Almost everyone who enters the parents' classroom is confused about parenting at first, or encounters a crux in his life growth, and then tries to find a solution to the problem.
Ignorance of life makes us feel confused in many times, and the light of human nature will always lead us to Mingde. The first sentence of "University" says: "The way of university lies in Mingde." Mingming virtue is the process of moving towards wisdom. The first sentence of The Analects says: "Confucius said: Learn while having fun." When we are confused, learning is the way to make us walk towards wisdom and gain joy. So I think parents' class is to let a person get wisdom first. There may be ups and downs in the process of gaining wisdom, but in the end, your growth will bring you a happy life.
Now let's talk about the life confusion that puzzles many people:
1. Children's education is not good: naughty, active, procrastinating, bad living habits, poor grades, etc.
2. The disharmony between husband and wife: such as personality disharmony, inconsistent parenting concepts, conflict of living habits, etc.
3. Disharmony with parents and elders: such as generation gap, parenting concept, living habits and so on.
4. The unfriendly relationship between colleagues and friends: no sense of responsibility, no new cooperation, etc.
Many troubles and puzzles in life make us try our best to find a breakthrough. It is under such circumstances that I walked into the classroom of parents-the classroom of parent-child relationship therapist and teacher. At first, I wanted to gain more methods and strength to educate my children. I didn't expect to gain much more than I expected and expected.
First, my parents' class made me know myself again. I found that I didn't even know myself. I only know the outer self, but I don't know the inner self and the infinite self.
Second, my parents' classroom study solved my own parenting puzzles and troubles.
Thirdly, my parents' classroom study taught me how to get along with my parents, husband, colleagues and friends better.
Fourthly, my parents' study in the classroom enabled me to acquire the mental method, and developed this method in school teaching.
Five, parents' class let me grow up in the process of helping others, and gain more happiness and strength.
6. My parents' study in class makes me full of confidence in myself, others and life.
In a word, my parents' class brought me into a higher dimension of life, which made me see and appreciate the infinite possibilities and beauty of life. Unconsciously, the center has changed, the environment has changed, life has become more and more joyful, families have become more and more happy, and people around them have become more and more harmonious.
Yes, what parents' class brings us is such a process. Life is changing ... in a blink of an eye, the whole world is beautiful. Because we found that the problem is actually very simple and the road is very simple. If we calm down and take a look, all the problems are actually the same. A monarch, a minister, a father, a son, a husband and a wife ... "University" said: "understanding, knowledgeable, sincere and upright, self-cultivation, rule the country and rule the world." "After knowing its content, you will know that it is true and sincere, and then sincere, and then positive, and then repair, and then repair, and then run the country, and rule the world. From Tian Zi to Shu Ren, one is to cultivate one's morality. ". Therefore, parents' classroom is changed by themselves, which will lead to family harmony, family happiness, family change and ultimately the harmony and happiness of the whole society.