The relationship between husband and wife has always been a perplexing problem, after all, it is the combination of two different families of origin to live together, and the life of the chickens and dogs will greatly affect the development of the relationship between husband and wife and change! If you are fifty-three years old, and the husband's relationship has been bad, then at this time you should be reasonable to face the relationship between the two of you, make reasonable choices and trade-offs!
First of all, first of all, you should calmly think about the relationship between you and your husband has been bad, where the problem is? After all, the age is not small, the two of you have been hand in hand for so many years, life is short, don't let your whole life are living in confusion! If you have your own shortcomings, should be corrected in time to alleviate each other's crisis; if you feel that you have done enough thoughtful, perfect, then this time you should sit down and talk with each other, people need to rely on each other to get along with each other's good communication, effective communication in order to find out where the problems are, in order to make the emotional crisis into a safe place! If you have been avoiding, not to intervene or have been needlessly arguing, then the relationship will become even worse, and even lead to the two to the point of separation!
Second, if after good communication, still can not solve the problem, then this time you should make reasonable trade-offs! Life is fifty years old although half, but we do not need to continue in the unworthy people or things on the waste of their own good time, people always have to live for themselves once, if always the meaning of life in others, then we will never feel happy and satisfied! When you make a change, perhaps your lover will also have a change of heart or more new understanding of you, perhaps this will re-ignite the emotional spark between you!