To put it mildly, some things should not be taken too seriously.

People often say, don't take things too seriously. Whether a thing should be serious depends on the occasion. Pay attention to the seriousness of learning knowledge, and pay more attention to right and wrong issues. For some things that have nothing to do with the overall situation, don't be too serious, regardless of the object and location, and you will often put yourself in an embarrassing situation and be passive everywhere. Whenever we rationally choose to take a step back at this time, we can often save the day. When you are open-minded, you will find his performance ridiculous for those petty people. Everyone has self-esteem, and some people are sensitive because of their strong self-esteem, so they are particularly vulnerable. A little stimulation will make them react. If it is light, they will keep a straight face; if it is heavy, they will fight back immediately. Therefore, they often lose face in order to earn face. If they are more tolerant and give in, our road will be wider and wider, our friends will be more and more, and our life will be sweeter. Therefore, if you want to be a successful person, you must not care about everything, and many unprincipled things don't have to be too entangled. If you are serious about everything, you will offend others. You should set yourself an extra obstacle. We don't need to take trivial details, unimportant details seriously, and we don't need to take the tense deadlock seriously. In order to avoid unnecessary arguments and serious feelings, we can start from the following aspects: 1 Different opinions are welcome. 2. Don't trust your intuition. 3. Listen patiently. 4. Carefully consider the opinions of opponents. 5. Sincerity.