With the slow passage of time, the group of post 80's and 90's people have become the backbone of the social work. And the parents of the post 80s and 90s, gradually aging, into their old age.
After eighty-ninety parents, most of them are after fifty and after sixty, the older ones are now almost to the age of eighty, the younger ones have reached the age of knowledge, they have their own children, grandchildren, what kind of life is it for them?
Many old people, whether rural or urban, are relatively lonely.
Nowadays, young people like to go out, and many of them buy houses and settle down in other countries, turning them into their hometowns.
What about the old people? Watching the children like a grown-up bird, flying farther and farther away, they can not keep up with the children's flying wings, and can not go to stop.
The old people all their lives around the family, around the children around, and so the children grew up, their grandchildren have been about to be higher than their own, they suddenly realized that the children have left, the home is quiet and let them some fear.
Even if some of the old people's children are not too far away, but the children have to raise a family, take their own responsibilities, and can not be accompanied by the whole day, loneliness is inevitable.
Don't say that there is a TV at home, nothing to brush up on the drama, stay at home is also quite good. This is only a very small part of the talent willing to do things, and now a lot of TV programs cater to the majority of young adults, the elderly do not like to see.
So a lot of older people go out when they can, and they try to go out as much as possible. Because there are people outside the home, there are neighbors, there are friends, we can chat and talk. Even if you just sit outside to see other people's lives and listen to other people talk, it's better than staying at home and feeling lonely.
Some elderly people have a good mindset, but also to find their own fun, dancing, practicing Tai Chi, and talk to old friends, every day is also quite tasty.
Some of them can't, and although they do go out, they still can't find a way to get rid of their loneliness.
Some of the extreme old people are trying to make their presence known by constantly making trouble for their children.
Other elderly people don't do anything, and even hope that they can be healthy enough to do without the help of their children. However, the loneliness of a long period of time makes them eager to have someone to talk to and keep them company, so these old people have become the target of some unscrupulous businessmen.
Those unscrupulous businessmen seized the elderly need to accompany the desire for health of the psychological, with a variety of means to make the pitfalls of the elderly, so that the elderly are cheated by the news of the endless.
The elderly for the children, for the family tired all their lives, in fact, the last request is the children can be successful, can go back to see them, so that they have a hope.
Older children, older children, older people are like children, want to get the attention of others and attention. As a child, you should understand your parents' feelings and expectations. Even if you can't go home to see them, you should call them often, video them, and greet them about their health and living conditions, so that the old people can feel that they are not disliked or forgotten.
Please pay attention to your parents, pay attention to the life of the elderly, so that they can have a peaceful and warm old age. May all the elderly in the world be healthy and happy.
Please pay attention to your parents and the lives of the elderly.