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"Ode to Joy", the most let the audience is not happy, I am afraid that Fan Shengmei, troubles than the appearance of beauty.
She was born beautiful, intelligent, hard-working, know the way of the workplace, is a foreign company's senior HR. on the basis of these conditions, she should be mixed with the prosperous, bull coaxing is.
But the reality is that her family of origin has become a black hole in her life, a five-finger mountain on top of her head, a stumbling block on the road to marriage and love, tugging at her, making it impossible for her to move forward with ease, unable to spread her wings and fly.
She has been working for many years, but she doesn't have a penny in her hand. All of her money was remitted back to her family to buy a house for her brother and sister-in-law, to provide medical treatment for her paralyzed father, to support her mother and her rotten brother and sister-in-law, and to raise her little nephew.
Her family is a daunting mess, a hot potato. She desperately needs to find someone rich to take this mess over so she can catch her breath and relax.
Unfortunately everyone is clear-eyed, who wants to take the initiative to jump into the fire pit?
Fan Shengmei's misfortune lies in her poor family background, as well as her rotten, old, uninspiring family concept. She wants to make a turnaround battle by climbing up the ladder and realizing the class leap from the humble family to the upper class, but it's not possible.
02
Not coincidentally, recently Tencent News has such a report: "90 actress to support the whole family desperately shooting to make money, 26 years old died of cancer".
The actress is Xu Ting, who is known as "Little Zhao Yazhi".
She was born in a poor family, because of the parents of the old corrupt ideas of son preference, gave birth to six daughters after finally hoping for a son, due to the number of children, the family's financial situation has been very poor.
After dropping out of college, Xu Ting took the only 300 dollars she had with her and drifted north.
Five years after her debut, she has shot dozens of TV dramas. Every day, she stayed up late to read scripts, and soaked in icy water to shoot scenes in the winter. She had to work hard to earn money for her brother to pay tuition, pay the rent, pay the debt for her parents, buy a house ......
At the age of 26, she learned that she was suffering from cancer, and actually had a hint of relief in her heart, feeling relieved!
If Fan Shengmei's origin is sympathetic, then Xu Ting's life encounter is more like a roller coaster.
Entering the entertainment industry, the family's glory and wealth is only a line away, close to the eye, a village second-generation among the upper class of the dream is also close to the eye. But the fate of the cable car turned sharply down, Xu Ting is sick, the family's dream of ascension into a ground of glass slag.
This is life, you are not traveling light alone, but with a group of people.
Xu Ting died, exhausted, like a hero for her family's origins.
03
Those who are held back by their poor family origins, besides Fan Shengmei and Xu Ting, there is also my classmate Lin Hui.
Lin Hui is also a typical village second-generation, her parents' biggest wish is that she can go to college, and after graduation, enter the system, get into the civil service, doctors, or become a teacher, and then get an iron rice bowl, and then the whole life will be a comfortable and stable life.
Lin Hui is very understanding, but also very competitive, she knows the hardship of a rural family to provide a college student, study extra hard.
She graduated from her senior year of high school, and was admitted to a 211 school. On the eve of the start of the school year, the whole village came to the door to congratulate her, and she became a model of learning for students in a few dozen miles around, a miraculous legend.
The most common thing that people say to their children is that if they get a good university degree like Lin Hui, their parents will be lucky.
Lin Hui's parents were so happy that their daughter's success added honor to their faces, and they walked from the west to the east of the village, which was a lot straighter than before.
Lin Hui after graduation, work harder than studying, she wants to buy a house in the city, to bring the parents to the city to live. Let the parents who have been poor all their lives to enjoy a good life in the city, and spend the rest of their lives.
In her seventh year of work, she finally realized her wish and made a down payment on a 70-square-meter house.
The first time I saw this, I was able to get my hands on a new house, and I was able to get my hands on a new house, and I was able to get my hands on a new house, and I was able to get my hands on a new house, and I was able to get my hands on a new house.
According to the plan, the parents went to the city, did not go to find any work, usually play chess, square dancing, shopping. The heart of Lin Hui is very pleased to have them accompanied, really good.
But soon, the new worries came, a person's expenses, all of a sudden into three or four, but also mortgage, Lin Hui's poor salary is inevitably stretched to the limit.
Every month the salary was just sent, the parents promptly reminded Lin Hui: remember to give your brother to play living expenses.
Lin Hui, with an "oh", hid in her room.
04
Over the years, Lin Hui has been very busy, busy with college entrance exams, busy with her job promotion, because promotion means a raise in salary, so that she is more generous, and her family's food and clothing can also be upgraded. The company is so busy that it doesn't even have time to fall in love.
A wobble she became an older leftover woman, just put the matter of love and marriage on the agenda, parents said, Huier, your brother graduated, which is not soon to buy a house to get married, you are a sister, he is your only relative, help him ah! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
This year, Lin Hui like a gyroscope day and night overtime, finally successfully sat on the second chair of the unit, began to have all kinds of people with high-grade cigarettes and wine door to door visits. After the crackdown, the delivery of things changed to shopping cards, bank cards.
The younger brother soon bought a suite in a first-tier city.
The parents were even happier than when Lin Hui was admitted to the university, and they praised their daughter for her filial piety and love for her sister and brother.
In the village, Lin Hui's good reputation has been spreading, she is a typical "other people's family that successful child", and became the village folks educate children's model: look at others Lin Hui, a person hard, the whole family has gone to the city to enjoy the benefits.
Lin Hui's good reputation for many years, until last year's reunion, heard the news that she is still single, double regulation. I have a mixed feeling in my heart, I don't know whether to sympathize or to scold.
Lin Hui's fault, just her alone? How different is she from Fan Shengmei and Xu Ting?
05
Family is their death knell.
The Chinese honor filial piety and value affection, which has always been the essence of traditional culture.
A person's fortune, brocade clothes, food and drink, if you do not take into account the feelings of kinship, share a cup of soup to the relatives of the skirt, the taste of happiness will be diluted. Family loved ones **** enjoy the happiness, is the heart of the real happiness, is that filial piety, and have a good conscience of the child.
And to enjoy it alone, it's like walking on a brocade coat at night.
Lin Hui, while enjoying the respect and praise of relatives and friends, while doing the decay and corruption of the moth, on the one hand, in the eyes of the relatives and townspeople in the eyes of the people in need, for people to solve the problem of the good, on the one hand, for their own selfish desires, walking on the edge of the darkness of the degenerate.
People, really a contradictory synthesis.
After Lin Hui's accident, her parents pounded their chests and were very upset.
Perhaps they will never think about it, a family that has been weak and poor for generations, to suddenly and completely turn around, to realize the class leap, not only out of poverty, but also very fast rich, all the pressure, all the pressure, heavy on the body of a person. The first time I've ever seen a woman in the world, I've seen a woman in the world, and I've never seen a woman in the world.
May every child from a humble background earn a true happiness with their own hard work.
May every family be a place to hold up the dreams of their children. And don't be a burden on their way to success.