The first time she came knocking on my door in anger, the morning about 10:00, knocking on the door to interrupt me and Mr. Tan was talking about happy topics, we looked at each other, and then he opened the door, in front of the standing 1 meter 6 or so, wearing hair, 35 or so a lady, "your daughter-in-law early yesterday morning walking with the same as the earthquake without end, can not you Keep your voice down?" Mr. Tan looked back at me and politely apologized, saying he would pay attention in the future.
From then on, we walked softly, cooked and talked, and began to worry about not disturbing others.
On the third night, at 21:00, she came up again and knocked on my door, yelling through the door, "Shut up! At that time, we just entered the door less than 20 minutes, back to the sound of know, and then the other side of the crumbs turn around and walk away.
Mr. Tan and I seriously reflected on our problems:
1. We live in a house sound insulation effect is really not very good, we can also occasionally hear the upstairs tenants walking footsteps, continuous chopping thud, sliding door sound, in the corridor can be heard in the neighboring children crying, but we think we are very life gas, not be troubled.
2. Mr. Tan and I are very busy every day, excluding the time to go to bed at night, morning and evening at home time a **** less than 5 hours, there are no children in the house, and never wrestle with things do not make a noise, work and rest regularly, get up at 7:00 every day, and go to bed between 22:30 and 23:00 in the evening.
3. Behind our home are two vocational schools, next to a military zone, downstairs is a small square, every day there is the sound of the school's radio, the sound of the military zone's bugle, the soldiers brothers running slogans, downstairs, the noise of the square dance of the big moms, and even from time to time the sound of the renovation of the electric drill, compared to these, we walk than these noisy sound?
4. I never wear high heels, normal walking, in addition to the necessary dinner cooking chores, most of the time at home are reading and studying, my footsteps like an earthquake never-ending this is what I do not recognize, and why she can justifiably say that it is the sound of my footsteps noisy to her? There will be no one else?
5. but also the most important, her house is their money to buy, my house is also our money to buy, normal life and work is our right, he felt noisy can be mentioned with us, but we do not make noise, reasonable and lawful premise, to change the situation is the love, do not change is this, we do not have the obligation to change because of her problems aggrieved, even if we find to the neighborhood committee, the police, we can be so justified to explain the problem, and the police, the police, the police, the police, the police, the police, the police, the police, the police, the police, the police, the police. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it," he said.
6. Neighbors should have been to help each other, there is a problem at least attitude and good, there is to coordinate the attitude, two times all the fuss, not self-reflection, is not your own neurasthenia? Feel the house has a problem to go to the property, live not happy to go to live in the penthouse or change the villa, are the first time to do people, which has so many people used to you.
The last time she ran to knock on the door or face full of aggression, complaining about the noise, but also disturbed the next door neighbor, Mr. Tan patiently and her reasoning above, of course, does not include the sixth point, she rolled his eyes and turned to go away, the next door neighbor gave a thumbs up to greet and close the door.
After that, Ms. 19th floor did not come again. Through this incident, I know to endure for a while is not necessarily a wide sea and sky, one step back there may be poor pursuit. You also need to be brave to protect yourself.