Gouging men are not worth marrying, but the man's behavior is not considered gouging, but I think he is a gentleman, I am very supportive of his approach.
A woman with four people ate 5,000 yuan on a blind dateNingbo, Zhejiang 32-year-old Chen Yang (a pseudonym), was arranged by his mother a blind date, the other is a kindergarten teacher Xiao Yan (a pseudonym). Chen Yang was reluctant but couldn't argue with his mother, but also not good enough to hurt his mother's heart, he took the initiative to contact Xiao Yan, the two met in a Japanese restaurant.
After arriving at the Japanese restaurant, Smaller Yan took the menu and ordered directly, without the slightest concern for Chen Yang's tastes and spending power, wildly point, as if spending not their own money. After finishing the dishes, Xiao Yan ate a few mouthfuls and yelled that he was full, Chen Yang did not understand, he ate so little why do you have to order so much?
After a while, Xiao Yan said he has a few friends in the neighborhood, asked Chen Yang can call them over? Chen Yang could not refuse, so he agreed. Not long after, came four people, five people ordered some more dishes, chatting and eating together, completely dry Chen Yang on the side.
Chen Yang saw is also speechless, wait until almost almost finished eating, Chen Yang got up to go to the checkout, Chen Yang saw 5000 yuan bill, told the waiter that the woman on the table checkout, left the hotel on their own.
Two, Chen Yang wrong?
After Chen Yang left the hotel, he transferred 1,000 yuan to Xiao Yan. Xiao Yan learned that Chen Yang left without checking out, went home to his mother, and tweeted about Chen Yang's oddity on social media platforms. Xiao Yan's mother told her square-dancing friends about Chen Yang's behavior,and in the eyes of these square-dancing aunts Chen Yang became an oddball.
Chen Yang and Xiao Yan deleted each other's friends, and both went into each other's blacklist. Chen Yang himself felt that he did not do wrong, dating is originally a two-person thing, but you called a bunch of people, to put it nicely is in the test, to put it bluntly you are in the dilly-dallying.
Chen Yang and Xiao Yan two people meet for the first time, on the other side of the character of the temperament hobbies have not yet understood clearly, you bring friends together to eat, ask you in the end there is no respect for Chen Yang it? Chen Yang is a boy yes, but people can not have no reason to pay for your behavior, if you want to invite your friends to dinner, you alone please on it, why in the blind date this time period it?
I personally think Chen Yang is not wrong, on the contrary, I think he is very gentleman, he has always given Xiao Yan face, just Xiao Yan did not realize, or Xiao Yan deliberately cold. If I were Chen Yang, I'm afraid I would have left long ago, and wouldn't have paid the bill, nor would I have transferred 1000 yuan to Xiao Yan.
Finally: A man who is stingy with women is not worth marrying, such a man will pull down a woman's standard of living, and will lower the quality of life of women. Marriage is even more serious, will reduce the quality of life and future development of the family whole mention.
If you are stingy with yourself and others, and you are not stingy with your own woman and family, such a man is still worth marrying.