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Revisiting "Parental Love", we have a lot of feelings.
This time we'll talk about Ms. Ge, who doesn't have much to do, but is very impressive and moving.
In a particular era, as the daughter of a fisherman's bully, Ms. Ge Meixia Ge did not come from a good background, which laid the groundwork for her ill-fated fate.
In Parental Love, except for the heroine An Jie, women from bad backgrounds have a bad life, and can even be said to have a miserable life. For example, An Xin, who follows her husband Ouyang Yi into exile on the island, and An Tai's wife, who is subjected to a lot of stigmatization.
And Ms. Ge's life is particularly bad, she looks gentle, gentle, a strong pursuit of a better life, and because of the times was forced to go picking dung, missed his sweetheart Lao Ding, and finally had no choice but to marry the second marriage of the deputy political commissar of the Wang Wang Zhenbiao......
When it was clear that Wang Zhenbiao broke up the marriage between Mr. Ge and Mr. Ding, now the original match Zhang Guiying has just died Wang Zhenbiao but in turn married Mr. Ge, visible Wang Zhenbiao's behavior is not decent.
However, the years are getting old, and Ms. Ge, the old girl, can't survive any longer, so she has to go from Wang Zhenbiao to accept the arrangement of fate.
Does Ms. Ge really love Wang Zhenbiao?
Not love, and perhaps some hate, but she convinced herself to try to accept the reality.
So why did Ms. Ge choose to marry Wang Zhenbiao, a second wife, just because she was old and had to settle for less? During her coffee with Anjie, she blurts out the hidden agenda with an air of age.
After deciding to marry Wang Zhenbiao, Ms. Ge is finally able to drink coffee in Anjie's courtyard.
Ms. Ge sincerely lamented, "It feels so good to drink coffee! The first time I drank coffee was still taught by you, also in this courtyard, also with such a small bouquet of flowers, also this set of cups. "
In this regard, Anjie said: "The past is like smoke, vivid in my mind. Zhang Guiying's face is still in front of my eyes, this person said no on no one. What's even better is that you also took over her class."
Teacher Ge smiled and said slowly, "Who says it isn't, I was still so afraid of her at that time. I was scared to death the first time I had coffee at your place.
What the coffee tasted like, I didn't taste it at all. The first time I saw this, I was able to get a good deal on the first day of the month, and I was able to get a good deal on the second day of the month. The more I think about it, the more I can't remember. The last thing I wanted to do was to roar my own hair."
The first time she drank coffee, Ms. Ge was afraid of everyone, because she had low self-esteem and was afraid that others would hurt her, just like a frightened animal.
Ms. Ge's marriage to Deputy Political Commissar Wang is not a good match, but Ms. Ge knows that by marrying this man, her life will not be too bad.
Anjie said to Teacher Ge, saying that Teacher Ge's bitterness is over. Teacher Ge responded refreshingly, " If only Deputy Political Commissar Wang, like your family Commander Jiang is as good, then I'm the one who repaired half of the blessings in my past life, and the bitterness is over and the sweetness has come. "
True, Ms. Ge married Wang Zhenbiao, not because of love, because love is a luxury, she can not afford to spend, not blessed to enjoy.
Ms. Ge is aware of her own situation, and also knows Wang Zhenbiao's character, she married Wang Zhenbiao, but just married to a kind of peaceful and leisure lifestyle.
Years later, Anjie and Ms. Ge finally reached the age of square dancing.
This time, Ms. Ge Meixia invited Anjie to her own small courtyard for coffee. It was a blast from the past, and seemed to bring back memories of the leisurely times the two of them used to have coffee on the island.
Ms. Ge, who is getting old, said to Anjie: "The first time I smelled the coffee, I thought: what kind of day is this, this is the day of the gods. When will I ever have a day like this. "
Angel responded, "Aren't you living it?"
Mr. Ge hurriedly said, " Yes, it's a bit late, but after all, it's still on, I'm content. I tell you ah, when I was young, I had a goal, when can I live like Mr. An, even if it is only one day, I live is worth it. "
Anjie said in disbelief, "My days are that good, let you so envious ah."
Mr. Ge sighed: "You are in the blessing of not knowing the blessing, we both come from a bad background, how do you live this life, how do I live this life? The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the stuff that you've been doing.
After marrying Wang Zhenbiao, Ms. Ge did Wang Haiyang's stepmother, to the divorced Wang Haiyang with children, and their happy, late life is quite harmonious, peaceful.
In my opinion, Ms. Ge has no regrets about marrying Wang Zhenbiao, because she has lived the life she wanted to live, and even though it was not perfect and came very late, she was satisfied.
Perhaps, deep down in Ms. Ge's heart, she loved Lao Ding, and most of all, she wanted to live a happy life with Lao Ding, the kind of life that she had longed for when she married because of love.
It is a pity that fate is such a trick on her. Missed the old Ding, she waited a lot, and finally from the Wang Zhenbiao, also yielded to life.
When Ms. Ge said she was satisfied, I was really a little sore. The woman in front of me, as long as life gives her a sugar, a hint of sweetness, she will be satisfied, see how bitter her heart really is.
Everyone has their own destiny, and who can sway too much, many people have to try their best, and then to the life of the expensive head down.
As Wang Xiaobo said in the "Golden Age": " That day I was 21 years old, in the golden age of my life, I have a lot of luxury. I wanted to love, I wanted to eat, and I wanted to become a half-bright, half-dark cloud in the sky in a flash. Later I realized that life is a slow process of being hammered, and as people get older day by day, their extravagance disappears day by day. "
People will always get older day by day, accepting the life slowly hammering, extravagance also slowly disappeared, become more rational, awake.
And "Parental Love" teacher Ge is also so slowly day by day to accept the hammer, and then in the last moments of half-aged charm, chose Wang Zhenbiao, because she wanted to live like Anjie life, even if only one day, she was willing.
Ms. Ge compromised because she lived the life she wanted to live, which is a blessing to be congratulated.
There are many kinds of marriages, and a marriage like Ms. Ge's, where you get what you want, may not be considered happy, but it's not bad.
With a clear understanding of yourself, what kind of life you want to live, and what kind of life you can live, and the courage to make the right choices, this may seem like a compromise and concessions, but in fact, it is a kind of progress.
The human being, Mr. Ge, deserves to be admired.
Finally, I wish all the lovers in the world a happy ending.
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This is the first time I've ever seen a movie that was so good that I had to go back to it.