Today, I would like to discuss with you a serious question: What if we plan to grow old alone? Almost everyone has envisioned their own future with the love of their lives and old age, children and grandchildren, but there is always a part of the good luck is not so, perhaps they have had a partner but finally separated, perhaps they were hurt and never believe again, and perhaps they have not been able to meet the right person and do not want to be, if we are not lucky enough, the future did not meet the love of the world, did not get married, did not have children, how should we live decently? How to live decently?
1, keep exercising
The body is the sanctuary of the host soul, no strong body, any dignified living simply can not begin, set up a simple living room in the living room of the home, you can run, yoga, in my we are dying of old age when the wind and candles, you can still stand straight, you can climb the stairs to the toilet themselves, as an independent person and live.
2, learn to cook
Even if you live alone, you can not treat your own stomach, in our seventies and eighties, in their own favorite kitchen, for their own to do a has no one will do the shredded pork with fish, sweet and sour carp, instead of every day lying in bed to let people send a bitter medicine soup.
3, to maintain the taste of clothing
If in the future we are alone in the end of the old age, the taste of clothing must not be lost, to buy a closet to place their own clothes, even if we become an old man, but also must be a handsome old man, even if you become an old girl, but also an elegant old girl.
4, with the book as a friend
One of the biggest obstacles to loneliness is to get along with their own, perhaps when people ask you whether you are lonely when you are just lighthearted, but you really face the time when a person to see their own may not be like loneliness, so more books, change a small study to put dozens of books they like, heavy interesting, classic novelty can be, you will not be lonely with books. There are books you will not be alone.
5, cultivate interest
If you are not married and do not have children, cultivate an interest that you particularly like, and then go to earn money to raise interest, when the daughter of the same up, what interest can be no matter how good or bad, do not jeopardize their own not to jeopardize the community on the line, for example, you can in the lounge area to play games, learn to learn to learn, learn musical instruments can be.
6, do not give up friendship
While we have been alone, but we are not alone, make a few old friends, can be young diehard, can also be downstairs neighbors, can also be a square dance together to know the old sisters, at that time we may not have been able to play the young people's games, but we can also be together to come to a few plates of mahjong has been no one will play.
7, other
If not compelled, we believe that no one would like to be alone in their old age. If you have no choice but to choose this path, when you are old, we hope that you still have not lost the ability to feel the love of the world and the ability to get along with yourself, of course, we sincerely hope that you can meet the person who can change your mind, after all, a person will be very free, but also very hard.
Whether you're two people holding on to each other until you grow old or one person dying alone, a lifetime is too short, and there's no reason why we can't be kinder to ourselves!