Let's bask in my father's pension first. My father-in-law's pension can be divided into three parts:
1 is social security, which is available to every rural elderly over 60 years old. In our village, like my father-in-law, I have been receiving it for six years, about every month 120 yuan and one year 1240 yuan.
2. The husband is an only child, and the in-laws have an only child allowance. It seems that 80 yuan doesn't cover one month, and 960 yuan covers one year. In-laws add up in one year 1920.
My father-in-law was a private teacher in the village. After Chinese New Year coordination, if he has been a private tutor for 9 years like my father-in-law, he will be subsidized to 20 yuan every month and 240 yuan once a year.
4. It is the land income of the family. In fact, now my in-laws are not the main force of farming, and their land is planted by us. Our village has a large population and little land, especially our family has 7 plots or even 2 acres of land, and all of them grow yellow peaches. The price of yellow peaches was not bad last year. Two acres of land 1 10,000, which can't be more. You don't believe it, and neither do I.
It can be seen that the pension of a rural old man, such as his father-in-law, is less than 1% in rural areas, and all the investments add up to less than 7,000 yuan, while the village is also the teacher's fifth uncle, with a monthly retirement salary of 7,000-8,000 yuan.
Excluding the one-child subsidy and private teacher subsidy unique to the father-in-law, it is basically the disposable income of a rural elderly person for one year. How much, everyone can calculate.
There are still very few fathers-in-law in the village. If, on average, an old man can only control less than 5000 yuan a year, then he will lose his labor force. If he can't farm, he will only have poor 120 yuan a month. Of course, this is the lowest subsidy in the country. In rural areas, 120 yuan can barely live without getting sick, but the most important thing is that people are old.
After so many years of marriage, I think my father-in-law is a real man, much stronger than my husband in many aspects, and his strength is admirable.
When my father-in-law was born, there were many things that we couldn't understand. For example, he could go to school, but in the end he failed to take the college entrance examination because of composition problems. After studying in high school for a year and a half, I couldn't go to school, so I became a private teacher in the village. The students' grades were high in the whole management area, but because of the above problems, I finally failed to become a full member.
But my father-in-law is a strong man. To put it bluntly, he doesn't want to be a farmer all his life. If the teacher can't do it, he becomes the first person to go into the sea. He and my uncle (my father-in-law's brother-in-law) set up the first plastic sandal factory in town. My uncle is in charge of production, and my father-in-law is in charge of business because of his profound knowledge. At that time, he was almost the first to go out in the village, opening doors in Rizhao and Yishui and selling sandals. Now we still have those sandals at home, all of which are black, which are particularly strong and durable.
Then the shoe factory closed down. I don't know why, and I didn't ask. My father-in-law and a relative bought a semi-trailer in partnership and ran a long way to pull coal in Datong. About the mid-1980s, my father-in-law dared to borrow money, buy a trailer and go out. I think it takes a lot of courage and courage.
1987, Gonggong became the first household in the village, the first panda black-and-white TV, the first motorcycle, and the first big tile house with red bricks and tiles. My mother-in-law lived in a big tile house before the walls of other people's houses were pulled up. Because of this tile house, she even gave my husband a small marriage.
But later, triangular debts became popular. In about 89 years, my father-in-law owed people more than 90,000 yuan and went out all day to ask for accounts. People who want to register are also blocked at home. My father-in-law even thought about suicide. At that time, he was only in his thirties. Of course, these things were usually known by chatting with my mother-in-law, and my father-in-law never took the initiative to talk about them.
My mother-in-law said that my father-in-law had been carrying 30 kilograms of pancakes in the factory in Luo Zhuang for more than two months, and he didn't get the money back. The trailer was sold directly to pay off the debt, so he had a bad relationship with his partner. It was not until 1992 that the knot of triangular debt was untied, but it was useless.
My father-in-law is the man of the hour in the village. After all, he has so many auras on his head. Besides, the tractor mentioned above is also the first one in the village, and a lot of efforts have been made. But no matter how my father-in-law is outside, I always listen to my mother-in-law when I get home. It may be because of the father-in-law's composition that the mother-in-law is only 150. My father-in-law always said that if it weren't for your mother-in-law, I would be single, so they hardly quarreled.
Later, the countryside gradually became angry. My father-in-law bought a well-drilling machine, went to Xinjiang to drill wells, and collected firewood to buy firewood in the virgin forest in the northeast mountainous area.
However, my father-in-law has been an ordinary farmer all his life. He has succeeded and failed, but he has never left the countryside.
Now my father-in-law is old and has no previous "ambition". He just told us blindly that Junhao and Jiahui (my son and daughter) must go to school well, facing the loess and facing the sky. This kind of life is too hard. If we succeed, you must work harder to give your children a good future.
Now that I think about it, my grandfather has done so much. His life is magnificent, many times more wonderful than ours, but he still failed.
I think my father-in-law can see many shadows of the older generation all his life. They constantly strive for self-improvement and keep up with the trend of the times.
Their generation has suffered a lot, which we can never finish, and we can't learn their spirit. Although my father-in-law finally failed, many people succeeded. It is the hard work of their generation that has promoted the motivation of social progress.
Of course, a generation has the responsibility of a generation, and a generation has the goal of a generation. After 80s, we have gradually become the mainstay of life, and the pace of our social progress is not slow.
People in the 1950s are getting old, aren't they? My father-in-law is 66 years old this year. He has not lost his labor force and has been helping us. It's not his fault that he didn't walk out of the peasants, but the times didn't give him a chance.
Looking at my in-laws' aging bodies, I sometimes wonder what our generation will look like when they are old.
The generation after 50' s and 60' s is catching up with the most dramatic era of social change, which not only shows the fighting spirit of the older generation, but also shows the most dramatic changes in the country in these 50-60 years.
There must be many people like my father-in-law. When I was young, they all struggled, wandered around, and some people succeeded. There are many big bosses at this age, but most of them have failed. Just like my father-in-law, they have become ordinary people, so I can't say it's bad, because they are much better now than before. I can't say yes, because compared with others, he may not be the best or even worse.
My father-in-law is 66 years old and has gradually lost his labor force. Although he still wants to work every day and work hard, we don't want him to do too much. After so much, it's time to have a rest.
The post-50s and post-60s are old, so let's stop worrying about how they are doing, just hope they are well and happy!
I'm from that era, and I'm doing well now. But most people have not left the countryside, and their lives are not very good. The so-called good here mainly refers to economic income and living conditions.
I was lucky to be born in the countryside. At that time, I was still writing. My family is a poor peasant, and so are my relatives. The so-called "red five categories" have taken care of everything.
Fortunately, I started high school in our class. In the past, two junior high school students in our village had the highest academic qualifications. There are five people in our village who persist in graduating from high school, and the total number and proportion are the highest in the surrounding villages. Some villages don't even have high schools. A high school student, who had the highest education in rural areas at that time, brought benefits to his future work. Several of my classmates are not bad, some are doctors and some are teachers.
I went the farthest, enlisted in the army and arrived at the Capital Airport. This is also due to the above two reasons, composition is the best, so high school students are the first choice for recruitment.
How can a person live? There are many factors besides economic conditions and living conditions. People of this age have reached old age, and happiness and health are the most important. May our peers enjoy life and come to the end healthily and happily.
I was born in 1963, and I still have a say in this issue. What's the problem? I'll tell you the truth and let you comment.
Born in the era of flood, the little white rabbit abandoned to the earth by Chang 'e in advance was born prematurely in a semi-working and semi-farming family. I was lucky enough to finish high school and catch up with the responsibility field to subcontract to households. People with dreams first flew in the vast world for two years, learned the most basic skills of a farmer's life, and cultivated hope with cows, horses, mules and mules who could not communicate in their fields. Restless, I went to other places with my favorite literary novels, and finally chose to join the army in the name of unfilial. Five years of military career, let me understand how beautiful and attractive the outside world is. I realized my dream by joining the party through meritorious service. Retired home, worked on the beautiful Haihe River 12 years.
Stepping into middle age, I abandoned the life in the metropolis and returned to the countryside to complete the task of carrying on the family line in order to fulfill my parents' wishes. I lost my job and looked around for a job that suited me. Brick movers on construction sites, office workers in company canteens, office directors of cultural companies ... For later children, they gave all the money they earned to education, 10 years, and sent them to colleges and universities. Thankfully, my parents stopped calling me unfilial when they saw the grandson who brought them a family line. Although life is not rich, I am very satisfied. I pin my hopes on the next generation. My son needs my help on his way to school.
I have no regrets and keep working every day!
My uncle, born in 1959, is 62 years old. When he was young, he was too picky about finding a wife and never found the right one. When people reach middle age, they want to make do, but they are cheated by the woman. They originally wanted to rely on their eldest brother's family, but they were calculated and finally got a pension.
When Tang Shu was 25 years old, it was the most proud time in his life. At that time, he was engaged in the business of selling ducks and geese, making money almost every day. You can also say that he is a profiteer. A duck caught from a reservoir farmer introduced sand, water and a little rice into the duck's stomach with a self-made device, and then caught it on the street for sale on the day of market. In this way, a duck can earn twice the cost.
As long as the ducks and geese were not sold out that day, they almost died at night, so they ate duck every day for those days, because sometimes they were almost sold out when it rained. When you get home, you must deal with them quickly and kill them. More ducks will be sent to the roast duck restaurant cheaply, and fewer ducks will be handled at home.
He made some money in business, and then he became popular all over the country. At that time, he was in his prime and handsome. There are many matchmakers in Shili Baxiang who visit relatives every day. At that time, the most popular matchmaker came to the door to match.
Every time someone brings a girl to see it, he either thinks that the girl's family is too poor to deserve her, or thinks that the girl is too tall or too short, or too fat and thin, and he always doesn't like it, but this is also his right to choose. Who called him a successful man? Some self-recommended girls are really beautiful, but they don't like the position on their chests, and they haven't got a wife until they are 27 years old.
That year, my uncle's mother died in a car accident, which was a great blow to him and he also received a sum of compensation. The compensation is divided equally between him and his eldest brother. At home, he didn't feel at home, and then he thought about going out to Guangdong, where he went for 10 years.
Because there is another brother in the family, who is married and has two children, both of whom are quite big. His brother has cancer and hasn't seen him back for more than half a year. The family doesn't know if my uncle is alive or dead outside and hasn't received a letter, so everyone thinks that he doesn't exist and lives a normal life.
It's really hard for his sister-in-law to live with her two children at home. She has no income. She can only make a living by planting an acre of land at home. The houses at home are all earthen houses, and it often leaks when it rains. They belong to a relatively poor family.
Now let me redefine our relationship. If you are reading this article, you are a little confused and don't understand what kind of state my role is in. My uncle and my father's grandfather are the same grandfather.
After my brother died, my uncle suddenly came back that year, and he didn't seem to get along well outside. He is nearly 40 years old and doesn't even have a wife.
I heard that when I was working in Guangdong, someone introduced a divorced woman. I heard that the young woman has a son and her husband has passed away. I want to find a man I can rely on. My uncle wanted to build a new family with others, but he was cheated by others, and then others left him.
When my uncle came back this time, many people began to talk about it, saying that he and his sister-in-law would make do. Uncle often tells others that sister-in-law may not be willing! And two nephews.
The house where they live is in the same yard. As for whether they had that kind of relationship when they lived together, others don't know, because what happened later made others doubt it.
Since my uncle came back, he never went out to work in Guangdong, but began to farm at home. Because there is no man in my sister-in-law's house, he often helps my sister-in-law and often brings some people to talk about relationships.
There was a flood at home that year and the whole house was soaked for a day. Many of those mud houses were soaked, so were my uncle's house and my sister-in-law's house, and the roofs fell off.
When his sister-in-law was preparing to build a new house, she borrowed tens of thousands of dollars from her uncle, and he paid it back without hesitation. She also said that when he was old, his son would be raised by them, and the money was only borrowed temporarily. Later, at the meeting, he registered his account in a book, and I accidentally saw it that day. It says, take 60 thousand from my brother-in-law and 18000 from my aunt.
Maybe his sister-in-law gave him hope or promised him something. When building a house that year, my uncle went to work in the brick factory in the town next to us. The salary was ok, but it was too hard.
There is food and shelter there, but he comes back once or twice a month, which really makes others suspect that he has something to do with his mobile phone, and the money he earns every month is used to decorate his house for his sister-in-law.
Until one year, things took a big turn. My uncle was accidentally hit by a brick at work, and then his foot was lame. He couldn't continue working there and went home to support the elderly.
His sister-in-law's attitude towards him seems to be a 180 degree change. There are two rooms in the house he built for him. They often quarrel over trifles, and in the end they all live separately and eat separately, because he has never found a wife before and has been living with his sister-in-law.
Now that he is lame, his sister-in-law treats him with this attitude and makes him live for most of his life. Now he understands that my sister-in-law has used him for so long and regarded him as a cash cow and a tool to make money.
I regret it now. I bet wrong. I thought of relying on these two machines to help him support his old age. I have paid so much for their family. In the end, I got nothing.
In my opinion, my uncle's life is very difficult now. But I talked to him several times, and from his remarks, I can draw the conclusion that he has put all this behind him. Now he digs holes in his vegetable garden every morning to order food, and braggs to the old people in the village at noon.
In the afternoon, I will go to the vegetable garden to get something to eat, pick something to eat and go back to maintain his broken vegetable garden, and get a minimum living allowance and a pension of more than 700 yuan a month.
I asked him if he had enough money. He replied, I don't smoke or drink. I cook a pot of porridge every morning. Once I eat it, I can eat it all night. After half a month, I will go for a walk in the banana garden. My life is quite good now. I am carefree and waiting to die. It is a waste of time to come to the vegetable garden every day.
My second sister was born in 1952, and my second brother-in-law born after 50 passed away in 19! Since 19, the widowed second sister has dried her tears and suffered from a whole body disease. Fortunately, the second sister has two filial daughters, and the eldest daughter moved back to the village shortly after the death of the second brother-in-law. But because the son-in-law bought a house after working in the city, the daughter and children also settled in the city a few years ago, and they wanted to take her with them. Second sister is uneducated, used to living in the countryside and doesn't want to go to town. Now the countryside is extremely barren and empty, and the second sister's life alone is really lonely and hard. In desperation, the second sister who doesn't like pets keeps dogs for courage and companionship. My second sister, with a bad heart and high blood pressure, almost died of a bad cold a few years ago. After that, she didn't recover for several months, and people became trance, almost like a different person. We all began to worry about her. Both daughters are willing to take her to the city, and the second sister followed the eldest daughter to live in the city for a while, but she was not used to it anyway. After a little better, she stubbornly returned to the village to live alone, but no one knew that her second sister was alone.
In the countryside, a quasi-50-year-old like Second Sister can live a good life without losing two companions. Once you leave a child, life will be very lonely and desolate, because the children of rural people after 50 s and 60 s are basically still working hard in the city.
Let's talk about a couple from their hometown after 60. When this man was young, he didn't go to school for a few years because he was poor. He finally got married when he was almost 30 years old! The only son has settled in the city and the province since he graduated from school. Because of the limitation of education and major, his work is not very good. He just barely stood up. He got married and bought a house with the support of his parents, and he had to take it when he gave birth. I don't know how long it will take a woman to go back. If he leaves a man at home, he has to try his best to make money and send it to the provincial capital continuously, otherwise his son's mortgage will be broken! Men under 60 have no choice but to live alone and work hard. While farming and raising pigs, I kept doing short-term work. It's really tiring
It can be said that the rural post-50 s and post-60 s are mostly two generations who have worked very hard. Many of them have elderly parents to support, and their children and grandchildren cannot do without their help and support. Many of them (mainly the post-60s generation) have to live a life of separation between urban and rural areas for their descendants. One takes care of his grandson, the other earns money, and he has no time to consider and settle down in his later years! In fact, even the post-50 s and post-60 s in cities are mostly like this. Many retirees are struggling under the pressure of generations! [Cover your face] [Tears]
The 5060 generation, whether rural or urban, is the lucky generation first. New China has just been established. Although he was poor and had to do everything, he ended the suffering of the war, the people were no longer displaced and overthrew the feudal exploiting class. Everyone is equal, men and women are equal, and people live and work in peace. 5060 people are a generation with stories, and few people can read. Ten years have passed, and this generation of teenagers have not learned much knowledge. The generation that goes to the countryside is the largest, and family planning is basically this generation, with the largest number of laid-off workers. Don't underestimate the generation of 5060, they are the main force in the construction of new China. After the reform and opening up, it has basically risen rapidly, and many talents are of this generation. The 5060 is also the one that enjoys the most peace and prosperity, and it has been a good life for forty or fifty years. At present, most of the people playing cards at the poker table are these people, dancing in the square dance, and there are basically many people in the tour group. 5060 is a lucky generation in New China, a creative generation and a happy generation in times of peace and prosperity. Most people have a good life.
I'm a rural 50-year-old, and I'm most qualified to answer this question, because this question is closely related to me. I will use my experience, from my own experience to make an answer.
I'm a little dependent on this post-50 generation, because I was born in 1959, and I've been in the post-60 generation since I was sensible. I was born in the city and grew up in the countryside, because our family moved from the city to the countryside in 60 years. In other words, when I was less than one year old, in my mother's arms, I changed from a city person to a rural person. This really can't be blamed. I really couldn't help myself at that time, because I couldn't go with my mother. One is that I can't live without my mother's nipples. The other is that I don't know what happened. My parents took me to agriculture without consulting me.
In fact, in the decades of growing up, I have also established deep feelings with the countryside. I don't think the countryside is so bad. Do as the Romans do? On the contrary, I feel that the countryside is quite free, with good scenery, fresh air and hard life. It was all the same then. The rich are not much better, and the poor are not ashamed. When you grow up, you get married and have children, so does other people's lives. Do your own work and eat your own food. Your wife should look after it by herself. It's time to have children. Being a father is a watershed in my life, and I know I'm really an adult.
Getting married and having children is a responsibility. In Daiyue, children grow up and get old. We used to raise children, but now children have become our backers. The biggest regret is that there is no pension all my life. Now that the country is rich, I only hope that the pension of more than one month 100 will go up again. To be honest, it's a little too little.
My wife and I are at my daughter's house now, cooking and cleaning for her. My son is working this year and is looking forward to finding someone soon. Although we are an old couple, we still feel a little strong. If our daughter-in-law doesn't mind, we can help them with their children. It is also a kind of family happiness.
My daughter is very filial. No matter how you spend money, you spend it casually, but who doesn't love children when they are old? The child is so generous that we can't buy everything, can we? My daughter bought us a house and is decorating it. It seems that this is to let us stay in Shajiabang. But there is an old house in my hometown, which is a relatively new four-day quadrangle. Really loathe to give up, alas! What to do in the future can only be seen one step at a time. I'm not going to sell the old house anyway. In case I don't want to live in the city in the future, I also have a way out.
It's a long story After 5060, they experienced ups and downs, but fortunately, they caught up with a good era in their later years. Most of them are full of children and grandchildren, and both rural people and urban people can be said to have no worries about food and clothing. Although there is a big gap, it is a pity that quite a few people have not survived and died one after another.
My cousin was born in 1955. I was a playmate as a child. He used to stay at my home to study.
My cousin has a son and a daughter. They are married. According to the custom of the older generation, he lives with his son's family. Although I am nearly old, I am healthy and not sick.
Some time ago, we met him and asked him how his life was. He said with a smile: I don't want to eat or drink, help my son plant all kinds of land and look after his home ...
From the conversation, I learned that my son has more than a dozen fields, and he does most of the work. Of course, the income is managed by the son, and the original savings are also given to the son, empty-handed
When it comes to money, my cousin's eyes show helplessness. He usually doesn't spend much money, so he just wants to ask his son …
My cousin's life was good, but she lost her wealth and freedom. What will it be like to be unable to take care of yourself when you are old? Cousin said: I don't want to, why think so much!
According to the comparison between rural areas and cities, most people can't catch up with cities. City people generally have their own pensions at this age, while farmers are still suffering.
The main reason is that farmers can only receive pension subsidies of more than 1oo yuan, but they can't enjoy social life and can only chew on small things, but they can't generalize. Some old people's salary cards are held by their sons and cannot be spent casually. This is a common phenomenon among rural people. It is said that their son is a link between the preceding and the following, taking care of the elderly and taking care of the children, which can only be the case.