The birth of a child also comes from the family, and failure also comes from the family.
Many parents often complain that their children have no self-control. When they come home from school, they either watch TV, play mobile phones or play games. They never do their homework or read books to review their knowledge first. When parents discipline, they will get this response:? Don't watch TV and play mobile phone after work? Why can't I? . In the face of children's sophistry, parents can't refute it. Finally, they can only force their children to learn by coercive means. However, as a result, the homework that was originally completed in half an hour has been written for four hours.
Is it a natural book or a failure of family education that children don't like to study hard and play?
Why do children have no self-discipline in their studies?
A self-respecting child must have strong self-discipline.
Parents don't lead by example.
If parents have no self-discipline, most children do.
As soon as adults get home, they lie on the sofa playing mobile phones and watching TV, and they also play mobile phones and watch TV at home on weekends. As a result of this family atmosphere, children also behave like their parents. In their minds, they will think that adults will have fun when they go home after a hard day, and I will have a hard day at school, so it is natural to carry out my entertainment activities when I go home. In the long run, children will become self-disciplined.
Parents should also ask themselves: Why should they let their children do what they can't do?
Parents don't give their children high-quality companionship.
Many parents often envy? Someone else's house? Children, but never want to be other people's parents.
Did you accompany your child to do bedtime reading? Did you play puzzle games with your children? Do you feel natural with your children? Did you accompany your child to know the truth in the story?
For a child with high-quality companionship, the heart is very fulfilling. They will not pin all their emotions on TV and mobile games. They have rich and colorful hobbies and their own life ideals and plans. Of course, it's not that they can't play, but they know how long it will be before they stop playing.
A child without high-quality companionship can easily indulge in the world of games and electronic products. Self-discipline is nothing to them. Without restraint, they will only waste their lives.
Parents often break their promises to their children.
Many parents often give their children material rewards for their good grades, but when it comes to rewards, they are told that they can't buy them. Over time, children will lose trust in their parents. In the future, children won't listen or believe anything their parents say. When parents' words lose control and restraint on children, children's self-discipline slowly begins to disappear.
In the process of children's growth, parents help their children to establish self-discipline?
60-year-old man admitted to 985:? Thanks to my six-year-old grandson, self-discipline has shaped my life.
Recently, the nearby uncle Wang has spread all over Fiona Fang. Although he is 60 years old, he was admitted to 985 University. When everyone was talking about Uncle Wang's greatness, Uncle Wang just simply said that it was all the credit of his 6-year-old grandson.
Only after understanding did I know that Uncle Wang's 6-year-old grandson had been at home, either playing games or watching TV. He was so tired of studying that he even took a bite when he was educated. Don't you adults play mobile phones and watch TV as soon as you get off work? You all have freedom. Why can't I? ? In the face of children's sophistry, parents are helpless. After all, they don't set an example and don't know how to ask their children. Every time I have an exam, I get a headache at the thought of putting my tail between my legs. One year later, the elders in my family are dragged by the teachers one after another. Will it? Ideological education? .
Finally, after a family meeting to discuss the root causes of children's problems, we made a decision to improve the family atmosphere: the whole family should create a good learning atmosphere for their children in the future, grandparents should quit drama square dance and read books with reading glasses, dad put down his mobile phone after work and picked up children's books to study with, and mom was responsible for reading with the children after cooking. With the joint efforts of the whole family, the children's grades have finally improved a lot. Grandpa, who took his grandson to study, was admitted to a 985 university at one opportunity and was admitted unexpectedly.
So, how can parents help their children establish self-discipline?
Give play to the role of words and deeds
No amount of oral preaching and encouragement to children is as good as parents demonstrating how to be a better self.
Excellent family atmosphere will inevitably bring up excellent children, which is the best embodiment of role models. Parents must become what their children are required to be, otherwise any education in the family is meaningless.
Efficient and high-quality company
Dad said to accompany the children to study, and as a result, when the children were studying hard, dad played with his mobile phone. This situation will make children form the idea that mobile phones are better than books, and children will give up books to play mobile phones. This kind of companionship of parents belongs to invalid companionship. It is meaningless to the growth of children.
Giving children high-quality companionship means that parents put down their mobile phones and really accompany their children to study, think and exercise, so that children can find hobbies in life and gain the happiness of knowledge.