Each of us actually has two inner worlds, one aspiring to the ideal and the other aspiring to reality. Many people tend to confuse these two concepts, so in real life always take their own ideals as the basis of life, so many times will encounter a variety of problems. But in fact we should understand that these two concepts do not conflict, we need to do is to face the reality, after that can break through the ideal.
Real life is what we really need to experience, but ideal life is the need for real life as a stepping stone. Real life in some cases is really very sad, like some time ago I suffered a network fraud, penniless and external debt, sleepless nights into sleepless nights of insomnia so that my mental state is more and more unbearable, the children to borrow money, they are either refused or silent, which allows me to recognize the reality of the society, that period of time I ate only one meal a day, and endured half a month, the only thing can be bitter in the joy is that half a month time I lost weight. The only bitter-sweet thing is that I lost eight pounds in half a month, which is also the only thing to be happy about. The reality is so cruel. Before I met the network scam I was full of hope for my ideal soul, but overnight all my dreams have turned into a bubble.
Because there is a reality so there will be ideal, we must learn to grope in the difficulties, find the bitter sweet way, so that they do not have a day to live up to the full. half a month after I sent a salary, but this money for me is a drop in the bucket, looking at the rent and loans are due, I had to run out to find a side business, from the hot pot restaurant waiter to do, every night until two o'clock in the morning to get off work, go home to wash to sleep has been three or four o'clock in the morning at 8:30 to the company, so go in the case of severe sleep deprivation! I've been working on this for three months, and I've seen a dramatic change in my paycheck. I've been able to pay my rent, pay off my loans, and get my life back on track, so I'm able to take breaks every day, and I'm able to get together with my new friends on the weekends to have a good time.
You have to believe that there is nothing you can't get through in life, and although we live in reality, we always have to have an ideal in our hearts, just in case it comes true. Now I work hard, but also towards their own ideals closer and closer, I believe that as long as I persevere I will be able to dance in the storm.