As the saying goes, "when a man is married, when a woman is married", words, but everyone married whether the happiness, or one thing, for example, for women in rural areas, marriage is inevitable, but after the marriage brings a lot of trouble has become a lot of women's difficulties, especially in the past by the preaching of the "daughter-in-law boiled into a grandmother" and so on, in addition, there are at home to take care of children, take care of the in-laws and so on various problems, for this reason, it seems that for women in rural areas, marriage seems to be unfortunate.
It is believed that for every person to be married, the desired marriage is not a male dominated, female dominated, either working outside during the day, the evening at home together to do housework, look at the children, weekends can go out shopping and so on, living "a house of two people, three meals and four seasons," the life, or to say that it is living "Sunrise to work, sunset embrace" life, but this is for the city people's love, rural people and how it? It seems that they always give people a strong feeling, so rural married women at night will want to work outside the husband? Listen to what these 3 women say?
Think, sometimes want to divorce Meiling and Xiaojun get along with 3 months after the marriage, the two are growing up in the countryside, although it is said that there is no degree of culture, but the two have been working in the city, but it is in the hometown of the wedding set up after the wedding in the hometown of the life of the living, and now has been married for 2 years, the child has been 1 year old, but with the Xiao-jun only in the outdated festivities can meet on the Sometimes, Mei Ling alone at home are wondering if this can go on, they are not free nannies, why do you want to get married to take care of the children and in-laws to it?
Ellen can be said to still be quite good, a son and a daughter, but ultimately a woman, a lot of things still need a man to manipulate, for which their own men are not at home, some times think of it feel aggrieved, especially living in the countryside, spring planting and fall harvesting for a woman is very difficult, for this reason, Eileen herself said: "Often fall asleep at night, think of their own lives, and then think of it. When I think about my life, I feel aggrieved, but although it is said to think, but what can be done? A lot of things do not still need to solve themselves." No wonder, after all, distant water can not quench the thirst of the near.
Junying can say that his daughter has married, his son is facing a daughter-in-law, for this reason, for the city people, every day, square dancing, with grandchildren, but they live in the countryside and men, but also for their sons to earn money to marry a daughter-in-law, for this reason, they have to go out to work and men, and is still living apart, for this reason, Junying also said that, frankly, is that the two people are in their own lives, the so-called husband and wife is just a name.
In fact, such problems in the countryside abound, rural women also long for a double life, but forced to live under pressure can only be a man working outside, the woman in the home hard work children, and this is exactly like what we say, "hold up a brick can not hold you, put down a brick can not feed you," in fact, not only The fact is that not only are women in rural areas suffering, but so are men.
While the two people are not together, but nowadays the Internet is so developed, daily open video or make phone calls is also possible. In fact, for women, it is also possible to find a job near their man's work when they are not busy, the two people can see each other from time to time. Although it is said to be in the countryside, but the woman can also have their own things to do, divert their attention, is also a good way.