Originally the position is not very firm you, by the people around you gently pull, but also deflated.
Sometimes, when your own energy is not strong enough, you need the reinforcement of people with more energy than you.
The universe is a big energy field, and each of us is a small magnetic field. What we are attracts what we are.
As the saying goes:
"Good wine does not enter the teahouse", like to eat and drink, it must be a friend of the wine and meat; like literature, attracted to the literature category is certainly; graduate school, exam students, attracted to the preparation for the army is certainly; love of theater, the contact are theater fans ... ...
In a word, what you are attracts what you are.
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As the saying goes:Follow the good man, learn the good art.
There's a story about Mencius' mother.
Mengzi, a great thinker during the Warring States period, lost his father when he was young, and his mother, Ni, lived by spinning and weaving alone. She was a hard-working and visionary woman.
Once Mencius' mother saw Mencius fighting with a neighboring child and moved away.
Another time Mencius' mother saw Mencius learning the movements of the master blacksmith and playing in the yard, so she moved again.
She moved her home to the middle of nowhere, and when Mencius saw a funeral procession, he mimicked digging again, burying twigs as if they were dead.
When Meng's mother saw this, she had to move again.
This time the house was next door to a schoolhouse, so Mencius shook his head and learned to read from his teacher.
There is a saying:Learn from a good man, follow a teacher's wife and learn from a false god.
All learning in a person's life begins with imitation, especially for children, imitation is their nature.
The wise mother of Mencius was able to stop the loss in time, and eventually achieved Mencius as a great thinker.
02
One side of the soil and water raises one side of the people.
"Oranges are oranges when they are born in Huainan, and hedgehogs when they are born in Huaibei; the leaves are similar, but in fact the flavors are different."
This is a geographical difference.
When your heart is not strong enough, you can easily be assimilated by the powerful magnetic field outside.
Just as:From Qing Dynasty - Li Guangting's "Xiangyan Xieyi" III: "Into the room of orchids, long time but not smell its fragrance, and it is all melted away; Into the abalone's restaurant, long time but not smell its stench, and it is also all melted away.
The meaning is: and the noble character of the people to interact, as if into the room full of fragrant orchids, a long time will not smell the fragrance of the orchids; and the poor character of the people to interact, as if into the sale of stinky salted fish store, a long time will not smell the stench of the salted fish, this is also because of their own and the stench of the one into the body.
What you are is what you attract and what you seek.
It's like:Keeping up with the flies looking for the toilet, and keeping up with the bees looking for the flowers.
What kind of person you are with really matters.
With hardworking people, you won't be lazy; with optimistic people, you won't be negative; with reliable people, you won't be treacherous; with kind people, you won't be evil ......
What you are, is what you come into contact with.
This side of the small children are there playing with all kinds of toys; that side of the big mothers are dancing in the square; in the other direction, the old men are playing chess and cards; the young daughters-in-law are holding (holding) the hands of the children to see what's going on ......
03
"Prince Shaofu Proverbs". "Close to Zhu is red, close to ink is black; if the sound is harmonious, the sound is clear, if the shape is correct, the shadow is straight."
People can't live independently in the world, good environment has good influence on people; bad environment has bad influence on people.
You are often with a whining, grumbling one, and you will become a complainer in everything.
People's emotions and energy fields are highly contagious, and the kind of people you spend time with will make you into the kind of person you are.
"The fluffy hemp in the middle, do not help from straight; white sand in the nirvana, with all the black."
Circles are really important.
There is a saying:
"Fly with the phoenix, it will be a handsome bird; walk with the tiger and wolf, it will be a fierce beast! How far you can go depends on who you walk with!"
Only the same frequency **** vibration, can come together.
Those who ride in airplanes will not wait for you to ride in automobiles; rabbits will not walk with snails.
It's really important for a person to be able to fit into the circle of positive energy.
Positive energy people, full of kindness, optimism, gratitude, contentment heart, they use their own practical action to change fate, they do not complain about the world, do not sit on the fence.
When you want to get close to a positive person, you have to have positive energy.
To improve yourself, when your magnetic field is strong enough, you will attract a lot of the best.
The circle is not something you climb to, but something you attract.
It's like: Wolong attracted Liu Bei's "three visits".
"If you bloom, butterflies will come."