Loyalty, is the bottom line of the marriage relationship, once broken, it may overturn the marriage this boat, hurt loved ones, bitter children. Although many people understand this reasoning, but the world has too many temptations, if you can not do sober mind, reflect on yourself, let yourself mature, even to the twilight of life, but also to pay for it.
68-year-old man confessed:
Now he is 70 years old, stroke paralyzed, I do not take care of him to invite others to point out, why? You only feel sorry for him now, to see is his miserable look now, completely unaware of his decades ago, the domineering, indifference, hurt me how deep, these decades ago, I'll boil ah, wait ah, look forward to ah, finally waited until he begged for my time, you know? This day, I waited for 30 years.
More than 30 years ago, he was the boss of the specialized factory, the red-hot business prompted him to become more and more grumpy, in the home, who said no two, who went against his wishes, even if it makes him unhappy will taste the taste of his fists, I am so, the children are also so.
In the impression of the children, he returned to this home not many times, each time back either late at night drunk, or please three or five people at home to play mahjong.
Once he brought a few friends to the home, the teenage children know that he came to hastily go to play with their classmates, for fear of where to provoke him upset to scolding.
I know that they came to eat and drink, play mahjong, simply say hello and go back to the room, because the menstrual period stomach is not comfortable, want to lie down for a while, he looked at me like this, actually said that I do not give him face in front of his friends, into the house to beat me, but also I have to two days of good food and good drink hospitality, or else, by no means let go of me.
That era of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and now different, after serving the family also have to go to take care of the legs and feet of the mother-in-law, mother-in-law, although often lying in bed, but know that he is on my look, and therefore do not teach her son, but also so in front of me to taunt me useless, can not control their own men, a superior, overriding all the appearance of the finger on me, a bad mouth on the scolding.
Some people say, so life why not divorce? Of course I thought, just forced by outside pressure, to know that era of women's divorce is not unusual, who divorced will be looking for someone to point, not to mention that there are a pair of children need me, if I go, he married a new love, that suffering is not still a child? So, I have been enduring.
Speaking of the new love, he more than once outside the flowers, and even brought home to spend the night.
Once late at night, he was drunk and brought back a woman in her twenties, his son saw the gas and he fought, in the face of his own son, he actually hit so hard, his son left home that late at night, gave up his studies, and never wanted to come back, poor, that time is only 17 years old.
No way of doing business as big as there is a failure of the day, after a few years, the factory closed down, when he was around the people who flattered him to leave him, a devastating loss of his every day is not to get drunk, is to wander around, no money know to look for me, do not give to hit, and I, fortunately, in his business when he saved some money, opened a kiosk, to maintain a large expenses.
How many days and nights I have hated him hate his teeth, looking forward to the day he fell into my hands, at my mercy.
Later, after many years outside of the son after their own efforts in the big city home, the daughter also found a good home, filial piety of the children received me to their place, every day shopping, dancing, finally a few days of comfortable days.
And he, the children do not want to take care of, even if he more accusations, abuse, but nowadays, different from the past, can not let him loose.
Two years ago, he suddenly suffered a stroke paralyzed, needing people to take care of all the time, but still do not change the temper, think of their own life, waiting for this day, waiting for nearly 30 years, and now you want to suppress me, why, so I do not want to take care of him in his heart, his son found a live-in nanny to take care of him, but also considered filial piety.
Without the suffering of others, do not persuade others to be good, now I do not take care of him, living a leisurely life of shopping, dancing on the point of view, who can know just a few words of complaint compared to the torment I have spent most of my life is only the tip of the iceberg?
The true picture of everyone's old age is the result of what they did when they were young. Or lonely or miserable, in the end, no one can escape.
No matter what people, at what time, facing what people, we must be good, planting melon get melon, planting beans get beans, planting goodness, harvesting is naturally a blessing, planting evil, harvesting can only be bleak.