When a person wants to leave the lover after an affair is not an easy thing to do, especially between you have produced a certain amount of feelings, then in order to save your family and marriage, you still bear the pain, after all, a long pain is better than a short pain.
When you decide to save your marriage and leave your lover, it is recommended that you try the following methods and techniques
1, beforehand for the lover to design a good retreat, minimize the pain of the lover, and more for his future life, work, think about it, if you work together, it is best to help him to other departments, if you have the ability to, the other side also agreed that you can help him to find another point of work, but also to send him to the
2, decided to break up, write to the lover's letter or phone call to gradually reduce, show the heat should be gradually reduced, the feelings should be more and more cold, until the loss of any contact
3, looking for a suitable opportunity to the other side of the things you send you, as well as make your memories of the things are destroyed him
4, break up after you do not go to the place where you once went on a date to go to
5, do not try to ask from the other side of the friends, family members where the other side of the situation, and do not try to find excuses to approach him, do not think about whether he is now happy, you try to think of him to live a happy life
6, do not think of you and his relationship with all the details, try to put themselves into the work or hobbies he likes to do
7, think of you and his relationship with all the details, as much as possible.
7, think of each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, think of each other has been married and another couple life situation.
8, think of their children and their husbands, a happy family life
9, think of their husbands' strengths and weaknesses of their husbands and lovers to compare
10, when you think of him when you feel pain, you go to do sports or go out with their husbands and distraction, such as can not stand the pain can find no one place to cry, to vent their emotions.
2. Write to the long goodbye did not meet the favorite lover's phrasesWith you at first sight, is the most beautiful encounter in my life.
With you a promise, is the most eternal scenery in my colorful years. I've always wanted to say, no matter where I go, I want to go to your side the most.
May we love each other until the end of time. I believe we can be together, waiting for the green silk to gray hair.
You are in, I am in, is the sea withered stone rotten. There is no excessive splendor, only a sentence I like you, but can let each other hold on to the heart.
Dear, do you know, even if all the scars, I still have the residual power to love you. Some people you only look at a glance, but affects its life.
Life is like wrapping dumplings, no matter what you are filling, I will tightly wrap you in my heart, how to cook the boiling water of life, can not wear off my love for you! Love is hurt, how many people suffer, how many memories brake, love is sad, how many cold clear, how many thoughts fall, even if the moth to the flame but still righteous, only view love, hurt people hurt themselves, but a lifetime can not be cut off, fall a long time lovesickness, how many tears of infatuation, drink a cup of cloudy wine, how much taste of the world's love! If you are my lotus, then let me keep a long love for you in this life! "The eyes are raining for her, but the heart is holding an umbrella for her, this is love. "At least once in a lifetime, forget yourself for the sake of whom.
I love you with all my heart. Please believe me.
Let the tide of love little by little phase us close to each other, no matter the wind and waves, I will be at your side to protect you from the wind and rain. I want to love a person, is to abandon everything, only wish to stay with her determination.
Love, there is no reason, due to the heart throbbing, love, no excuse, due to a thousand times look back. Even if the world disappears, my love for you is still there.
Put that oath gently wear in your finger, from now on the two individuals live forever. The only thing that will bring us happiness is the old days.
Love is very simple: one you, one heart. The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you.
Kiss and open your hand, let love stay at this moment. There are waves of love, I accompany you to see the scenery of the current year.
Although you are not the best, but is my unique, the only deep love. I would like to use ten thousand times reincarnation, in exchange for you and I a long time.
You are forever, no matter how long, no matter how far, life and death love you unchanged. The vow of mutual love will always be with you and me.
Just because in the crowd looked at you one more time, never forget your face.
Put you in the heart, closed the palm of the hand, silently praying to God to guide me in the direction, do not ask for a long time, but only at your side. I don't want to think of you as something I don't have to think about every day, let time wash away, you have stayed in my heart.
Although there are many flowers, but there is no duplication of one, but I hope you are my life has long been destined. Like you a lot of people, no lack of me a, but I love very few people, only you one! No matter how the years change, my love for you had never changed! Only for one person, the whole life, the end of the world, only wish you peace! As long as you are with you, there is what is not willing to, let me a lifetime forever to guard you! We are all unique, any one of the fate of the word let us know each other, with love let us keep each other for a lifetime! On that day, you are the end of the world, I am the corner of the sea, two look at each other. In that life, you are the bright moon, I am the spring, three lifetimes of Chinese hair, a lifetime of attachment. Love you every day, love you every moment, think of you every moment, think of you every minute, may God fulfill us in this life! Your past is too late for me to participate in, your future I will accompany you to the end! I'm waiting for you in the spring, the mountains and rivers years of agreement, if you look up and see the clouds floating on that day, that is the most beautiful encounter in our lives Three worlds, for whom to fight for the throne, and now I have the sword to the end of the world, but I just want to play the zither for you, and from now on there is no attachment! In that life, on the shore of the Xizi Lake, Jun played for Iren on the string, Iren danced for Jun, played not all the love affair in the past life, dance not finished a life of blue butterflies drunken flowers, hand in hand at the end of the world.
Waiting for the blossoming of flowers and the changing of the years, my love for you had never changed! A lifetime of love, only for Iren and pining! Do you know that you are my favorite person, for you to go through fire is not impossible, never loved so deep, met you I feel I am the most fortunate person! In millions of people, in that a brocade year that season of flowers, you and I first met; in that sunny, small bridge and water day, you and I know each other; in that the summer wind is gentle, side by side to enjoy the stars, you and I love each other. I'd rather spend my life waiting for you to realize that I've always been by your side and never gone far.
Love, there is no such thing as profound, to be able to rely on each other is the greatest happiness Because you, I believe in true love, because you, I believe in forever.
I want to tell you loudly, you have been in my world. We have said that no matter how to be good in the future, do not forget that some naive promises made at the beginning! When I think of you, you are in the sky, when I think of you, you are in front of me, when I think of you, you are in my mind, when I think of you, you are in my heart.
Once in a lifetime, to talk about a marriage for the purpose of love, and then just like that to keep each other, in the flow of the years, the years are good. The first thing you need to do is to get married and have a good time! I believe that if you keep walking, you will be able to reach your white head. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
Love is the first encounter of the heart thumping, a hundred turns a thousand times still miss. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
I will use my heart, a lifetime of time to accompany you, to protect you. The first time I saw you, it was the most beautiful encounter in my life.
A promise with you is the most eternal scenery in my colorful years. The only miserliness in this life is that you are mine.
Thinking about my future with you, everything else is not afraid of. 2016 have you with me, I believe we will certainly not fear the wind and rain.
3. lover parting mood phrasesPerhaps only a warm bed quilt at night and a good dream, can comfort every day there is too much less than we ~
Later ah, I understand the role of force is mutual. When I was lonely and self-appreciation of the words and deeds, has long become the laughing stock of others
In the past, always love to self-centered, often sneer at the light of others, familiar with their own shallow, ignorant, sitting in the view of the sky.
Well.
To the world, you are just a person; but to someone, you are a whole world.
He did not love me before he gave up ambiguity. He didn't love me before he didn't have the desire to have me. He didn't love me before he forgot to hurt me. I can't do more than that to make him feel touched.
Feelings have been in arrears, love has been suspended, promises are empty, care can not be connected, the good is not in the service area, I will use my life to cherish you have given me a "beautiful mood"!
How many people on the Q has been invisible every now and then to send a message that "still alive"
I love you, I love you more than love, love can give up on you, but I can not give up on you.
I love you more than love, love can give you up, but I can not give you up. I love you more than love, but I can't give up on you.
Dear perhaps I can only be so bold to call you here
Do not say that love is all, is a person will be in front of the interests of the nature of the exposed to become ugly, not to mention the so-called invulnerable feelings
Sometimes a person, lonely about to break down, but refused to anyone's companionship, because that person is not you.
The reality tells me that there is something not to have something. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
Why do you have to pretend, honestly tell you how you can pretend to be a human being?
I once rubbed shoulders with a person countless times, clothes are rubbed, and did not rub out the sparks.
I never felt that the beggars on the street were dirty and ugly, I just felt that they were poor and they needed help.
I just think they are poor and they need help.
The person who really loves me will never leave me. Even if he has a thousand reasons to give up, he will always find a reason to stick around-
In your heart, she is still very important, right? So to you, I'm just a pastime.
Published signature get not get flowers is not important, the important thing is that there is no one knows you in order to think of this signature do not know how hard
If I have seen the world you have seen, walked through the road you walked, is not a little closer to you.
If one day in this ten thousand lights can be so a light is for you and me and light that will be my life's biggest dream
We every step, are walking too early ah. In learning to love before falling into, in learning to sympathize with.
Many times, we resentment, depression, resentment, the reason is just three words: can not let go. I can't let go of a section of time, I can't let go of a memory, I can't let go of everything that doesn't belong to me.
Even to the planet of the Earth accident, I have to love you and you have been in love with each other
4. Lover parting sentenceWhat is love? Love has a wide range of meanings, it can be friendship, affection, love ...... of which may be people are most interested in when it comes to love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.
Love is a most wonderful word, how many people in the bitter pursuit of, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people really have eternal love? How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the first love at first sight when the feeling of the heart, love may be the body when the feeling, love may be the feeling of life and death and **** ...... love is a topic that can not be said.
When you have love for a person, your heart is frightened and uneasy, you do not know how the other side of the feelings, you have to hide their feelings, because you are a reserved person. Maybe you loved at first is simply a shadow of your heart, you gave him a dream dress, you are intoxicated in the dream illusion do not want to wake up, long wandering, tossing and turning, when you know the feelings of the other side, everything has been windy, because you have come out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you embrace has lost its luster, your life has been injected into the gray since then.
When I don't have the experience of loving someone else, I think, "It's such a treat to love someone else." When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But no matter love and be loved, are so sad, because the human heart is always so unpredictable, desire is always so things for her, can only be rubbing shoulders.
Nothing can go deep into her heart. Like a disheveled and bleak flower, with a posture of despair but tilting an innocent face, smiling at all the cruelty and humiliation.
The deep dark green color is without tears. Such a flower that always blooms in the darkness does not believe in tears, and is destined to be alone for a lifetime.
Often, in the crowded sea of people, feel the extension of many strangers, sounds, smells, chaotic and noisy. And quiet down and then go to see, go to hear, go to feel hard to fill, with love and be loved there is a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, with love and be loved is also more emotional world of entanglement.
Love and be loved by the wrong car, love and be loved by the uncomprehending, love and be loved by the constraints, love and be loved by the helplessness of the ...... vast earth, for a disappointed in the world and the heart of the loveless people, to where it is not the same? Forever walking on the road, all the love, suddenly it will be realized that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.
There are many people who have no soul. Mediocre living, no purpose, do not know why to live also never think of living is for what.
There may be more and more such people in this world. He is always looking for the person who has the same feeling as him/her.
5. Lover's Parting SentencesWhat is love? Love has a wide range of meanings, it can be friendship, affection, love ...... of which probably people are most interested in when it comes to love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.
Love is a most wonderful word, how many people in the bitter pursuit of, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people really have eternal love? How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the first love at first sight when the feeling of the heart, love may be the body when the feeling, love may be the feeling of life and death and **** ...... love is a topic that can not be said.
When you have love for a person, your heart is frightened and uneasy, you do not know how the other side of the feelings, you have to hide their feelings, because you are a reserved person. Maybe you loved at first is simply a shadow of your heart, you gave him a dream dress, you are intoxicated in the dream illusion do not want to wake up, long wandering, tossing and turning, when you know the feelings of the other side, everything has been windy, because you have come out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you embrace has lost its luster, your life has been injected into the gray since then.
When I don't have the experience of loving someone else, I think, "It's such a treat to love someone else." When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But no matter love and be loved, are so sad, because the human heart is always so unpredictable, desire is always so things for her, can only be rubbing shoulders.
Nothing can go deep into her heart. Like a disheveled and bleak flower, with a posture of despair but tilting an innocent face, smiling at all the cruelty and humiliation.
The deep dark green color is without tears. Such a flower that always blooms in the darkness does not believe in tears, and is destined to be alone for a lifetime.
Often, in the crowded sea of people, feel the extension of many strangers, voices, smells, chaotic and noisy. And quiet down and then go to see, go to hear, go to feel hard to fill, with love and be loved there is a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, with love and be loved is also more emotional world of entanglement.
Love and be loved by the wrong car, love and be loved by the uncomprehending, love and be loved by the constraints, love and be loved by the helplessness of ...... the vast earth, for a disappointed in the world and the heart of the loveless people, to where it is not the same? Forever walking on the road, all the love, suddenly it will be realized that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.
There are many people who have no soul. Mediocre living, no purpose, do not know why to live also never think of living is for what.
There may be more and more such people in this world. He is always looking for the person who has the same feeling as him/her.
6. Lover's Parting SentencesWhat is love? Love has a wide range of meanings, it can be friendship, affection, love ...... of which may be people are most interested in when it comes to love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.
Love is a most wonderful word, how many people in the bitter pursuit of, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people really have eternal love? How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the first love at first sight when the feeling of the heart, love may be the body when the feeling, love may be the feeling of life and death and **** ...... love is a topic that can not be said.
When you have love for a person, your heart is frightened and uneasy, you do not know how the other side of the feelings, you have to hide their feelings, because you are a reserved person. Maybe you loved at first is simply a shadow of your heart, you gave him a dream dress, you are intoxicated in the dream illusion do not want to wake up, long wandering, tossing and turning, when you know the feelings of the other side, everything has been windy, because you have come out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you embrace has lost its luster, your life has been injected into the gray since then.
When I don't have the experience of loving someone else, I think, "It's such a treat to love someone else." When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But no matter love and be loved, are so sad, because the human heart is always so unpredictable, desire is always so things for her, can only be rubbing shoulders.
Nothing can go deep into her heart. Like a disheveled and bleak flower, with a posture of despair but tilting an innocent face, smiling at all the cruelty and humiliation.
The deep dark green color is without tears. Such a flower that always blooms in the darkness does not believe in tears, and is destined to be alone for a lifetime.
Often, in the crowded sea of people, feel the extension of many strangers, sounds, smells, chaotic and noisy. And quiet down and then go to see, go to hear, go to feel hard to fill, with love and be loved there is a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, with love and be loved is also more emotional world of entanglement.
Love and be loved by the wrong car, love and be loved by the uncomprehending, love and be loved by the constraints, love and be loved by the helplessness of ...... the vast earth, for a disappointed in the world and the heart of the loveless people, to where it is not the same? Forever walking on the road, all the love, suddenly it will be realized that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.
There are many people who have no soul. Mediocre living, no purpose, do not know why to live also never think of living is for what.
There may be more and more such people in this world. He is always looking for that person who has the same feeling as him/her.