolerance and forgiveness, I also said you are like a child who made a mistake, I do not blame you, and is still the case, just I can not wait for you to grow up. It really wasn't easy walking together for so many years, but it finally came to this. Thank you for giving me so many wonderful memories, good and bad, and for giving me, our daughter.
How can it be so hard to wish for a love that doesn't leave your heart? Lastly, once again, I wish you and her happiness until the white head, which is a dream I have always wanted but could not realize.