I'm from the south, and I'm used to the gentle and elegant appearance of southern men, so after I've been to Tibetan areas once, I think the men there are very man.
1. They are handsome in singing and dancing.
It was already evening when I went there that day, and I just organized a bonfire party. A man who felt very coquettish at first but handsome at last came out to preside over it. I have to say, it is really eloquent. Singing and dancing all night. Everyone knows that Tibetan dance is similar to a flying eagle, and it is full of heroism everywhere.
when they sing, they are all cantata, unlike those people in the square in our city. Their singing voices are really good, clear and loud. I thought that the person who was the host was awesome, but I found that the whole family's cantata was particularly awesome. I am an emotional person. I was moved to tears when their grandmother, who is still in her eighties and healthy, came up to sing. I can't say how I feel, but I am touched. The scene of the large group of cattle and sheep in the mountains and grasslands is very clear in my mind and I think it is a noble belief.
Maybe it's because of my mood. Anyway, I only saw them sing and dance once, and I felt that the men there were very tasty, unlike the southern men I saw every day.
2. Their drinking is very manly.
We had dinner at the Tibetan family, but the man with a coquettish bag was very manly and taught us how to eat highland barley noodles and drink highland barley wine. Although I am a woman, I don't drink much everyday, but I am a person who likes wine. The taste of highland barley wine suits my taste buds very well. Their family may have seen more tourists from the south, and they kept some cups at home. At first, we were just drinking with cups, but they used big bowls, which are the bowls in the traditional martial arts dramas. We have a cup of them and a bowl of them, and once we drink it, it is the bottom.
I usually have people with poor wine quality when I go out for a drink, but I don't want to take a sip after trying to persuade them. It really suits my eyes to see someone who drinks so generously. Moreover, their drinking capacity is really good. Although we changed bowls later, they drank several times as much as ours in order to take care of us. We were all hung over and they were fine.
3. They are very religious.
Everyone knows that people in Tibetan areas believe in Buddhism. Every village has a "flower gang", which is full of prayer flags. Every day when they pass by, they have to turn several times, and the number of turns can only be odd. The next day, Tashi, the youngest in the family, took us for a few turns. After the turn, we chatted on the grass. Little Tashi is a college student, studying in Lanzhou. Xiao Tashi said that he had learned a lot by studying abroad, and his hometown was really poor compared with the outside. He said that all his brothers have been abroad, and they know that people like to travel to Tibetan areas more and more, but they don't know their beliefs and have caused a lot of unhappiness. So when they heard about it, their brothers came back to work as a tourist reception desk, receiving tourists like us every day, telling them about their beliefs, telling them about the enthusiasm of the Tibetan people and hoping that their beliefs would be respected.
This is the Tibetan Tashi who I think is kind, lovely and manly.